Find Your Feminine Fire
Are you a high achieving woman ready to have more energy and sexual desire again, but feel stuck because you are too busy, feel overwhelmed, and don’t want one more thing on your “to do” list? Congratulations brave one, The Find Your Feminine Fire podcast is for you. In this podcast, renowned Sex and Relationship Expert Amanda Testa shares what it really takes to have incredible sex, enjoy deeply connected relationships, and light yourself up from the inside out. Over the years, Amanda has guided thousands on transformative journeys to heal their relationship with their sexuality, fully embrace pleasure without shame, own their electrifying confidence, and have epic relationships. Listen in to discover how to fan the flames of your Feminine Fire, fall in love with your sensual self again, and experience intimacy like never before - all in a way that feels really good to your system. Ready To Get Your Feminine Fire Back? Head to www.amandatesta.com/thegoods for free goodies and your Free Sensuality Activation! Join my FB community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/FindYourFeminineFire
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What’s In It for Me? Relationship Work from a Man’s Perspective
01/22/2026
What’s In It for Me? Relationship Work from a Man’s Perspective
What’s in it for him when it comes to relationship work? In this episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast, Amanda is joined by her husband, Dr. Mark Testa, for an honest conversation about why many men feel hesitant, resistant, or uninterested in “working on the relationship”, and why it may be one of the most impactful choices they can make. Together, they explore: Why relationship work often feels like “her thing” How avoidance and distraction quietly erode intimacy What men actually gain from intentional connection Why your relationship affects emotional environment you live in every day How simple, practical practices can restore closeness and ease This episode reframes intimacy as leadership, self-respect, and creating a life that feels good to live inside. Whether your relationship feels solid, strained, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers a grounded, no nonsense perspective on connection, partnership, and being on the same team again. 🎧 Listen in and discover why tending your relationship benefits everything else in your life. Want to experience how this works? Join them for a FREE Guided Date Night,
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Feel Closer, Fight Less And Want Each Other More: Creating Your Ideal Relationship in 2026
01/13/2026
Feel Closer, Fight Less And Want Each Other More: Creating Your Ideal Relationship in 2026
Have you ever looked at your partner and thought: We’re fine… but I don’t feel in love the way I used to. In this episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast, Amanda Testa shares why so many loving, committed couples slowly drift apart, and what actually brings desire, closeness, and joy back online. This episode is for you if: You miss feeling butterflies, tingles, or desire You love your partner but feel bored, distant, or disconnected You’ve tried books, podcasts, or therapy — and still feel stuck You want a relationship that feels nourishing, alive, and fun again In this episode, Amanda explores: Why the real relationship problem isn’t communication or sex — it’s desire How couples drift apart without meaning to The “wait and see” trap that keeps intimacy temporary Why insight alone doesn’t create lasting connection How nervous-system patterns silently drive conflict and shutdown The difference between rupture and repair (and why repair matters most) Why making connection fun is not optional — it’s essential How to create a shared relationship vision for 2026 Simple reflection questions to help you grow, goal-set, and reconnect together Amanda also shares a powerful, practical ritual you can do at home to: Remember what you already love about each other Reignite warmth and appreciation Create momentum toward the relationship you actually want Ready for deeper support? Amanda is hosting a free Relationship Renewal Ritual — a guided, private, at-home experience to help you reconnect, reset patterns, and start 2026 feeling closer. January 29th | 6:00 PM MT Replay available 100% private & anonymous 👉 Save your spot: Because when your relationship feels good, everything feels easier. Resources & Links 🔥 Free Sensuality Activation: amandatesta.com/thegoods 💌 Relationship Renewal Ritual: amandatesta.com/renew
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How Menopause Awakens Your Power
10/06/2025
How Menopause Awakens Your Power
Is menopause a breakdown or a breakthrough? In this paradigm-shifting conversation, Amanda sits down with Red School founders Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer to explore menopause as a sacred rite of passage, not a crisis. Drawing from their book, Wise Power, they offer a radical reframing of the menopausal journey—one rooted in purpose, sovereignty, and deep inner leadership. What you’ll discover in this episode: Why menopause is not an ending, but a powerful awakening The 5 phases of menopause—and how to navigate them How rest, repair, and surrender are essential to your transformation What “snudging” is—and why it’s your new best friend The surprising leadership potential that menopause unlocks Listen now and begin honoring this potent transition as the initiation it truly is.
