277: Why Wendy Gonzalez Fires Herself Every Year, and Why You Should Too!
Release Date: 02/12/2025
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info_outlineRadical empathy in leadership isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a game-changer. But practicing it? That takes intention, self-awareness, and a willingness to evolve.
In this episode of the improve it! Podcast, Erin sits down with Wendy Gonzalez to dive deep into what it truly means to lead with radical empathy. Wendy is the CEO at Sama and is passionate about building high-performing, high-functioning teams that develop and scale innovative, impactful technology.
Wendy shares her bold philosophy of "firing yourself" annually—a practice that keeps leaders accountable to the ever-changing needs of their organizations. They break down the power of vulnerability, the necessity of introspection, and why stepping back doesn’t mean stepping away.
Wendy also reveals why natural curiosity is a superpower and how surrounding yourself with passionate people leads to greater impact. And in a moment of pure inspiration, she shares her personal purpose—raising good humans.
If you're ready to rethink leadership, embrace change, and lead with more heart—this episode is for you.
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