The Goodbye Episode
Good Girls Talk About Sex
In the final episode of Good Girls Talk About Sex, I talk about why I've decided to end the podcast and what's coming next. For those wishing to keep the podcast legacy alive, the archives are available for download at . Safeguard this invaluable content before any legal restrictions come into play. A heartfelt thank you for your unwavering support through the years. Though the podcast is ending, our conversation is not. Join me on YouTube, and let's keep working to make a more positive world. With love and gratitude, Leah 💕 OTHER LINKS: Get the archives : 📢📢 ...
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The Widow's Guide to Dead Bastards - Coaching session with Jessica Waite
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Jessica's world was turned upside down when her husband died suddenly and she uncovered evidence of his endless lies and a second life that she'd known nothing about. Had she been blind to the red flags her husband was waving? Or did she know more than she allowed herself to admit? In this special (mid-hiatus!) episode, Leah talks with Jessica Waite whose book "The Widow's Guide To Dead Bastards" is available today from Atria. They focus on a pivotal chapter from the book, exploring the questions that still linger for Jessica: What did she know? What was she intentionally blind to? And...
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Never go to bed angry & other terrible advice - Leah speaks
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Some people swear by Dear Abby, others swear at Dear Abby. Today we look at some of Dear Abby's terrible advice. PLUS: Stay until the end to hear an important announcement about the podcast going on hiatus so Leah can take a well-deserved rest. Full episode show notes: Update: Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a Keep up to date and get your All my classes and downloads are Any audio extras for this episode on the Here’s I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on EPISODE...
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Road trips and sex without shame - Pop Culture Breakdown
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In this Pop Culture Pillow Talk, I talk with pop culture critic Kristen Meinzer about two great movies: Joy Ride Plan B You can find Kristen at: Full show notes: Update: Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a Keep up to date and get your All my classes and downloads are Any audio extras for this episode on the Here’s I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey () Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara...
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Bonus quickie
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Plan B - Joy Ride - Update: Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a Keep up to date and get your All my classes and downloads are Any audio extras for this episode on the Here’s I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey () Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak
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Why do I choose narcissistic partners? - Coaching session with Sophilia
Good Girls Talk About Sex
In this coaching episode, Sophilia asks: why does she keep ending up in relationships where things don’t feel right, and the entire weight of making it better falls on her? Leah works with Sophilia to: understand the red flags for this type of relationship, the communication skills that will help screen them out, rethink her own experience of being turned on. Sophilia is a 39-year-old, cisgender woman. She describes herself as queer, single, and multi-racial with a white mother and Black father. In the past she’s been in monogamous relationships, but currently prefers the idea of being...
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When the man teaching consent is the one violating you - Leah speaks
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Last year I found myself in the middle of a shitstorm for daring to expose a community leader's abusive behavior. Today I tell the whole story. The backlash was immediate and intense, with DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender) tactics used to paint me as the problem. Suddenly, I was not just standing as a representative of this man’s abuse, but also receiving harassment and ostracization from those I once considered my community. Sharing this story isn't just about telling you what’s going on; it's about shining a light on the dark corners of abuse and systemic failure....
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Starstruck on HBO - Pop Culture Breakdown
Good Girls Talk About Sex
What happens when your brain is so busy it can't slow down to enjoy having sexy time with the cute guy who's totally into you? In today's episode, we break down the first two episodes of the HBO show Starstruck with teen sex and relationship educator Julia Sheldon. We focus on lead character Jessie and how overthinking gets in the way of being present. Find Julia at: @askauntiejulia on socials Beyond Permission class schedule: Thursday, Feb. 22 - Embracing your inner MILF with Danielle Tuesday, Feb. 27 - Dating at midlife with Leah Tuesday, March 5 - Sex toys show & tell with Leah...
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I'm having the best sex of my life at 63 - Debbie
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In this coaching/storytelling episode, Debbie talks about having the best sex of her life at age 63. Her question: Is that usual? While Debbie has always been multi-orgasmic, now she's having dozens of orgasms in a single sex session. And the connection with her new husband is a big part of the reason. Debbie is a 63 year old cisgender woman. She describes herself as white, heterosexual, monogamous, married. She describes her body as slender and athletic. And don't forget: the BEYOND PERMISSION workshop starts next week! Use coupon code "beyond20" to join us! Full show notes: ...
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Why don't you want to have sex with me?
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Togetherness is an HBO show that explores the challenges of maintaining a healthy and active sex life in a long-term relationship with small children. In today's episode, Danielle Silverstein from the popular Marriage and Martinis podcast joins Leah to discuss the first two episodes of the show. They dive into the complexities of sexual fulfillment, gender roles, expectations and resentments. Join us for a deep, thought-provoking, and insightful conversation about challenges of maintaining intimacy in a long-term relationship. Full show notes: Forbidden Fantasies Unleashed: ...
info_outlineIn this episode, Leah begins answering the Lowdown questions – with a twist!
To date, she has done well over 60 interviews, most of which have included an in-depth Q&A. As she answers each Lowdown question, you’ll hear a chorus of voices answering the same question. The goal is to remind you, once again, that no matter what your answer is, you are completely normal and you are not alone.
In the second half of the show, she answers an “Am I normal?” question about feeling attractive after major surgery.
- Chorus of voices answering “Do you have sex during your period?”
- Leah answers
- Leah talks about her earliest shame/trauma experience around menstruation, being lectured by her dad in a way that made her feel overwhelmed, invaded, and disgusted.
- When Leah gets her first period at age 12, she ignores it. Her mom discovers evidence in the laundry.
- In her 30’s, she has her first experience with a partner wanting to proceed with sex while she is on her period. He’s fine with it. But the sight of her blood on his fingers nearly breaks her.
- She occasionally will have sex while on her period with her current partner, even though she still experiences shame and emotional discomfort.
- Am I normal? question – how can I have sex and feel attractive after major surgery?
- Leah talks about our culture’s ideal body type, how we are harmfully held against a specific and limited standard, and how our belief that we are lovable is tied to that standard.
- Going to a nude sex resort helped Leah see that all types of bodies are sexually attractive to someone.
- Leah directs the audience to Instagram to see bodies with colostomy bags, in wheelchairs, and after breast cancer normalized.
- Leah talks about “body neutrality.”
Check out some of these Instagram accounts to see a variety of bodies enjoying life:
Normalizing ostomies:
Love and vacations in a wheelchair:
Life after breast cancer:
Fat yoga / Curvy girl yoga:
- https://www.instagram.com/journey2antoinette/
- https://www.instagram.com/thiscurviyogi/
- https://www.instagram.com/bipolar.yogi
Body neutrality:
- https://www.instagram.com/virgietovar/
- https://www.instagram.com/tiffanyima/
- https://www.instagram.com/jessikneeland/
- https://www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele/
- https://www.instagram.com/beyondbeautifulbook/
- https://www.instagram.com/kenziebrenna/
Update:
Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now:
- Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation
- Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game
- All my classes and downloads are at my store
- Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website
- Here’s everything I’m up to today
- I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack
EPISODE CREDITS:
Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email)
Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco
Transcript creation – Jan Acielo
Music – Nazar Rybak