Dating Unsettled

Welcome to the Dating Unsettled Show where we dare to date differently hosted by Joy Ofodu, a Creative Executive who has reached millions of people with my original comedy content, voiceover and original stories. I am unsettled by my Nigerian culture’s expectations of dating. I’m unsettled by American dating norms and traumas. I harnessed my inner romantic and childhood dreams of a healthy BLACK relationship to author a new set of dating rules, ones that work for me, rules that made Black love not only possible but PROBABLE. I was going to fall in love, and I knew I would find it online. I refused to settle. I swiped on over 2,000 profiles, matched with over 150 fine young gentlemen and went on about 20 first dates with some amazing guys. You already got 50 apps in your phone baby, what’s one more? Dating Unsettled, where we dare to date differently. Make sure you’re subscribed anywhere where you can listen to podcasts. Follow me @joyofodu and follow the show @datingunsettled. It would help me tremendously if you would rate and review the show FIVE STARS. Thank you for your undying love and support

Egg Freezing Start to Finish - My Complete Cryopreservation at Spring Fertility ft. Dr Srini Reddy 09/12/2025

Egg Freezing Start to Finish - My Complete Cryopreservation at Spring Fertility ft. Dr Srini Reddy You’re here because you have questions about balancing and freezing, and your career or relationship, and we are here to answer them. We’re going to spend the next hour breaking down what egg freezing is and talking about making unconventional dating and fertility decisions. I'm joined by special guest, my doctor, Dr. Srini Reddy at Spring Fertility. Partnership with Spring Fertility: your first consult in CA, NY or Oregon with code JOY150 My first consult is filmed, so you can in that appointment. Join my newsletter at for more unsettling Enjoyment Endeavor updates and cryopreservation contnet. We’re here to bust myths not brains--- we’re gonna talk about what the crowd preservation process looks like, what it costs, how to get started, how it feels in the body and to answer your questions live. In this episode, we cover: Egg Freezing 101 The Personal Side: Dating, Career & Egg Freezing Technology updates: How safe is cryopreservation? How reliable? Listener Qs / Rapid-Fire Round Big Picture We have 8 more episodes of Unsettled locked & loaded -- don't go anywhere! I shared my personal egg freezing journey and chatted with the fertility doctor from Spring who performed my surgery for a funny, honest conversation to help others learn more. The conversation was for anyone curious about egg freezing—what the process looked like, how to get started, the costs, and key things to consider. I opened up about my experience as a Spring patient in the format of a Dating Unsettled episode (and it all went on the pod after), while Dr. Reddy provided expert guidance and answered common questions. Everyone was welcome to attend this free live podcast taping, proudly in partnership with Spring Fertility. About Dr. Srini Reddy: Dr. Reddy is a double board-certified Reproductive Endocrinologist and Obstetrician-Gynecologist, committed to providing exceptional, evidence-based fertility care in a compassionate and collaborative environment. She believes in empowering her patients by ensuring they feel informed, supported, and actively involved in every step of their journey. /episode/index/show/ff859b53-1430-4af4-9cab-35344383faf8/id/38204950

I Froze My Eggs 2x… Wanna Hear About It Live Wednesday? RSVP 09/10/2025

What Are Girlfriend Duties vs. Wife Duties? Threads Explains 02/15/2025

My Boyfriend Thought I Abandoned Him During Evacuation ft. Dr. Chidi Ohaeri 01/17/2025

I Redownloaded the Dating Apps: What Changed? Dating in 2025 01/01/2025

Unsettled Summer: I'm Reading and Giving Relationship Advice 08/15/2024

Unsettler Requests: Divorced and Dying in Florida 05/17/2024

Say It Out Loud and Brown Girl Problems ft. Vasavi Kumar 04/10/2024

Dating as a Hot Funny Girl with a Dynamic Disability ft. Danielle Connolly 03/21/2024