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Pleasure, Permission, and the Power of Erotic Reawakening with Pamela Madsen
09/29/2025
Pleasure, Permission, and the Power of Erotic Reawakening with Pamela Madsen
If you've ever felt like pleasure isn't accessible to you anymore—or maybe never truly was—this episode will change how you see everything. In this inspiring and unfiltered conversation, Amanda is joined by somatic wellness educator and retreat leader Pamela Madsen to explore the true power of erotic reawakening at every age. Pamela shares the realities of helping thousands of women reclaim desire and delight through her Back to the Body method, and what it really means to give yourself permission to receive. In this episode: Why erotic exploration is never too late—even in your 60s, 70s, or 80s What it looks like to rewire your body’s pleasure patterns through immersive retreats The surprising hunger women carry after decades of tending to others How Pamela uses her own erotic energy as a source of creativity, clarity, and leadership 🎧 Listen now and reconnect with what turns you on—body, soul, and life.
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A New Position on Sex with Dr. Juliana Hauser
09/22/2025
A New Position on Sex with Dr. Juliana Hauser
Are you navigating perimenopause, menopause, or other midlife transitions and feeling disconnected from your sexuality? In this illuminating episode, Amanda speaks with world-renowned sexologist Dr. Juliana Hauser about experiencing this chapter not as a decline, but as one of your most sexually sovereign yet. Dr. Hauser shares her personal journey through a hysterectomy, introduces the concept of "agency" as your North Star through change, and offers a refreshing perspective on holistic sexuality that goes far beyond just having sex. You'll discover how to develop tolerance for ambiguity, communicate with loved ones about what you're experiencing, and redefine pleasure on your own terms. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by hormonal shifts, questioning your identity, or simply curious about reclaiming your sexual confidence, this conversation provides both practical wisdom and permission to embrace the full spectrum of your sensual self in midlife. You can find out more about Dr. Juliana . 💖 Bring Your Desire back with my Sensual Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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Hotter Than Ever with Erin Keating
09/15/2025
Hotter Than Ever with Erin Keating
What happens when you climb the ladder of success, check all the boxes, and still feel completely disconnected from yourself? In this raw and hilarious conversation, Amanda sits down with Erin Keating—creator of the Hotter Than Ever podcast—to talk midlife reinvention, sexual reclamation, and what it really takes to stop abandoning yourself. Erin shares her unfiltered story of awakening after a sexless marriage, a COVID hospitalization, a layoff, and turning 50—all of which cracked her open to a wildly new and more authentic life. In this episode: The moment Erin realized something had to change How one potent question changed everything What happens when women stop abandoning themselves and reclaim their voice How Erin reconnected to her pleasure after a decade of disconnection Why reclaiming your weirdness might be the most powerful move of midlife Listen now to hear how one woman went from overworked to unapologetically alive. 💖 Bring Your Desire back with my Sensual Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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Riding the Real Waves of Midlife
09/08/2025
Riding the Real Waves of Midlife
What does it really feel like to navigate midlife when everything around—and inside—you is changing? In this honest, unfiltered solo episode, Amanda shares what’s been real in her world lately. From the physical and emotional shifts of perimenopause to the grief of disconnection and the power of reclaiming pleasure, this conversation is both confessional and comforting. Amanda explores what it means to ride the waves of change with as much grace, grit, and gentleness as possible. If you’ve been feeling the pull to do less, to reconnect, or to surrender into the unknown—this episode is a soft place to land. 💖 Bring Your Desire back with my SensualSelf-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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Reclaiming Your Pelvic Power with Jana Danielson
08/04/2025
Reclaiming Your Pelvic Power with Jana Danielson
Could your pelvic floor be the hidden key to better sex, less pain, and more energy? In this empowering episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m joined by pelvic health expert and creator of the Cooch Ball, Jana Danielson, to explore how reconnecting with your pelvic bowl can help you reclaim your vitality, confidence, and turn-on. We talk about what’s really going on with pelvic floor dysfunction—and how healing this part of your body impacts everything from digestion to emotional regulation to intimacy. You’ll learn: Why “tight” isn’t the same as “strong” when it comes to your core The role of fascia, breath, and the vagus nerve in healing your pelvic floor How the Cooch Ball works (and how to know if it’s for you) Simple ways to reconnect to your body—and your power—daily Whether you're craving more sensation, working through perimenopause, or simply curious about your core, this conversation will give you hope and tools. 💖 Bring Your Desire back with my Sensuall Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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Embodied Facilitation & Planetary Pleasure: Reclaiming Power Through the Body with Nadia Munla
