#127 Heather Bjur [Strengthen Your Marriage with Honest Communication]
Release Date: 10/23/2023
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info_outlineNext up in our marriage series, we are focusing on communication. How we interact with our husbands will either build our marriages up or tear them down. But honest, humble communication isn’t easy.
Today, I’m talking with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Heather Bjur. She helps us understand why we might react the way we do, how humility can change our relationships, how our thoughts shape what we say, and how to begin to become emotionally honest.
You’ll hear us talk about…
- Attachment style
- How your thoughts affect your communication
- Creating new neuropathways
- Becoming emotionally honest
- When to seek counseling
Heather is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist at Valley Christian Counseling Center in Fargo, North Dakota. She is also a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional who offers EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (for couples). Additionally, Heather holds a certificate in Spiritual Direction through the late Dr. Larry Crabb’s New Way Ministries.
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