#198 From Holiday Dinners to Future Plans: Conversations That Matter
Focused Healthy Family Podcast
Release Date: 12/18/2025
#211 Overwhelmed and Unsupported… or Is It Grief?
Focused Healthy Family Podcast
In this deeply meaningful episode of the Focused Healthy Family podcast, Gina and Don sit down with their mentor, Jan Luther of JanLuther.com, to explore a truth many families never hear out loud: What we often label as overwhelm, burnout, or lack of support when caring for a loved one with dementia is, at its core, grief. As an aging loved one slowly declines due to dementia, families begin grieving long before death occurs—grieving the loss of personality, connection, shared memories, and future dreams. This episode unpacks anticipatory grief, why it’s so often misunderstood, and...
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#210 I Don't Have Time For That
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In this episode of the Focused Healthy Family podcast, Gina and Don explore the powerful role hobbies play in healthy aging—especially for seniors who have retired and suddenly find themselves with extra time and fewer daily responsibilities. Retirement can be a joyful transition, but it can also bring boredom, loneliness, and a loss of purpose. Drawing from insights shared by caregivers and older adults, Gina and Don discuss simple, practical ways seniors can develop hobbies at home to relax, stay engaged, and find fulfillment. From reading, puzzles, gardening, and crafts to listening to...
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#209 Facing Feeling Part 2: Personal Caregivers...More
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Facing Feelings - Part 3: In this heartfelt episode of the Focused Healthy Family Podcast, Gina and Don Grothoff open an honest conversation about the emotional challenges faced by personal caregivers. Drawing from their experiences as mindset coaches and family advocates, they explore the complex feelings that often accompany caregiving—chronic stress, guilt, anticipatory grief, anger, resentment, loneliness, and the painful loss of self that can lead to burnout and exhaustion. Referencing insights from the Cleveland Clinic’s article on caregiver burnout and The New York...
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#208 Facing Feeling Part 2: Personal Caregivers
Focused Healthy Family Podcast
Facing Feelings - Part 2: In this heartfelt episode of the Focused Healthy Family Podcast, Gina and Don Grothoff open an honest conversation about the emotional challenges faced by personal caregivers. Drawing from their experiences as mindset coaches and family advocates, they explore the complex feelings that often accompany caregiving—chronic stress, guilt, anticipatory grief, anger, resentment, loneliness, and the painful loss of self that can lead to burnout and exhaustion. Referencing insights from the Cleveland Clinic’s article on caregiver burnout and The New York...
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#207 Facing Feeling: Aging Loved Ones
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When a family is caring for an aging loved one, everyone is affected—but often the emotions of the aging person themselves are the least talked about. In this episode of Focused Healthy Family, Gina and Don begin a new series exploring the emotional experiences of every member of the family during the aging journey. Today’s focus is on the aging loved one: their fears, frustrations, grief, loss of independence, and the unspoken emotions that often come out through behavior rather than words. The conversation is deeply personal as Gina shares the story behind “The Hostage,” a song...
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#206 Why 92% of Goals Fail—and What to Do Instead
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As a new year begins, many families feel the pressure to “set goals” and hope this year will be different. But should we really be focusing on goals at all? In this episode of Focused Healthy Family, Gina and Don take a thoughtful look at the New Year mindset and ask an important question: Are goals setting us up for success—or disappointment? Referencing research shared by Psychology Today, they discuss why nearly 92% of goals are never achieved, and what actually gets in the way for most people. The conversation explores the differences between goals, intentions, and decisions, and why...
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#205 Best of 2025 - #186 Guiding the Journey: Understanding Care Managers & Dementia Awareness
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Gina and Don replay #186 Dementia. In this episode of the Focused Healthy Family podcast, Gina and Don sit down with Jennifer Douds from AnswersforAging.com to dive into the world of Care Management. We explore what Care Managers do, how they guide families through complex senior care decisions, and why their role is such a valuable support system for caregivers. Jennifer also shares insights about the Second Wind Dreams Virtual Dementia Tour, a powerful program that helps people step into the shoes of someone living with dementia—offering a deeper understanding and empathy for both families...
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#204 Best of 2025 - #149 Functional Medicine with Dr. Julia Ward
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Gina and Don replay the #149 about naturopathic healing. Dr. Julia Ward is a compassionate and pioneering physician with over a decade of expertise in functional medicine, offering a holistic, patient-centered approach to health and wellness. After earning her medical degree from the University of Southern California and serving in the U.S. Navy, where she practiced general, urgent, and emergency medicine both domestically and abroad, she faced personal health challenges that led her to functional medicine. Frustrated by the limitations of conventional care, Dr. Ward embraced a root-cause...
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#203 Best of 2025 - #178 Supporting Seniors at Home: A Conversation with Stuart Madow of Visiting Angels
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Gina and Don playback #178 Aging in Place. In this episode of the Focused Healthy Family Podcast, Don and Gina welcome Stuart Madow from Visiting Angels to explore the importance of compassionate in-home care for seniors. Stuart shares his extensive experience working with families to help older adults age in place safely and comfortably. The conversation highlights the many services Visiting Angels offers — from companionship and personal care to respite support for family caregivers — and how their personalized approach brings peace of mind to both seniors and their loved ones. We dive...
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#202 Best of 2025 - #184 From Medicare to Money: Protecting Seniors from Fraud
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Gina and Don replay #184 talking with Sydney about fraud. In this episode, Gina and Don sit down with Sydney Hartnett of Hartnett Health to discuss an important and timely topic: senior scams and fraud prevention. From health insurance scams to the growing problem of Medicare fraud, Sydney shares her expertise and practical tips to help protect aging loved ones from becoming victims. We explore the different types of scams targeting seniors, why they are so prevalent, and most importantly—what families can do to safeguard themselves. Whether it’s understanding common red flags, setting up...
info_outlineThe holidays often bring everyone back home—adult children, grandchildren, and multiple generations gathered under one roof. In this episode of The Focused Healthy Family Podcast, Gina and Don explore why these moments together may be the perfect opportunity to have meaningful conversations about the future.
Rather than waiting for a crisis, the holidays offer a natural and loving setting to talk about how we, as older adults, want our lives to look in the years ahead. Who would step in if help were needed? How do we want to be treated? What values matter most when it comes to caregiving, independence, and quality of life?
Gina and Don discuss how to approach these conversations with compassion instead of fear, how to include adult children without creating tension, and why clarity today can reduce stress, guilt, and confusion later. They also share insights on navigating family dynamics, honoring personal wishes, and keeping dignity and connection at the center of future planning.
Whether you’re an older adult thinking ahead or part of a family supporting aging loved ones, this episode offers gentle guidance for turning holiday togetherness into honest, healthy conversations that strengthen families.
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