Episode 179: What is Critical Memory Integration and How Can it Help?
Release Date: 03/26/2024
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Today, we’re delving into an exciting new therapy modality called Critical Memory Integration. This groundbreaking approach focuses on healing trauma by exploring unresolved critical memories and integrating them with neutral memories, fostering resilience in individuals.
At the forefront of this creation, our incredible team of panelists joins us today. You might recognize one of our team members—Estefana Johnson—who shared her insights in our Valentine’s episode. Estefana is a cherished friend of Foster Arizona. Alongside Estefana, we have two remarkable psychologists: Dr. Brian Livesay and Dr. Diego Hernandez. Both experts bring extensive backgrounds in trauma care and post-traumatic stress disorder.
Over the past two years, I’ve eagerly followed the progress of this project, and it’s truly remarkable to witness its practical implementation locally and globally.
Resource Links:
Critical Memory Integration (CMI) - ARISE Alliance Institute
Atlas of the Heart - Brené Brown
Lt. Col Mann TEDx on Generosity of Scars
The Generosity of Scars | Scott Mann | TEDxSantaBarbara
Elizabeth Feldmann Barrett How Emotions are made
How Emotions are Made (Cinematic Lecture)
Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition”
Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition”
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Chapters:
00:00 - Opening
00:33 - Intro
02:03 - Dr. Brian Livesay
03:40 - Connection is Fundamental
04:35 - Dr. Diego Hernandez
05:23 - Did I Make a Difference?
06:38 - We Did Everything Together
08:07 - Estefana Johnson
09:57 - You were Made to Fly!
10:46 - It Starts with the Therapist
13:20 - Clinicians are more than Technicians
15:42 - Survival is not Enough
16:34 - Critical Memory Integration
18:24 - The Deepest Conversations
19:00 - We are Designed for Play
19:47 - Getting Through the Bad Feelings
21:54 - Recognizing the Signals
22:59 - Tactical Disclosure
25:02 - Power in Relatability
28:55 - Where does CMI Fit?
32:20 - Integrating CMI
35:08 - Critical Memories
36:14 - The Stories Movies Tell
37:15 - Full Access to your Emotions
40:21 - Teaching Kids to Experience Emotions
43:33 - Stories are Wisdom
44:18 - How to get this new Therapy
47:10 - New Understanding
48:03 - A Hub for Training
50:18 - Resources
51:15 - Final Thoughts
55:10 - Conclusion
55:40 - Thank You!