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How to Say "No" Without Feeling Bad

Go Natural English Podcast | Listening & Speaking Lessons

Release Date: 10/31/2025

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🗣 Business English for Negotiations — How to Say “No” Without Sounding Rude

Learn how to say “no” politely and confidently in English! In this Business English lesson, you’ll discover 5 professional ways to say “no” without offending anyone — perfect for meetings, negotiations, and workplace conversations.

You’ll learn my 5 C’s Framework for polite refusals — practical phrases, real examples, tone tips, and short dialogues to sound confident in business English conversations.


🎯 What You’ll Learn

✅ How to say “no” politely and professionally in English
✅ 5C’s method: Check, Conditional Yes, Choice, Care, and Close
âś… Real negotiation dialogues for business situations
âś… Pronunciation and intonation to sound natural
✅ Why “no” earns respect — not rejection


đź’¬ Useful Phrases

  • “Let me check and get back to you by Friday.”

  • “We can do that if we extend the deadline.”

  • “That may not work, but what if we try this approach?”

  • “I completely understand, but unfortunately that’s beyond our budget.”

  • “I appreciate the offer, but we’ll have to decline at this time.”


⏰ Timestamps

00:00 – Why saying “no” is so hard
00:15 – Recovering from being a “yes” person
00:35 – Why saying no earns respect
01:13 – When to use the 5 C’s method
01:28 – Let’s get started
01:36 – Why this is an essential skill
02:03 – Introducing the 5 C’s Framework
02:28 – Fluent Communication 5.0 invitation
03:00 – Cultural differences: what “no” means around the world
03:32 – Direct vs. indirect communication (US, Japan, Brazil)
04:46 – How to be politely direct
05:02 – C1: Check (Delay Technique)
05:40 – Example: responding to your boss
05:57 – Why “Check” buys you time
06:09 – C2: Conditional Yes
06:28 – Example: realistic negotiation condition
06:50 – C3: Choice (Offer an alternative)
07:03 – Example: different timeline
07:20 – C4: Care (Show empathy)
07:52 – Example: understanding the other person’s stress
08:41 – C5: Close Firmly (Polite but clear “No”)
09:13 – Use softeners like “just” or “at this time”
09:34 – Pronunciation: rising vs. falling tone
09:54 – Practice tone examples
10:12 – Role Play 1: Client asks for a discount
10:44 – Role Play 2: Boss asks for extra work
11:10 – Quiz & Recap of the 5 C’s
12:40 – Why clear “no” = respect and confidence
13:00 – Next lesson preview: How to say “Yes” effectively
13:52 – Subscribe & join Fluent Communication 5.0 waitlist
14:08 – Closing


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