Emotional Fleas and What They Do.
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Brandi brings forward the topic of carrying "Fleas" of emation when in a Toxic Relationship. In toxic relationships, mirroring reactions can become a common and damaging behavior. This dynamic often involves partners reflecting each other's negative emotions, behaviors, and responses, leading to a cycle of conflict and distress. Understanding and managing mirroring in such relationships is crucial for maintaining emotional well-being and working toward healthier interactions. Understanding Mirroring in Toxic Relationships Definition: Mirroring in relationships involves one partner...
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A Male Listener Stops in to Share Their Story.
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A Male listener stop by to talk about not only the fact that female narcassist exist, but what happens when young children are involved. Dealing with a narcissist when young children are involved can be particularly challenging, as the narcissist's behavior can impact the emotional and psychological well-being of the children. Here are some strategies and considerations for managing this difficult situation: Protecting the Children Establish Consistent Routines: Maintain stable and predictable routines for the children. Consistency helps provide a sense of security, especially if the...
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In The Middle Crossover - New Podcast
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The Ladies join Birdman to discuss dealing with division and the extreme sides we all seem to be exposed to lately. Birdman (Rob) introduces this discussion as a shared show of Gaslight-Proof and IN THE MIDDLE, a new podcast centered around looking for a balance between the extremes. As mentioned in the episode, if you'd like to contact the ladies use the following email - The following are the sponsors of Birdman Media Podcasts; please visit them and support them when you can, as they make this show possible. Premier Sponsors:
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Interdependency Versus Codependency
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The Ladies talk about 2 very important terms. Interdependency and codependency are two different concepts that relate to how individuals engage in relationships with others: Interdependency: Interdependency refers to a healthy and balanced form of reliance and mutual support within a relationship. In an interdependent relationship, individuals maintain their autonomy and independence while also recognizing and respecting each other's needs and boundaries. They can rely on each other for emotional support, collaboration, and shared decision-making without...
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Looking Back - After The Healing
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The Ladies talk about what they remember and how they view things now. Looking back after a narcissistic relationship can be a complex and challenging experience. Here are some common reflections and insights that individuals may have: Recognizing the Manipulation: In hindsight, you might realize how the narcissistic person manipulated and controlled you through various tactics such as gaslighting, manipulation, and guilt-tripping. Understanding the Impact: Reflecting on the relationship, you may realize the profound emotional and psychological impact it had on you. This could...
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Talking about Amber (She's she isn't here.)
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Patrice and Brandi talk about their love and respect of Amber, and the Journey of how they arrived at these feelings. As mentioned in the episode, if you'd like to contact the ladies use the following email - The following are the sponsors of Birdman Media Podcasts; please visit them and support them when you can, as they make this show possible. Premier Sponsors:
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Denial - The Victim and the Victimizer
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2 of the Gaslight-Proof ladies talk about Denial. Denial and narcissism are psychological concepts that are often intertwined, especially when discussing individuals with narcissistic personality traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Let's explore each concept separately and then discuss how they can be interconnected. Denial: Denial is a defense mechanism that involves refusing to accept reality or the truth of a situation. It is a way for individuals to protect themselves from uncomfortable or distressing thoughts, feelings, or information. People in denial may ignore...
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The Mental Health Arc in a Relationship with a Narcissist
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The mental health arc before, during, and after a relationship with a narcissist can be a complex and challenging journey. Narcissistic relationships often take a toll on mental well-being due to the manipulation, emotional abuse, and control tactics that narcissists commonly employ. Here's how the mental health arc may evolve across these three phases: Before the Relationship: Initial Attraction: In the beginning, a narcissist often presents themselves as charming, confident, and attentive. Victims may feel drawn to their charisma and charisma, believing they have found a partner who truly...
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Sexual Coercion
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Sexual coercion within the context of a relationship involving a narcissist is a distressing and manipulative form of sexual abuse. Narcissists often use their tactics of control, manipulation, and exploitation to engage in sexual coercion, which involves pressuring or manipulating a person into engaging in sexual activities against their will or without their full consent. Here are some aspects to consider when discussing sexual coercion and narcissists: Manipulation and Control: Narcissists are skilled at manipulating others to get what they want. They may use tactics such as...
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Where they are now. The women of Gaslight-Proof
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Listen as the Woman give us an update of their path so far. As mentioned in the episode, if you'd like to contact the ladies use the following email - The following are the sponsors of Birdman Media Podcasts; please visit them and support them when you can, as they make this show possible. Premier Sponsors:
info_outlineWhen it comes to holidays, interacting with a narcissist can be a challenging experience. Narcissists tend to have a sense of entitlement and an exaggerated need for attention and admiration, which can make it difficult to have a peaceful and enjoyable holiday.
Here are some tips for navigating holidays with a narcissist:
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Set boundaries: Before the holiday season begins, set clear boundaries with the narcissist. Let them know what behavior is unacceptable and what the consequences will be if they cross those boundaries.
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Plan ahead: If you're hosting a holiday gathering, plan the event in advance and communicate the plan to the narcissist. This will help prevent any surprises or disruptions to the schedule.
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Stay calm: If the narcissist tries to provoke you or create drama, stay calm and don't engage in arguments. Narcissists thrive on conflict and attention, so don't give them the satisfaction.
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Don't take it personally: Remember that a narcissist's behavior is not a reflection of you or your actions. Their behavior is driven by their own insecurities and need for validation.
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Take breaks: If you start to feel overwhelmed or stressed, take a break from the situation. Go for a walk, spend time with someone who is supportive, or engage in an activity that helps you relax.
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Seek support: If you're struggling to deal with a narcissist during the holidays, seek support from friends or family members who understand the situation. You may also want to consider working with a therapist to develop coping strategies.
Overall, navigating holidays with a narcissist can be challenging, but with the right approach and support, you can maintain your boundaries and have a peaceful holiday season.
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