07/28/2025
Embodied Facilitation & Planetary Pleasure: Reclaiming Power Through the Body with Nadia Munla
What if your body was not just your personal compass—but a radical force for collective healing and change? In this powerful episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m joined by the incredible Nadia Munla—master embodiment teacher, speaker, and creator of Embody by Nadia™. With nearly two decades of experience guiding women into deeper sensuality, sovereignty, and self-expression, Nadia is a true pioneer in the world of erotic embodiment and somatic facilitation. Whether you're a coach, leader, facilitator, or simply someone longing to feel more alive in your body, this conversation will leave you both grounded and lit up. Together we explore: What it really means to “drop someone deeper” in your space-holding Why erotic embodiment is not frivolous and why it’s imperative for leaders How embodiment isn’t just personal... it’s planetary The power of pleasure, rage, grief, and play as healing portals How to facilitate safely without rescuing or performing Why reclaiming the full spectrum of emotion makes you a more magnetic, intuitive guide Nadia also shares her wisdom on facilitating from a trauma-informed, body-led lens, and how reconnecting to our aliveness helps us reshape the world, one breath at a time. This episode is especially for you if: You’re a coach, healer, or leader who holds space for others You’re craving more authenticity, sensuality, and soul in your work You want to move beyond the “good girl” mask and step into embodied power You know in your bones that your body holds the map to your liberation Mentioned in the episode: The Free Gift: Connect with Nadia: Website: Instagram: @nadiamunla Learn more about her facilitator training and offerings on her website. 💖 Bring Your Desire back with my Sensual Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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What Does It Mean To Find Your Feminine Fire? (Best of)
07/07/2025
What Does It Mean To Find Your Feminine Fire? (Best of)
In this special Best Of episode, we're returning to one of the most foundational and powerful topics Amanda has ever covered—what it really means to find your Feminine Fire. 🔥 What is Feminine Fire, and why is it essential for every woman? 🔥 How burnout, people-pleasing, and disconnection dull our inner spark 🔥 The truth about sexuality as a sacred life force (and not a shameful taboo) 🔥 Amanda's personal journey—from overwhelmed mom to turned-on woman 🔥 The ripple effect of reconnecting with your aliveness: better relationships, better sex, better YOU This episode is perfect for anyone new to the podcast or craving a reset. Whether navigating motherhood, reclaiming your power, or seeking more joy and presence, you’ll find inspiration and real talk right here. Bring Your Desire back with my Sensuall Self-Discovery Journal — a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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How To Create Lasting Sexual Connection With Dr. Emily Nagoski (Best Of)
06/23/2025
How To Create Lasting Sexual Connection With Dr. Emily Nagoski (Best Of)
I'm beyond thrilled to welcome back to the pod, the brilliant Dr. Emily Nagoski, author of the groundbreaking books "Come As You Are" and her newest release "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections." In this intimate and enlightening episode, Emily breaks down what it really takes to maintain a vibrant sexual connection in long-term relationships – and it might not be what you think! We dive deep into: • The 7 emotional "rooms" that influence our sexual experiences • Why pleasure matters more than desire • How to navigate body changes and transitions while maintaining intimacy • The surprising truth about what makes sex "magnificent" (hint: it's not what most people assume!) Emily also shares her own experiences, including how writing her books impacted her personal relationships and what she learned about rekindling intimate connections during challenging times. Her practical wisdom about navigating perimenopause, body image, and relationship transitions is both validating and empowering. For anyone struggling to find their way to pleasure in these challenging times (and let's be honest - when isn't it "these times"?), this episode offers hope, practical tools, and permission to prioritize pleasure as essential nourishment for our relationships and wellbeing. Whether you're in a long-term partnership or simply want to better understand your own sexual wellbeing, this conversation offers invaluable insights about creating lasting intimate connections that can weather life's many changes. Ready to transform your intimate life? Listen to the full episode above, and don't forget to check out Emily's new book "" for even more wisdom about creating the sexual connection you desire. Links Mentioned: Find more from Dr. Emily Nagoski at and sign up for her newsletter! Books: Come As You Are, Burnout, and Come Together 💖 Bring Your Desire back with my Sensuall Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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The Power Of Relationship Agreements with Krista Van Derveer
06/16/2025
The Power Of Relationship Agreements with Krista Van Derveer