Love Is Blind Season 6: Thoughts and Patterns to Watch For 03/11/2024

An Unsettled V-Day and Lessons from "Players" on Netflix 02/15/2024

An Unsettled V-Day and Lessons from "Players" on Netflix Join Joy in this episode as she delves into her thoughts after the film "Players" on Netflix, exploring the complex themes it unravels about love, relationships, and the challenges that come with being an adult looking for grown folks love. First, Joy reflects on the societal pressure of feeling like time is running out. As she watches the characters grapple with their own timelines, she shares personal insights and experiences, discussing the expectations placed on individuals in their 30s and the quest for fulfillment. Internet stalking takes center stage as Joy explores the impact of online presence on modern dating. From oversharing on social media to finding out everything about someone before the first date, she discusses the fine line between curiosity and crossing boundaries in the digital age. The conversation then shifts to the art of manipulating people when dating—putting on a persona or feigning interests to create a favorable impression. Joy explores the ethical implications of such behavior and shares her thoughts on authenticity in relationships. Dating your best friend or coworkers can be a tricky endeavor, and Joy unpacks the dynamics at play. Drawing from personal experiences and the film's narrative, she examines the blurred lines between friendship and romance, shedding light on the potential rewards and risks involved. Players: Finally, Joy explores the desire for the "finished product" guy—a partner who meets all the criteria on the checklist. She discusses the pitfalls of setting unrealistic standards and the importance of embracing imperfections in the pursuit of genuine connections. Recommended read: . They believe in the transformative power of human connection: "We’ve been creating the space for couples around the globe to explore their connection and deepen their relationships. You might have seen the magic unfold on {THE AND} videos, or played our card games before." I hope you get the chance to ask these Qs of your partner or date to go deeper. Follow the pod/the host! YouTube: IG: Connect with Joy IG: TikTok: Twitter: /episode/index/show/ff859b53-1430-4af4-9cab-35344383faf8/id/29962933

Listen to the Segment: Dating Unsettled is on Good Morning America 02/08/2024

Listen to the Segment: Dating Unsettled is on Good Morning America Good Morning America recently recognized me as a Dating Expert and featured my advice from this beloved pod! Here’s my full appearance on GMA and dating tips to help you build a real relationships from the apps this year Seeing myself Good Morning America was a surreal experience, one that I never imagined would happen so soon in my podcasting journey or journey as an entertainer! As host of my own original dating podcast called “Dating Unsettled”, the opportunity to share my tips for 2024 on the most watched morning show in the nation was a dream come true. The theme of the segment, “Give your dating life a fresh start in 2024,” was perfect for ya girl! I was super pumped talking about ways to shake up your love life, bounce back from heartbreaks which are GOOD, and make room for those dreamy relationships some of us are chasing. The vibe in the virtual interview was go great, and knowing that millions of folks were tuning in, including past colleagues, fellow creator, friends, neighbors, parishioners — i just couldn’t contain my heart this AM!! In the clip you’ll see from the interview, I shared some human to human advice on how I want to feel in a relationship, how possible it is to find love online (I did after 3,00 swipes), and getting into the right mindset for finding your ideal partner in 2024. More than just soaking up the spotlight for my little pod and for me, it was a chance to light a fire under people to explore new things and grow in their love lives. I understand that when I speak, other daters are motivated to action. With the whole country awake & watching, I felt privielged to help everyone dive into 2024 with a fresh take on love. It’s out there. It’s possible. It’s YOURS! But you gotta get up and go get it. Thank you everyone and thank you GMA. No better way to start the year! Joy 💖 💡tldr: I found and built a healthy relationship with a complete stranger who is now my bf of over 2 years after 1.5y of swiping, hilarity, more than 20 first dates, 3,000 or more profiles and over 160 matches. Credit: GMA / ABC #datingapps #datingexpert #datingcreator #comedycreator #datingcomedy #datinghumor #datingappsuccess #goodmorningamerica /episode/index/show/ff859b53-1430-4af4-9cab-35344383faf8/id/29861093