Ep. 321 - This week in coaching: 7 breakthroughs that prove healing doesn't take time
Release Date: 12/29/2025
Ep. 337 - I tried to fix myself so he’d come back … here’s what happened
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you’ve been thinking, “If I could just fix myself, they’d come back,” this episode will hit close to home. You’ll hear a real story from a client who started her breakup convinced she needed to become prettier, more successful, or more “enough” to win her ex back—and how that mindset kept her stuck in the pain. What shifted everything wasn’t becoming someone new for him, but learning how to reduce the desire and attachment that were keeping her emotionally hooked—and redirecting that energy into building a life that actually fit her. In this conversation, we walk through...
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Ep. 336 - Why you still want your ex (even when you know they’re not right for you)
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you’re stuck in the loop of “I know they’re not right for me… but I still want them back” or wondering if fixing yourself will somehow make your ex return, this episode will meet you exactly where you are. Instead of forcing yourself to “move on” before you’re ready, we break down what’s actually driving that pull toward your ex—and why trying to think your way out of it hasn’t worked. I’ll walk you through the shift that changes everything, so you can finally get out of the mental tug-of-war and start showing up differently. Not from desperation, but from a place...
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Ep. 335 - How she got over a 22-year marriage using the 4 stages of heartbreak
How to Get Over Your Ex
In the past two episodes, I walked you through the 4 stages of heartbreak and the specific remedy that moves you from one stage to the next. But what does this actually look like when someone applies it in real life? In this episode, you’ll hear a conversation with a Braveheart who used this exact framework after her husband unexpectedly ended their 22-year marriage. She shares what it felt like to move through the devastated stage, how identifying her stage changed the way she approached healing, and the specific shifts that helped her move forward much faster than she thought possible. If...
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Ep. 334 - The remedy for every stage of heartbreak
How to Get Over Your Ex
Last week’s episode helped you identify which stage of heartbreak you’re in, this episode will show you what to actually do about it. One of the biggest mistakes people make after a breakup is using the wrong solution for the stage they’re in, trying mindset work when their nervous system is still in survival mode, or trying to build a bigger life when they’re still secretly attached to their ex. No wonder nothing sticks. In this episode, I walk you through the exact remedy that corresponds to each stage of heartbreak so you can stop guessing and start moving forward with the strategy...
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Ep. 333 - The 4 stages of heartbreak
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you feel like you’ve tried everything to get over your ex, no contact, journaling, therapy, working out, staying busy, but nothing is actually working, this episode might explain why. After helping people heal heartbreak for nearly a decade, I started noticing a pattern: most people are trying to heal using strategies meant for a completely different stage of heartbreak. In this episode, I break down the four stages of heartbreak I see over and over again in my coaching practice and how each stage has a completely different problem to solve. When you understand exactly where you are in...
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Ep. 332 - Did I manifest my breakup? A manifestation expert explains
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you’ve ever wondered whether your breakup means you manifested the wrong person or somehow “did manifestation wrong,” this episode will challenge that belief in the best way. I’m joined by manifestation and money mindset expert Jamie Berman, and we unpack one of the most common fears people have after heartbreak: Did I create this? Did I mess it up? Jamie offers a completely different lens on manifestation, explaining why painful events like breakups don’t mean you failed at manifesting and how looking at them that way can actually keep you stuck in shame and self-doubt. Instead,...
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Ep. 331 - The hidden cost of saying “it’s fine” after a breakup
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “it’s fine” about something that clearly isn’t, this episode is going to hit. Maybe it’s staying in contact with your ex because it’s “temporary.” Maybe it’s continuing to sleep with them, keep their hoodie, answer their late-night texts, or stay in a living situation that drains you because “it won’t be forever.” On the surface, it feels mature. Low drama. Logical. But underneath? It’s costing you energy, confidence, and momentum toward your Bigger & Better Life. In this episode, we unpack why “it’s fine” is often...
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Ep. 330 - Why you still feel sad about your breakup
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “I shouldn’t still feel this way by now” whether it’s a wave of sadness years after the breakup or a gut-punch reaction to something like divorce paperwork, this episode will hit home. We’re unpacking why judging your emotions is the exact thing that keeps you stuck and how that quiet internal pressure adds a second layer of suffering most people don’t even realize they’re creating. I share a powerful assignment I gave a client inside the GOYE program, that completely changes how you relate to your feelings and why building this emotional...
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Ep. 329 - Heartbreak advice I’d share if I wasn’t afraid of getting canceled
How to Get Over Your Ex
If you’re exhausted by the same breakup advice, wait for time to heal, go no contact, just focus on yourself, this episode is your permission slip to think differently. I’m sharing the heartbreak takes I usually keep to myself: the unconventional beliefs and strategies I’ve seen actually change people’s lives after nearly a decade of coaching through real loss, real attachment, and real comebacks. This isn’t about doing what everyone else is doing; it’s about what happens when you approach heartbreak like the top 1%—with a sharper lens, more agency, and methods that challenge the...
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Ep. 328 - When your ex is sending mixed signals
How to Get Over Your Ex
If your ex’s words say one thing but their actions say another and you keep replaying every text, conversation, and mixed signal trying to “figure it out”, this episode is for you. In this episode, I break down why confusion isn’t a sign of love or depth, it’s a defense against a harder emotion your brain doesn’t want to feel yet and how it quietly drains your agency, momentum, and self-trust. If you’re tired of overanalyzing your ex instead of moving your life forward and you want clarity you can actually act on, this episode will help you drop the confusion and take your power...
info_outlineThis week, I coached women who went from devastated to empowered in days, not months. Women who thought they needed all the answers before taking action. Women who discovered that external validation was always internal all along. This episode is a compilation of the most powerful coaching insights from just ONE week inside the Get Over Your Ex program—proof that when you have the right method and support, transformation happens fast. If you've been wondering what's actually possible when you stop doing this alone, listen to this.
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