Falling from Grace - On Fairness and Order
Forsaking Faith
We are facing interesting times, and because of this, Heather and I thought that some pensive, non-virus dialogue might be good for ourselves and our listeners, so today we are chatting about the idea of fairness and order that comes from growing up in a fundamental Christian church.
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Falling From Grace - On Relationships
Forsaking Faith
Heather and Christine talk about how their Christian upbringing shaped their views of romance and relationships, speaking specifically about what they were supposed to want and offer in a relationship.
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A Recovery from Faith - On Media
Forsaking Faith
Heather and Christine talk about how movies, television, and music was restricted by their church, school, and parents when they were Christians. They both say that while the limitations were frustrating, there were still good things that came from it.
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A Recovery from Faith - On Worldview
Forsaking Faith
Heather and Christine talk about broader ideals they held on the world before and after deconversion.
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A Recovery from Faith- On Recovery from a Technical Delay
Forsaking Faith
Hey, Heather and I are having some issues with our next podcast, we should be back up and running by Thursday. Sorry for the inconvenience. Watch facebook and twitter @forsakingfaith for an announcement! We miss you.
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Late Episode this week :(
Forsaking Faith
Hey all, the Forsaking Faith episode is delayed one whole day this week due to ... life? We'll catch you by the end of Monday, August 20th, though. See you soon. Heather and Christine
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A Recovery from Faith - On Sex and Consent
Forsaking Faith
Both Christine and Heather talk about the ways in which ideas about consent affected their first encounters with sex both as Christians and as Deconverts. They both have a wish that the attention that’s being given to conversations surrounding consent will also permeate through the Christian community.
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A Recovery from Faith - On Dying
Forsaking Faith
In this episode, Heather and Christine express their anxieties about death from before and after deconversion. They both talk about how death affected their day-to-day activities as well as their long term goals.
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A Recovery from Faith - On Family
Forsaking Faith
Heather and Christine discuss how the relationships with their immediate families evolved through their deconversion and what they think the value of family means to them now that they are not Christians.
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A Recovery From Faith - On Values
Forsaking Faith
In this episode, Heather and Christine discuss the challenges of developing a new value system after deconversion. Both of them acknowledge that the process is difficult because strict Christian guidelines provided them with a sense of stability. Both of them also recognize that ironically their fundamental values originate from their experience as Christians.
info_outlineIn this episode, Heather and Christine discuss the challenges of developing a new value system after deconversion. Both of them acknowledge that the process is difficult because strict Christian guidelines provided them with a sense of stability. Both of them also recognize that ironically their fundamental values originate from their experience as Christians.
Heather describes how she felt “unmoored” after deconversion because she lost the stability of Christian guidelines. She acknowledges that stability is still something she desires even though she’s rejected Christianity. She discusses her process of developing her own values, which include: honesty, integrity, authenticity, and vulnerability. She discusses how these values are actually rooted in her Christian experience.
Christine explains how losing her values was one of the most difficult parts of deconversion because they provided stability for her in her relatively unstable life. When she deconverted, she says that she was “struck by the sense of vastness of morality.” She had to start from the very beginning by asking herself, “where do secular people get their code of ethics?” Ironically, her strongest values are also grounded in Christianity. Her most important value is that she strives to see people the way that God (the loving Christian God) sees them.
If you are enjoying the podcast, please subscribe, rate, and review! Also, send thoughts, artwork, poetry, or other expressive media that tells a piece of your deconversion story and we will try to feature them in one of our openings or endings. These can be sent to [email protected]. Catch you next Sunday!
Thank you for opening clips:
Missus Snarky - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLnUOvUuMLOaoYLLS8j3c5g
Godless Iowan - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtZhXy31sCAMd5Js_k29khA
Godless Journey - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8hQVkqzFqXhhBtAKrd9ACA