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1769: Why We Hide Our Joy — and How to Share It Openly

Calmer in Five

Release Date: 10/07/2025

CI5 1787: Accessing the Calm Within show art CI5 1787: Accessing the Calm Within

Calmer in Five

Calm isn’t something that needs to be chased or captured. It resides in each of us. It is our default. the only thing we need to do to feel it is peel away the veil that keeps it hidden. Today I talk about how that is done. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:  

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1786: Recovering from a Rough Night show art 1786: Recovering from a Rough Night

Calmer in Five

We all have nights when sleep is elusive and the mind seems determined to wander everywhere except toward rest. When that happens, the next day can feel heavy before it even begins. In today’s episode, I talk about how to meet those mornings with kindness rather than frustration. Instead of fighting the fatigue or judging ourselves for a restless night, we can approach the day with gentleness, patience, and a little extra compassion for ourselves. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose...

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1785: Don't Borrow Fear show art 1785: Don't Borrow Fear

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Some people are naturally fearful. So what would be a good thing to do if they wanted to be calmer? That’s easy; stop borrowing the fear of other people, sources Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:  

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1784: It Takes Effort to Connect With People (R) show art 1784: It Takes Effort to Connect With People (R)

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Some of the greatest pain we will feel comes from distancing ourselves from the world. Think about it. So many people spend their lives trying to belong, whether it is to one person or a group. To feel connected. What if I told you that you could feel happier, less alone, if you would only seek to find connection…but not with just one person, or someone you know, but with everyone. Today I talk about the effort needed to find that bond with people. But I’ll also talk about the benefits. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it...

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1783: Your Soul Will Always Guide You When You're Quiet show art 1783: Your Soul Will Always Guide You When You're Quiet

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Life can seem very chaotic. The good thing to know is that your lack of awareness leads to that belief. When we are chasing, conquering and living in the past or future, we miss the lessons that our soul is guiding us to experience. When we have any practice that cultivates silence and introspection, we are able to hear the whispers of our soul. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:  

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1782: Judgment Blocks Connection show art 1782: Judgment Blocks Connection

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Judgment may feel protective, but it never creates closeness—internally or with others. In this episode, we explore how judgments quietly shut down curiosity, compassion, and connection, often without us realizing it. By becoming aware of our judging mind and gently loosening its grip, we create space for understanding and authentic connection. Calm doesn’t come from being right—it comes from being open. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: ...

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1781: Awareness Lifts the Veil show art 1781: Awareness Lifts the Veil

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So much of the beauty, kindness, and quiet magic of life is already here—but we often move through our days without truly seeing it. In this episode, I invite you to slow down and notice what awareness reveals when we stop living on autopilot. Awareness doesn’t add anything new to our lives; it simply lifts the veil that keeps us from recognizing what’s always been present. When we see more clearly, calm follows naturally. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s...

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1780: You Happen to Life show art 1780: You Happen to Life

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In today’s Calmer in 5, we explore a simple but powerful shift in perspective: life doesn’t happen to you—you happen to life. When we see ourselves as passive recipients of events, life can feel overwhelming and out of control. But when we remember that our presence, awareness, and response shape how each moment unfolds, something loosens. This episode invites you to step out of reaction and into participation—meeting life as it is, with intention and calm. Nothing needs to change for this shift to begin—only how you meet the moment. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you...

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1779: You Set Your Own Pace show art 1779: You Set Your Own Pace

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It’s no secret that the world seems pretty fast-paced. Do you want to know an even bigger secret? The world is not fast-paced…you are. As I will talk about today, you are the one who sets your pace, harried or calm. Once you know this, you can take the steps to find a pace that creates calm. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:  

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1778: Turning Inwardly Leads to a Calmer Life show art 1778: Turning Inwardly Leads to a Calmer Life

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Without some practice to help us understand what is right for us, we are at the whim of the world, society and all others we don a mask for. Today I explain how knowing yourself can put your mind at ease. I’ll give a very topical example as it relates to my life and ZC and CI5. Come listen Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:  

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Joy is one of the most natural feelings we have — yet, strangely, one of the hardest to show. Somewhere along the way, many of us learned to keep it quiet, to tone it down, or to wait for “the right moment.” But joy isn’t meant to be contained. In this episode, we explore why we sometimes hide our happiness and how sharing it freely can bring calm, connection, and light to everyone around us.

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If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm.

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