Unsettler Requests: Is It His Condition or Is It Me? Dumped and Dubious
Release Date: 12/22/2023
Egg Freezing Start to Finish - My Complete Cryopreservation at Spring Fertility ft. Dr Srini Reddy
Dating Unsettled
You’re here because you have questions about balancing and freezing, and your career or relationship, and we are here to answer them. We’re going to spend the next hour breaking down what egg freezing is and talking about making unconventional dating and fertility decisions. I'm joined by special guest, my doctor, Dr. Srini Reddy at Spring Fertility. Partnership with Spring Fertility: your first consult in CA, NY or Oregon with code JOY150 My first consult is filmed, so you can in that appointment. Join my newsletter at for more unsettling Enjoyment Endeavor updates and...
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I Froze My Eggs 2x… Wanna Hear About It Live Wednesday? RSVP
Dating Unsettled
Come Meet My Doctor on Dating Unsettled - My Egg Freezing Story Spreading my legs for SCIENCE! Weds Sep 10 at 4PST/7EST to interview my doctor, OR send this to an egg-carrier you love. Have you ever thought about freezing eggs or embryos for future family, career, or life planning but had no idea where to begin? Or maybe you just want to hear from someone who actually went through it—not once, but twice? Join me for a special Dating Unsettled live virtual podcast taping, where I’ll be talking with Dr. Srini Reddy, Fertility Specialist at Spring Fertility, about egg freezing and making...
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What Are Girlfriend Duties vs. Wife Duties? Threads Explains
Dating Unsettled
What Are Girlfriend Duties vs. Wife Duties? Threads apparently explains! Alright, picture this—you're vibing in a relationship, doing all the things, but then you stop and ask yourself: Wait… is this a girlfriend thing to do/give/be or a wife thing? We’re unpacking that strange perpetually chronically online urge. Not in a dusty "play your role" kinda way, but in a WOW we don't have any common operating terms for this way. We’re talking effort vs. expectation, investment vs. entitlement, and why the whole "wifey treatment on a girlfriend budget" debate is way deeper than just cooking...
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My Boyfriend Thought I Abandoned Him During Evacuation ft. Dr. Chidi Ohaeri
Dating Unsettled
Unsettler Request: My Boyfriend Thought I Abandoned Him During Evacuation ft. Dr. Chidi Ohaeri Psychoeducation on how we respond to our partners taking past hurt and gender roles into account. If you are dating, loving, losing anything duirng this natural disaster: I am with you and feeling for you. Dr. Chidi and I read a vulnerable Unsettler Request centering the Southern California wildfires. -- Be sure to like & subscribe to my newsletter! You can visit my website and join my mailing list at enjoymentendeavor.com Follow the show and DM me your requests for bonus episodes or...
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I Redownloaded the Dating Apps: What Changed? Dating in 2025
Dating Unsettled
New Year, So I Redownloaded the Dating Apps: What Changed? Dating in 2025: how to use these features to find love in the New Year! I redownloaded the dating apps—Tinder, Bumble, Hinge—you know, the usual suspects. In this episode, I dive into what’s changed, what hasn’t, and whether the swipe scene is any less chaotic than before. Spoiler alert: it’s probably still a lil weird and VERY full of hope! If you’ve ever wondered whether dating apps are worth the hassle in 2025, this one’s for you. Along the way, I share some hard-earned dating advice from my time swiping on over 3,000...
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Unsettled Summer: I'm Reading and Giving Relationship Advice
Dating Unsettled
In this episode of Dating Unsettled, we're (yes, you and me) diving BACK LIKE WE NEVA LEFT into the chaos of summer relationships. I'll be reading your submissions and offering some no-nonsense advice—sprinkled with just the right amount of sarcasm. Whether you're navigating summer flings or long-term love, tune in for a reality check you probably didn't ask for, but definitely need. Follow the show and DM or email me your requests for bonus episodes! [email protected] YouTube: IG: TikTok: Twitter: Connect with Joy IG: TikTok: Twitter:
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Unsettler Requests: Divorced and Dying in Florida
Dating Unsettled
In this episode, I respond to an Unsettler's DM about abeing divorced and not finding the folks she's looking for in her area (South Florida). Tips for distance and going the distance! + I will be meeting and greeting in Florida at the Miami Beach Convention Center June 14 in the early afternoon! Follow me for more details. Follow the show and DM or email me your requests for bonus episodes! [email protected] YouTube: IG: TikTok: Twitter: Connect with Joy IG: TikTok: Twitter:
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Say It Out Loud and Brown Girl Problems ft. Vasavi Kumar
Dating Unsettled
Joy interviews Vasavi Kumar () about her experiences as a Brown girl, divorcee, dater in her 40s and voice actor/author! The two really get into what it's like to grow up as immigrant kids in the U.S. with a media landscape that makes them feel Othered, with blonde white girls as the mold and parental criticism as the fire under their feet. They react to Joy's video about her voices in her head and self-talk, and chat about how you can re-frame dating woes. Say It Out Loud Using the Power of Your Voice to Listen to Your Deepest Thoughts and Courageously Pursue Your Dreams Follow the...
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Dating as a Hot Funny Girl with a Dynamic Disability ft. Danielle Connolly
Dating Unsettled
Joy interviews Danielle Connolly () about her experiences as a hotgirllll who just takes a lil bit more time getting out of chairs on dates! The two talk infantilization, common misconceptions, whether or not she discloses her disability and MORE! Yes, more. Follow the show and DM me your requests for bonus episodes! YouTube: IG: TikTok: Twitter: Connect with Joy IG: TikTok: Twitter:
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Love Is Blind Season 6: Thoughts and Patterns to Watch For
Dating Unsettled
Fun this week: DU has been featured by Apple Podcasts on TikTok and in curation with a new series! Ride through the latest Love Is Blind Season 6 drama with your favorite dating podcast host, Joy! In this episode, Joy spills the tea on all the jaw-dropping moments that have left us questioning both the concept of love and the sanity of the contestants. But hold on to your heartstrings, because Joy takes a deep dive into the not-so-romantic side of the show, character by character. She discusses the abusive behaviors she's witnessed, too. For reference - Don't worry, it's not all...
info_outlineIn this episode, I respond to an Unsettler's DM about a man who dumped her and blamed it on his medical condition..Should she believe what he shared, or is he using it as an excuse?
I go off with loving affirmation and evaluation!
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