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437: The Soft Life vs. The Hustle Culture

Release Date: 04/16/2025

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450: Summer Series - How to Use Style to Reinvent Yourself

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447: Why I’m Pressing Pause (and You Might Want To, Too)

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446: How to Make Powerful Decisions

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445: How to Create Your Comeback Story

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444: How to Make the Next Six Months Your Best Yet

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443: 5 Little Details That Have Upleveled My Health & Well-Being

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The Art of Joyfully Hustling: Balancing Ambition and Ease

In today's fast-paced world, the tension between hustle culture and the soft life often leads individuals to feel they must choose one over the other. However, finding a balance between these two energies is essential for a fulfilling life. Both hustle and softness are necessary components that contribute to our growth and overall well-being.

Host Tonya Leigh delves into the intriguing balance between hustle culture and the soft life. She discusses how neither approach alone is sufficient for achieving the life we truly desire. Instead, the key lies in 'joyfully hustling,' which blends ambition with ease and structure with spaciousness. Tonya also shares her personal journey of transitioning to video podcasting and the importance of embracing growth in areas where we feel resistance.

Join her as she explores how to create a harmonious rhythm in pursuing big dreams while enjoying a beautiful life.

Talking Points:

00:22 - Balancing Big Dreams and a Soft Life
03:45 - Soft Life vs. Hustle Culture
05:09 - Defining the Soft Life
09:27 - Understanding Hustle Culture
13:19 - Toxic Hustle and Balance
17:04 - Physiological Need for Rhythm
19:02 - Masculine and Feminine Energies
22:04 - Reflective Questions for Balance
27:01 - Softening into Your Ideal Life
29:08 - The Curated Day Practice
32:08 - Daily Intentions and Energy
33:01 - Finding Your Rhythm

Quotes:

"The magic, it lives in the rhythm and the blend and what I call joyfully hustling."

"It's saying I don't have to hustle for my worth. I get to live well now, not someday."

"Your worth isn't measured by how exhausted you are."

"You become a woman who knows how to work with her own energy instead of against it, and that is powerful."

"Sometimes hustle sneaks in wearing the costume of ambition, but underneath it's just fear."

"A soft life isn't about zoning out, it's about zoning in, into pleasure, into presence, into what you really want your life to feel like."

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