The Real Midlife Crisis: Healing After Decades in Diet Culture
Release Date: 05/25/2025
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The Truth About Your Ideal Body (Especially After 40)
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info_outlineIn this fiery and emotional episode, Deanna exposes the real midlife crisis — the moment you realize your life has been shaped by lies about food, weight, and worth. If you were raised on diet culture slogans like “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels,” this is your wake-up call to heal.
In this episode — “The Real Midlife Crisis: Healing After Decades in Diet Culture” — you’ll learn:
🔶 The grief no one warns you about when your body ages and you realize everything you were taught was a lie
🔶 How diet culture shaped an entire generation of women to believe their worth was in their weight
🔶 Why your body is not the problem — and never was
🔶 The identity crisis of midlife (and why it’s actually the beginning of your liberation)
🔶 The woman who wore a swimsuit after 20 years — and what that says about freedom
🔶 Deanna goes full mama bear and calls BS on the culture that taught you to hate yourself
This is the permission slip you’ve been waiting for.
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