Sonya JF Barnett: Becoming a Private Practice Sex Therapist as a Second Career | Ep 192
Release Date: 03/04/2026
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info_outlineSonya joined a life drawing class as a participant over 15 years ago. Little did she know at the time that this decision would end up leading her to hosting her own art sessions, taking it in a sexually inclusive and explorative angle, and later become a sex therapist who completed her Master’s in her 40s and now runs her own (mostly) virtual private practice.
As you can see, she has a unique story to share! In this podcast episode, Sonya and I discuss her exciting journey from start to finish, and share some insights from her lessons learned.
MEET SONYA
Sonya JF Barnett is a Registered Psychotherapist, certified sex educator, and lover of trees. She has a varied history in art direction, feminist erotica production, intimacy coordination, and fierce feminist organizing. She has written about, filmed, spoken on, studied, and is a fierce activist for sexual rights, education, and wellbeing.
Learn more about Sonya on her website, Instagram, and Psychology Today profiles.
In this episode:
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From art into therapy
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How Sonya became a therapist
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Running a private practice
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What’s next for Sonya
From art into therapy
Before joining the profession, Sonya had another career working as an art director for design agencies.
After trying out a few life drawing classes, Sonya started hosting her own classes. Later, the classes turned into a larger-than-anticipated community, which had a big focus on sexuality.
Sonya’s work with life drawing and the deeper exploration was called “Keyhole Sessions”, and it was her hobby alongside her career as an art director. However, over the course of a few years, Keyhole Sessions encouraged Sonya to step into counselling and become a therapist.
How Sonya became a therapist
Sonya played around with the idea of creating something more official and tangible from her work with Keyhole Sessions, which led up to her decision to become a sex therapist.
She got involved in as much sexual therapy education as she could get into at the time, which, compounded over time, led her to become a fully fledged therapist. She completed her undergrad at the University of Toronto.
From there, Sonya completed an online program for her Master's in Counseling Psychology, which was in 2016.
Running a private practice
Sonya sees most of her clients virtually, but also offers walk-and-talk sessions outdoors in natural settings. She enjoys using nature-based therapy and wants to help her clients by incorporating the benefits of being outdoors during therapy sessions.
In running her practice, Sonya also uses Jane App to run her systems and complete admin tasks. If you’d like to give it a try, use Jules’ code FEARLESS2MO for a two-month discount!
Sonya also enjoys experimenting with her schedule in her Canadian private practice. She enjoys finding ways to take care of her practice and clients while also taking care of herself.
What’s next for Sonya
Sonya explains how she has been feeling the lack of community while working as a virtual therapist. While she prefers running a solo private practice, since she sees her clients virtually or for nature-based walk-and-talk therapy, she does miss the community that one has when working with more people. Therefore, one of her upcoming goals is to build a peer group.
Furthermore, Sonya is designing and building out a sex therapist retreat in September 2026!
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Learn more about Sonya on her website, Instagram, and Psychology Today profiles
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