Ep 107 Intimate Partner Abuse (Featuring Courtney Lavalley)
Release Date: 06/12/2024
Families Matter Most
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info_outline*Trigger Warning:* This episode discusses intimate partner violence and child abuse.
In this powerful and insightful episode, we welcome Courtney Lavalley, the Children's Program Coordinator at Sofia House, a vital refuge for women escaping violence and domestic abuse. Courtney shares her invaluable experiences and insights from working at Sofia House, a safe place that provides critical support for women in crisis.
Courtney Levalley is dedicated to transforming the lives of women and children who have experienced domestic violence. As the Children's Program Coordinator at Sofia House, she plays a crucial role in providing a safe and nurturing environment for our next generation.
Sofia House:
Sofia House is more than a home for women fleeing violence. They offer parenting, group and personal coaching programs as well.
Key Statistics:
- Women are 2 1/2 to 3 times more likely to be victims of intimate partner violence than men.
- Intimate partner abuse is the number one form of abuse in Saskatchewan.
Important Insights:
- Trust your instincts. If you're questioning whether your situation is abusive, it likely is. Seek out a safe person and a safe place immediately.
- To support a survivor, be as non-judgmental as possible. Be a friend and offer a safe place.
Thought to Ponder:
Consider the roots of abusive behavior. What trauma did the abuser experience that led them to seek control through violence?
Understanding the Impact on Children:
Children who have witnessed or experienced abuse often show signs through their physical well-being and school performance. Recognizing these signs is crucial in providing them with the help they need.
Join us as we delve into these topics and more, shedding light on the critical work being done at Sofia's House and how we can all contribute to supporting survivors of domestic abuse.
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