What if the key to a thriving relationship isn’t better communication—but better agreements? In this powerful episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m joined by relationship guide and executive coach Krista Van Derveer to explore how creating soul-aligned, explicit agreements can bring more clarity, connection, and purpose into your partnership. Krista and her partner turned their 24 agreements into wedding vows—and in this conversation, she shares how intentional relating can be a catalyst for healing and evolution. ✨ What makes an agreement explicit (vs. implied—and often unmet) ✨ Why conflict doesn’t mean failure—it’s actually a repair opportunity ✨ What happens when your values don’t align—and how to navigate it ✨ How to design your relationship as a sacred container for growth Listen now and discover how clear agreements can unlock the intimacy you’re craving. Hosted by Amanda Testa, sex, love, and relationship coach for women ready to reclaim their feminine fire. Learn more about Krista and get her free guide at 💖Bring Your Desire back with my Sensual Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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How to Stop Bickering in Your Relationship and Reconnect Deeply
06/09/2025
How to Stop Bickering in Your Relationship and Reconnect Deeply
Ever find yourself in a cycle of nitpicking and low-grade arguments with your partner? You're not alone. In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, Amanda Testa shares why couples fall into the bickering trap—and how to break free. With real-life stories, expert insights, and somatic wisdom, you'll learn: ✨ The nervous system's role in repetitive arguments ✨ How to interrupt the "fight loop" with one powerful tool ✨ Ways to reframe conflict into connection ✨ A script for approaching hard conversations with love ✨ How to rebuild emotional safety and intimacy—step by step 🎧 Listen now and learn how to shift from irritation to intimacy. Send Amanda a direct message on Instagram with the word Bicker for a free resource of common phrases you can use to help stop the bickering. 💖Bring Your Desire back with my Sensual Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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From Roommates to Lovers: 3 Sexy Secrets to Reignite Your Relationship This Summer
06/02/2025
From Roommates to Lovers: 3 Sexy Secrets to Reignite Your Relationship This Summer
Feeling more like roommates than lovers? You're not alone—and you're not stuck. This week on the pod, Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m sharing 3 simple but powerful shifts to help you and your partner regain the spark, fun, and desire you’ve been missing. ✨ How to create a summer vision for your relationship ✨ Why protecting your time is a radical act of love ✨ Why you must reconnect outside the bedroom first This episode is your invitation to say yes to pleasure, connection, and a summer that lights you both up. 🎧 Listen now and learn how to stop surviving and start flirting again. Hosted by Amanda Testa, sex, love, and relationship coach for women ready to reclaim their feminine fire. Learn more at 💖Bring Your Desire back with my Sensuall Self-Discovery Journal—a sacred space where you can embark on a journey of self-exploration, self-love, and embracing your sensuality. In this journal, we will delve deep into the beautiful tapestry of your desires, senses, and the unique expression of your sensual self.
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Sexy Selfie Nation: Standing Up for Yourself in Today's Toxic, Sexist Culture With Leora Tanenbaum
05/26/2025
Sexy Selfie Nation: Standing Up for Yourself in Today's Toxic, Sexist Culture With Leora Tanenbaum
What if there’s nothing wrong with loving how you look—and everything wrong with a culture that shames you for it? In this fiery and empowering episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I sit down with feminist author, speaker, and expert witness Leora Tanenbaum to unpack the truth behind slut shaming, sexual self-expression, and how we can raise the next generation with more freedom and less fear. Leora’s new book, Sexy Selfie Nation, is a bold call to stop blaming women and girls for the culture that sexualizes and punishes them. It’s time to stand up for autonomy, joy, and unapologetic expression. ✨ What nonconsensual sexualization is—and how it affects girls and women ✨ How slut shaming has evolved (and gotten worse) in the digital age ✨ Why it’s misguided to blame girls for their selfies or outfits ✨ How to talk to your kids about bodily autonomy without shame ✨ The joy, power, and politics of self-expression online 🎧 Listen now and explore what it means to truly own your image—and your voice. Hosted by Amanda Testa, sex, love, and relationship coach for women ready to reclaim their feminine fire. Learn more about Leora and her new book at 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session → www.amandatesta.com/apply
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Living More Joyfully, Mindfully + Meaningfully with Judith Valente
05/19/2025
Living More Joyfully, Mindfully + Meaningfully with Judith Valente
