Becoming “That Girl”: Confidence, Self-Worth & Rewriting the Rules of Who You Get to Be
Release Date: 08/30/2024
The Year We Chose Ourselves: Season 3 Reflections on Healing and Growth
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In this special season recap episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica and Ariele take time to look back on the conversations, lessons, and moments that shaped Season 3—a season centered on healing, boundaries, identity, and choosing ourselves with more honesty and care. From exploring softness as a foundational human need to unpacking family estrangement, modern dating, purity culture, child-free living, entrepreneurship, friendship dynamics, and major life transitions, this season held space for the real, the tender, and the complicated parts of being human. Jessica reflects on what it...
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Emboldened Choices: Navigating the Child-Free Journey
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In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, we unpack what it means to live a child-free life — by choice, by circumstance, or simply for now. Jessica and Ariele sit down with special guest Kathleen Onyejekwe, a dynamic leader, wife, and advocate for living with ease, style, and intentional joy. Together, they explore how womanhood, success, and fulfillment can exist outside of motherhood, and what it looks like to challenge cultural and societal expectations — especially for Black women, who have long been positioned as the world’s caregivers. This heartfelt conversation dives into the...
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Purity Culture Harms: Healing Shame, Reclaiming Pleasure, and Body Autonomy
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Purity culture has left deep scars—especially for people of the global majority, women, queer folks, and those navigating the intersections of religion, culture, and colonialism. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, we explore the harms of purity culture, from shame and silencing of desire to the loss of body autonomy. Jessica breaks down how purity culture isn’t just a 1990s evangelical trend—it has roots in colonial control, patriarchy, and the policing of marginalized bodies. You’ll hear trauma-informed insights, somatic healing practices, and compassionate tools to help you...
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Packing Up, Leveling Up: How to Move Forward (Literally & Emotionally)
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After a much-needed break and a bold move to a new state, Jessica returns with a powerful episode on what it really means to step into a new season of life. Joined by her friend Ariele, the two dive into the often-overlooked emotional terrain of big life changes—especially moving—and how to maintain connection with long-distance friends. They explore how to nourish meaningful relationships, even when miles apart, and how to welcome change with grace and intention. This episode is for anyone navigating transition, craving deeper connection, or ready to move toward the life they truly want....
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A Soft Summer: Rest, Heal & Choose Presence
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This week on Emboldened with Jessica, we’re inviting you into the soft summer era—a season of saying no to overcommitment, yes to rest without guilt, and embracing joy as a radical act of healing. In this soothing, insightful conversation, Jessica and Ariele unpack what living softly in a world that rewards burnout means. From nervous system regulation and pleasure practices to reclaiming your time and energy, this episode is your permission slip to rest and not feel bad about it. ✨ You’ll hear: What the "soft life" looks like in real-time How nervous system care supports...
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Modern Dating Unfiltered: Breaking Norms, Navigating Connections & Embracing Self-Awareness
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Dating today looks nothing like it did a decade ago. With shifting societal expectations, online connections, and an evolving understanding of relationships, how can we navigate modern dating with clarity and confidence? In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica is joined by Cortenay Crosson—a trauma-focused somatic bodyworker. They break down the complexities of contemporary dating. They discuss the impact of societal norms, the role of personal experiences, and the dynamics of genuine connection. From online dating trends to understanding body language, setting boundaries, and...
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From Dreaming Big to Thriving Businesses: Practical Strategies for Aspiring Entrepreneurs
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In celebration of Black History Month, Emboldened with Jessica spotlights the transformative role of entrepreneurship as a pathway to agency, sustainability, and community investment—especially for BIPOC, women, and LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs navigating today’s political and economic uncertainty. Host Jessica Jackson, LCPC, SEP, is joined by Jason Jackson, renowned entrepreneur, partner at Futaleufu Partners, and co-founder of The Black Search Network—a growing community committed to supporting Black entrepreneurs across every stage of business ownership. Together, Jessica and Jason explore...
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Big Goals, Bold Moves: A Guide to Personal Rebranding
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In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, host Jessica Jackson, a Decolonizing Somatic Therapist, and Ariele examine personal rebrands and why they matter. They unpack how aligning your internal identity with your external perception can be transformative, allowing you a "cheat code" towards the life you've been working to create. Jessica explores the importance of personal branding, guiding listeners through the stages of change involved in rebranding. From creative tools like vision boards, Bingo cards, and intention boxes to actionable advice on hosting a personal rebrand party, this...
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When Family Hurts: Navigating the Path of Estrangement
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Summary: In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, host Jessica Jackson a Decolonizing Somatic Therapist, sits down with special guest Madeline Ammar, an Afroecletic Queer Somatic Therapist, and cosmic Faerie, to dive into the complex and emotional world of family estrangement. Together, they explore the reasons behind family conflicts, the challenges of going no contact, and the grief that often accompanies these decisions. This conversation illuminates the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and protecting one's peace, especially during times like the holidays. Jessica and...
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More Than Fashion: How Style, Ballroom Culture, and Community Organizing Create Change
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In this episode of 'Emboldened with Jessica', the conversation explores the intricate relationship between fashion and personal style, emphasizing how they shape identity and self-expression. The hosts discuss the evolving definitions of fashion and style, the societal implications of clothing choices, and the importance of comfort and confidence in personal expression. The episode also features an insightful interview with Justin Michael Hendricks, who discusses the intersection of fashion, community, and social justice, particularly within the context of ballroom culture and empowerment....
info_outlineIn Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Jessica, Ariele and returning special guest Lisa Holmes unpack what it really means to be “that girl”—beyond aesthetics, trends, or social media personas.
This episode explores confidence as something rooted in self-trust, self-worth, and embodied presence, not productivity or external validation. Together, they reflect on how many of us were taught to dim ourselves, shrink our desires, or perform likability—and what it looks like to gently unlearn those patterns.
Jessica shares reflections on identity, self-esteem, and the quiet work of becoming more at home in yourself. The conversation also touches on gratitude, celebrating personal wins, and surrounding yourself with people who recognize your value—not just your output.
This episode is for anyone who is:
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Redefining confidence on their own terms
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Letting go of comparison and external validation
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Learning to take up space without apology
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Curious about what “being that girl” could mean for them
✨ Part 1 focuses on mindset, identity, and internal shifts.
✨ Part 2 will dive deeper into boundaries, relationships, and living this work out loud.
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🎙️ Show Credits
Special Guest: Lisa Holmes
Produced by: Ariele & Jessica
Edited by: Ariele