The Power Of Relationship Agreements with Krista Van Derveer
Release Date: 06/16/2025
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info_outlineWhat if the key to a thriving relationship isn’t better communication—but better agreements?
In this powerful episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m joined by relationship guide and executive coach Krista Van Derveer to explore how creating soul-aligned, explicit agreements can bring more clarity, connection, and purpose into your partnership.
Krista and her partner turned their 24 agreements into wedding vows—and in this conversation, she shares how intentional relating can be a catalyst for healing and evolution.
✨ What makes an agreement explicit (vs. implied—and often unmet)
✨ Why conflict doesn’t mean failure—it’s actually a repair opportunity
✨ What happens when your values don’t align—and how to navigate it
✨ How to design your relationship as a sacred container for growth
Listen now and discover how clear agreements can unlock the intimacy you’re craving.
Hosted by Amanda Testa, sex, love, and relationship coach for women ready to reclaim their feminine fire.
Learn more about Krista and get her free guide at kristavanderveer.com
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