What if the key to more joy, connection, and beauty in your life isn't doing more—but doing it differently? In this week’s episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m joined by award-winning author, poet, and spiritual teacher Judith Valente for a conversation that feels like a deep exhale. We explore what it means to live with intention, reverence, and presence in a culture that glorifies speed and productivity. Judith’s newest book, The Italian Soul, is a love letter to the Italian way of being—and a gentle invitation to slow down and savor your life. ✨ What Italians can teach us about beauty, rhythm, and slowing down ✨ How to resist the pressure of overachieving and reclaim rest ✨ The healing power of shared meals, sacred pauses, and daily rituals ✨ Why joy and reverence are not luxuries—but necessities ✨ Small shifts to bring more sacredness into your everyday life 🎧 Listen now and feel yourself soften, reconnect, and remember what really matters. Learn more about Judith and her retreats and books at 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session →
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From Broken Trust to Deeper Connection with Dr. Monique Thompson
05/14/2025
From Broken Trust to Deeper Connection with Dr. Monique Thompson
What if betrayal didn’t have to be the end of your relationship? In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I sit down with therapist and bestselling author Dr. Monique Thompson to talk about what it really takes to rebuild emotional safety and connection after trust has been broken. Whether you’re recovering from infidelity, navigating emotional betrayal, or just feeling distant in your relationship, Dr. Monique’s insights are incredibly powerful. With over two decades of experience walking couples through the fire and into deeper love, she shares the truth about what healing requires—and what makes it possible. ✨ What authentic consent really looks like (and why it’s often missing) ✨ How to tell the difference between trauma and betrayal ✨ The key mindset shift that makes healing possible ✨ Why "bad sex" might be the bridge back to connection ✨ What to do if your partner doesn’t want to work on the relationship Dr. Monique shares wisdom, compassion, and real talk on what healing can look like—without sugarcoating the process. This one is so powerful. Learn more about Dr. Monique Thompson and her work at Listen now and learn what it takes to rebuild. 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session →
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How to Choose Yourself and Live Your Yes with Megan Walrod
05/05/2025
How to Choose Yourself and Live Your Yes with Megan Walrod
How to Choose Yourself and Live Your Yes with Megan Walrod What if everything you've been searching for starts with choosing yourself? In this week’s Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode, I’m joined by author and coach Megan Walrod for a conversation that’s both deeply inspiring and refreshingly real. Megan’s new book, It’s Always Been Me, is part beach read, part soul retrieval—and it’s sparking so many women to break free from self-abandonment and reclaim their joy, power, and turn-on. Listen in now to discover: ✨ Why letting go of good girl conditioning is the key to freedom ✨ The surprising connection between creativity, sexuality, and personal power ✨ How Megan’s alter ego (and main character!) helped her reclaim her sensuality ✨ How we can reconnect with desire after major life transitions ✨ A fresh take on the inner critic—and how it’s actually a doorway to power If you’ve ever felt stuck between doing what’s expected and honoring what you really want, this conversation is for you. Megan’s debut novel, It’s Always Been Me, is coming June 10th, 2025! Learn more here: ********* to reconnect with your body, your desires, and your power — starting now.
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The Tiny Shifts That Rekindle Midlife Intimacy With Amanda Testa
04/28/2025
The Tiny Shifts That Rekindle Midlife Intimacy With Amanda Testa
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by all the advice about what you “should” be doing to keep your relationship hot and healthy as you age, you’re not alone. In this fiery and refreshingly real episode, Amanda Testa shares why you actually can “half-ass” your way into better intimacy—and why tiny, consistent shifts often create far more connection than trying to Type-A your way into a perfect sex life. Amanda dives into the unrealistic pressures midlife women face (hello, anti-aging ads everywhere!), why perfectionism is the death of turn-on, and how to start rebuilding emotional and erotic connection even when resentment, busyness, and awkwardness have taken over. Because when love is still there? You don’t need to blow up your relationship. You just need a new approach—one that’s imperfect, real, and doable right now. Tune in to this episode, and you’ll discover: Why you can’t "Type A" your way to better sex (and what actually works instead) How to make micro-shifts that heal resentment and reignite intimacy A simple mindset shift that instantly improves the emotional atmosphere in your relationship How to use easy non cheesy connection rituals to bring warmth, playfulness, and touch back into your daily life Why giving yourself permission for awkward, messy, imperfect sex can be the gateway to true reconnection The power of celebrating small wins instead of fixating on what’s missing If you're ready to: Feel closer to your partner again (without needing a 10-day retreat to Italy) Rekindle your sexual confidence (even if it's been a while) And finally feel like you're BOTH feet in (instead of one foot out emotionally)... Then this episode is the reminder you’ve been waiting for. You don’t have to be perfect to create magic. You just have to be willing. Ready to feel alive, connected, and deeply turned on again? Let’s explore what’s possible together. .
