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Romanticizing Red Flags

Episodes & Epiphanies

Release Date: 07/10/2025

File No. 25 | Jets, Joy, & Jumpstarting Change show art File No. 25 | Jets, Joy, & Jumpstarting Change

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Epiphany File #25 is part love letter, part life lesson. 💌 My daughter’s back from her first overnight trip (and already plotting next year’s cruise), and I’m feeling reflective. From rocking Jets thongs for a man who wouldn’t do the same for me (lmao), to street encounters that prove I am the change I wish to see, this one’s got sports shade, MLK vs. Malcolm reflections, kundalini sweats, and a heartwarming NYC parking lot story about a 60-year-old woman, her son, and a haircut in Trinidad. �

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File No. 23 | This Is A Test show art File No. 23 | This Is A Test

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File No. 22 |  DIY, Daddy’s Genes & Doggy Screens show art File No. 22 | DIY, Daddy’s Genes & Doggy Screens

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Today’s Epiphany File got layers, y’all — from me channeling my daddy’s “fix-anything” genes to building Nova’s playpen with no instructions (Temu who?), to plotting her puppy iPad purchase. Somewhere in between, we went down a wild rabbit hole about gratitude, reading, R. Kelly, the Olsen twins, and why mental age hits different. Moral? Be grateful, stay handy, and never underestimate a woman with a screwdriver and a vision.

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File No. 17 | Transmuting the Madness show art File No. 17 | Transmuting the Madness

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I'm back with some raw, real talk about energy, music, and mental health. Today’s episode dives into how I transmute negative vibes (sometimes with a little Jazmine Sullivan imagination 😂), why distancing from negative energy works—but also how I flip it when I can’t. From busting imaginary car windows to leveling up my life with music, we’re turning madness into magic.

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File No 16. | ANNOUNCEMENT show art File No 16. | ANNOUNCEMENT

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File No. 15 | Sphincter Glasses & Blonde Wig Energy show art File No. 15 | Sphincter Glasses & Blonde Wig Energy

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Epiphany File #15 is here, and whew… this one hit different. From “if you meet three assholes a day, maybe it’s you” to me realizing my PTSD with Black hair (and yes, I bought a blonde wig, mind your business) — we diving into self-awareness, friendship flops, mental health, and why I’m real comfy rolling dolo. Loners, lovers, and low-maintenance friends… this one’s for you. 🌻✨ #EpiphanyFiles #SpiritualAF #LonersUnite #SelfAwarenessJourney #FriendshipAudit #MentalHealthEveryDay #Blonde

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File No. 14 | Cookin' Up Crazy show art File No. 14 | Cookin' Up Crazy

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I'm back with a hot plate of self-awareness and a side of raw truth (but don’t ask her to eat it right away). In this week’s Epiphany File, we’re talkin’ mental quirks, the art of rising above your own B.S., and the simple but sacred joy of a man who can throw down in the kitchen. From energy check-ins featuring Keen Streets to Matrix monologues and Drake shoutouts, this one’s short, sweet, and spicy like that perfect 3-piece from the hood spot. Press play, laugh, reflect, and maybe even order in�

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File No. 13 | Love Don’t Gotta Include You show art File No. 13 | Love Don’t Gotta Include You

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I'm back with a big dose of grown woman truth. In this Epiphany File, we talk real love — the kind that don’t always come with a plus-one. I get into the art of letting go, loving without attachment, and being genuinely happy for people... even when their joy ain’t got your name on it. From Twitter crushes to karmic clarity, this one is part sermon, part soul cleanse. If you’ve ever wondered if loving someone means they have to love you back — this one’s for you. #EpiphanyFiles #LoveUnplugged #

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File No. 12 | Baldie Don’t Do Revenge show art File No. 12 | Baldie Don’t Do Revenge

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With Epiphany File #12—a full-circle sermon on why not giving a fuck is the most luxurious form of revenge. I had a weekend so aligned, even the red lights turned green. Nova got her bougie lil thrifted step-bed, and I got my reminder: villains aren’t always wrong—they’re just done dirty. This episode? It’s for anyone who ever wondered if letting go actually works. Spoiler: it does… when you do it with love, boundaries, and a little side-eye energy. 💅🏽 Also: shoutout to Sean Price for pull

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We don’t always fall in love—we sometimes fall into patterns. In this raw and revealing episode, I tell the story of how my relationship with my daughter’s father became the mirror I didn’t know I needed. From missed signs to misdiagnosed feelings, I walk you through the red flags I turned into rose-colored poetry… until the truth could no longer be romanticized. This isn’t just a story about love—it’s a story about awakening, accountability, and the moment I could no longer ignore what my heart, my mind, and my body were trying to tell me. It’s the episode where I connect the dots between my heartbreak and my mental health diagnosis—and how the breakdown led to a real breakthrough. If you’ve ever asked yourself “Was it love or was it a lesson?”—this one’s for you. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/episodes-epiphanies--6676267/support.