EP5 - Turning Up For You: An Ecstatic Dance of Self-Discovery and Joy
Soul Care Healing: The Podcast
Release Date: 01/06/2025
Soul Care Healing: The Podcast
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When was the last time you truly showed up for yourself—not for others, not out of obligation, but just for you? In this episode, we explore the transformative power of prioritizing your own needs and embracing self-awareness. I share a personal story of stepping out of my comfort zone during a life-affirming retreat, where the unexpected joy of an ’80s-themed ecstatic dance opened my eyes to the healing power of playfulness and self-expression.
In This Episode, We Cover:
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The concept of "turning up for you" and what it truly means to prioritize your own needs and well-being.
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A personal story of participating in a retreat focused on celebrating life and the body, and the unexpected challenges and lessons that emerged.
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The creation and facilitation of an '80s-themed ecstatic dance experience designed to be cheeky, playful, and joyous.
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The power of ecstatic dance as a tool for releasing inhibitions, fostering connection, and experiencing pure, unadulterated joy.
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The importance of finding alternative outlets for self-expression and emotional release, especially for those who struggle with traditional meditation practices.
If today’s episode resonated with you, take the next step and join The Toolkit – a free resource to help you deepen your self-discovery: https://courses.soulcarehealing.com.au/thetoolkit
Timestamps / Chapter Markers
00:31 Turning Up for You
01:16 Celebrating Being Alive
01:43 No Woo Woo
02:53 Challenging the Status Quo
03:08 Ecstatic Dance
04:17 Creating Liberation
05:24 I Forgot to Turn Up for Me
06:26 More Capable Than I Realized
07:29 Out of My Comfort Zone
08:27 Get Lost in the Music
10:34 A Real Bonding Experience
11:29 My Brain Doesn't Turn Off
11:55 Ecstatic Excitement for Living
Resources & Links:
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Soul Care Healing Website: http://soulcarehealing.com.au/
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Email us at: hello@soulcarehealing.com.au
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