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Why You’re Not in the Mood (Hint: It’s Not Hormones—It’s Rage)
04/21/2025
Why You’re Not in the Mood (Hint: It’s Not Hormones—It’s Rage)
What if your lack of desire has nothing to do with hormones… and everything to do with swallowed rage? In this week’s Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode, I’m diving deep into a truth I see over and over again with my clients: it’s not that you’re broken—it’s that you’ve been holding everything inside. That unspoken “no” becomes disconnection. That silenced scream becomes numbness. And all of it ends up buried under your desire. In this episode, I share: ✨ How repressed anger shuts down your turn-on ✨ The surprising connection between rage and erotic energy ✨ Why people-pleasing kills your libido ✨ How to work with sacred rage (without spiraling) ✨ A somatic practice you can try today to gently unlock your fire If you’ve been feeling flat, disconnected, or like desire has gone missing—this episode is for you. You’re not broken. You’re full of brilliance, aliveness, and power—just waiting to be felt again. 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session →
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From Empty Nest to Love-Fest: Reigniting the Spark After the Kids Fly
04/14/2025
From Empty Nest to Love-Fest: Reigniting the Spark After the Kids Fly
In this week’s pod we are diving into a topic that so many of my listeners are navigating right now—what happens to your relationship after the kids leave the house? If you’ve been feeling like your partner is more like a roommate than a lover lately… if there’s emotional distance, low desire, or just a lack of spark… This episode is your invitation to shift from empty nest mode into a full-blown LOVE-FEST. 🔥 I’ll be walking you through the 3 powerful phases of reconnection in midlife: Emotional, Energetic, and Erotic. These are the layers that bring your relationship back to life—not through pressure or performance—but through presence, curiosity, and sacred intimacy. ❤️ Who This Episode Is For: The woman who feels lonely in her marriage but doesn’t want to leave The couple who is “fine” but longs for more Anyone in the empty nest or midlife transition seeking reconnection, not reinvention Those who’ve forgotten how to play, flirt, or feel alive in partnership Enjoy. 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session →
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The Real Truth About Feeling Sexy in Midlife, And How To Do It
04/08/2025
The Real Truth About Feeling Sexy in Midlife, And How To Do It
Midlife is a wild ride. One minute I feel grounded and radiant, the next I'm wondering what the hell I’m doing with my life (usually while wiping dog puke off the couch at 5am). Sound familiar? In this solo episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really means to feel sexy in the midst of changing hormones, shifting identities, and those “WTF is happening?” moments. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, tender, or just plain tired, I’ve got you. Inside this episode, I share: ✨ How I move through the highs and lows of midlife ✨ The body image voice that popped into my head—and how I shut it down ✨ Why pleasure and rest are my non-negotiables right now ✨ What it means to step into your “second spring” with softness and strength ✨ The rituals and reminders that help me feel sexy again (even when I’m a mess) If you’ve been craving honesty, permission, and a gentle nudge back to yourself—this one’s for you. Tune in now and give yourself the gift of remembrance. You are sexy. You are sacred. You are enough — just as you are. 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session →
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Your Ego Isn’t the Enemy: How to Dance With Your Inner Parts (and Still Have a Sexy Marriage) with Brittany Hopkins Switlick
03/25/2025
Your Ego Isn’t the Enemy: How to Dance With Your Inner Parts (and Still Have a Sexy Marriage) with Brittany Hopkins Switlick
Do you ever feel like you have it all together—until life throws a curveball and suddenly, an unexpected part of you takes over? Maybe it's the part that gets overwhelmed, lashes out, or shrinks down. What if instead of fighting these parts of yourself, you could work with them, integrate them, and reclaim your full power? In this episode, I’m thrilled to welcome Brittany Hopkins Switlick, a seasoned yoga teacher, author, and personal development coach, to talk about her journey of self-reclamation, embodiment, and the transformative power of parts work. Brittany’s new book, Dancing With Our Selves, is a roadmap to self-awareness and intentional living, blending yoga, mindfulness, and more to help you navigate your inner world with more ease and self-compassion. We dive into: ✨Why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies and desires—and how to shift back into alignment ✨The surprising way naming your inner parts (hello, Brandi) can transform your relationships and self-trust ✨How yoga and meditation can help you break free from old patterns and show up fully in your life ✨The role of self-compassion in healing and growth—and how to stop abandoning yourself ✨A simple yet powerful practice to shift from reaction to empowerment in any moment Listen now and learn how to dance with all parts of yourself—so you can reclaim your fire, your freedom, and your fullest self. Follow Brittany: @brittany.hopkins.switlick Get Your Free Sensuality Activation 👉 Love this episode? Leave a review & share it with a friend who needs to hear this!
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How to 10x Your Magic, Money + Movement with more Pleasure and Less Burnout with Rachael Maddox
03/08/2025
How to 10x Your Magic, Money + Movement with more Pleasure and Less Burnout with Rachael Maddox
What if you could build a wildly successful business, stay deeply resourced, and fully embrace your magic without sacrificing your values or burning out? If you’ve ever felt like success and sustainability are at odds, this week’s Find Your Feminine Fire podcast episode is for you. I sat down with one of my fave mentors, Rachael Maddox, Oracle Business Witch, bestselling author, and guide for visionary leaders ready to 10x their magic, money, and movement—while staying deeply nourished in the process. Listen into this episode to discover: Freedom to redefine success on your own terms without the guilt of wanting abundance while maintaining your values A powerful 60-second ritual you can use immediately to shift from stress to creative flow Rachael’s unique take on the 10X framework that helps you work less while creating dramatically more impact Courage to trust your intuition even when it means making difficult decisions others might not understand A practical pathway to create wealth without compromising your deepest values Wisdom for building your "coven of courage" to support your boldest visions Validation that your spiritual gifts are valuable and deserving of proper compensation A sustainable approach to taking risks that won't leave you depleted or in debt This episode is rich with insights on maintaining balance, creating impactful work, and achieving financial success without compromising personal well-being or core values. This conversation offers both practical strategies and soul-nourishing wisdom for creating success without selling out or self-extracting. Connect with Rachael and learn more about Folllow Rachael on Instagram Listen to her
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How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex (Without It Feeling Awkward or Leading to a Fight)
03/03/2025
How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex (Without It Feeling Awkward or Leading to a Fight)
Do you struggle to talk to your partner about sex without feeling awkward or afraid of rejection? You’re not alone. Even the most confident, high-achieving women can freeze up when it comes to expressing their desires. In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m sharing practical tools and word-for-word scripts to help you navigate these conversations with confidence, clarity, and ease—without making your partner defensive or shutting down. You’ll discover: 🔥 How to bring up intimacy in a way that feels natural and inviting 🔥 Why nervous system regulation is key to sexual communication 🔥 The biggest mistakes we make when discussing sex—and how to avoid them 🔥 Playful, low-pressure ways to make intimacy talks fun and ongoing Your pleasure matters, and open communication is the key to deeper connection. Tune in and start transforming your relationship today! 💖 Want personalized, confidential 1-1 support? Book a private coaching session → www.amandatesta.com/apply
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How Sacred Sexuality Revolutionizes Relationships
02/23/2025
How Sacred Sexuality Revolutionizes Relationships
In this intimate and powerful episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, host Amanda Testa brings you inside a special conversation with accomplished VITA Sex, Love and Relationship coaches as they explore how sacred sexuality can transform partnerships and personal growth. 🌟 Episode Highlights: What sacred sexuality really means and how it differs from conventional views of intimacy How sacred practices can heal trauma, rebuild trust, and deepen connection Personal stories of transformation in relationships through sacred sexuality work Ways to move from performative to authentic intimate experiences The connection between sacred sexuality and overall life resilience How these practices support couples facing challenges like perimenopause, health issues, and intimacy blocks Featured Guests Include: Girisha Andrea Steigler Sasha Ostara Charlotte Eastaugh Ksenya Egorova Aurora Sunu Marianne Van Katwijk Kate Carson Harmony Scott Key Takeaways: Sacred sexuality provides an anchor for relationships during times of change and challenge The practices help develop sexual sovereignty and deeper self-connection Partners may be at different places in their journey - and that's okay These tools can revitalize intimacy even after years without physical connection Sacred sexuality connects us to our life force energy and innate wholeness If you're ready to revolutionize your relationship through sacred practices and tap into deeper realms of pleasure, connection and healing - this episode is for you. Listen now and discover how sacred sexuality could transform your partnerships and awaken your authentic erotic nature.
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Unlocking Wealth and Deepening Love Through Human Design with Allie Kuhland
02/19/2025
Unlocking Wealth and Deepening Love Through Human Design with Allie Kuhland
Are you a high-achieving woman who feels like you're hustling hard but still feeling drained? Maybe you're crushing it in corporate, running your own business, or juggling life as a busy mom - but something still feels off? Today's episode is going to completely transform how you think about success, love, and making decisions. I'm sitting down with the incredible Allie Kuhland, a certified life coach and Human Design expert who went from burning out in tech to tripling her income while actually feeling better. (And yes, she did this while conquering 100-mile races and summiting some of the world's highest peaks!) We're diving deep into: • Why your decision-making style might be sabotaging your success • How to stop keeping score in your relationship and deepen intimacy • How your sacral center holds the key to unlocking pleasure • Why your partner's Human Design could be the secret to better communication • How to create wealth and success without burning out Plus, Allie shares vulnerable stories about how understanding her husband's Human Design transformed their marriage and parenting. If you're ready to stop forcing yourself to fit into someone else's blueprint and start living in alignment with your unique design, this episode is for you. : to receive your complimentary Sensual Self Discovery Kit Journal, Self Love Meditation, and Activation Practice
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The Pleasure Rebellion: Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power
02/10/2025
The Pleasure Rebellion: Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power
What if reclaiming your pleasure was the key to unlocking your deepest confidence, your most powerful leadership, and your greatest success? In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, host Amanda Testa dives into a conversation that is more urgent than ever—why reclaiming your sexuality isn’t just about feeling good, but about reclaiming your power. For centuries, women have been conditioned to shrink, suppress, and silence their desires—in the bedroom, in their careers, and in their lives. But here’s the truth: A woman who fully owns her pleasure is a woman who cannot be controlled. Join us as we explore: 🔥 The shocking reality of the orgasm gap and how it reflects deeper systemic conditioning. 🔥 The link between sexuality and success—why turned-on women attract more money, joy, and opportunity. 🔥 How cultural and religious narratives have taught women to fear their own power—and how to break free. 🔥 Why reclaiming pleasure is not just personal—it’s a radical act of liberation. 🔥 Practical tools to start embodying more pleasure and self-trust in your daily life. Ready to step into your full, turned-on power? to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!
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The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired: Grace & Mercy in Relationships
02/05/2025
The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired: Grace & Mercy in Relationships
Want to know the secret to avoiding petty fights and deepening intimacy in your relationship? In this week's Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast I'm joined by my husband Dr. Mark Testa, and we explore two powerful relationship tools that have been creating more harmony in our relationship: grace and mercy. Learn the true definitions of these transformative concepts (beyond their religious context) and discover a practical 4-step framework to stop relationship triggers before they escalate. We share vulnerable stories from our own marriage, discuss how these practices create the safety needed for deeper sexual intimacy, and offer real examples of applying these principles in everyday situations. Whether you're struggling with resentment, seeking more understanding in your relationship, or ready to create deeper connection with your partner, this episode provides actionable tools to enhance your relationship today. Plus, learn how to maintain boundaries while practicing compassion. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone wanting to create more love and understanding in their relationship. Enjoy!
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Staying Empowered When Things Feel Chaotic with Carrie Koh
01/27/2025
Staying Empowered When Things Feel Chaotic with Carrie Koh
Ever feel like the world is spinning out of control and you just can't get your footing? This raw and real conversation with business mentor Carrie Koh dives into exactly what to do in those moments when you feel powerless, stuck, or just plain overwhelmed. In this intimate and unfiltered episode, we explore: • Why having multiple support people (not just your partner!) is crucial for staying empowered • How to take your power back when you feel like a victim to circumstances • The importance of imperfect action over perfect inaction • Why venting is actually vital (when done with the right person) • Small daily choices that help you reclaim control • The power of celebrating wins (even tiny ones) with your support circle Plus, we share vulnerable stories about our own struggles with control, perfectionism, and the myth that we should "have it all together." This episode is perfect for you if: • You're feeling overwhelmed by current events or life circumstances • You want practical tools for staying in your power during chaos • You're craving authentic connection and real talk about the messy parts of life • You're ready to move from feeling stuck to taking aligned action Featured Guest: Carrie Koh Business mentor and founder of the Physician Influence Academy, Carrie helps high-achieving women step into their full power through energetically aligned leadership. Resources Mentioned: • Join Carrie's Facebook Group: Accelerate Your Impact with Energetically Aligned Leadership Strategies • Follow Carrie on Insta, TikTok @carrie_e_koh & LinkedIn: • Learn more:
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