Unhappily married - Tee
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Tee is unhappily married, and unhappy with her sex life—like so many people. Also like too many, she experiences the lingering impacts of sexual assault.
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I think I had a crush on a woman - Coaching Caitlin
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah shares a coaching session with client Caitlin to give us an in-depth experience of what coaching looks and feels like. They focus on Caitlin’s newly-discovered attraction to women.
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I thought my vagina was broken - Stephanie
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Stephanie shares how childhood shame led to an eating disorder, which had a profound affect on her ability to relate with her sexuality and her sexual partners.
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Dealing with post-sex UTIs
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Dr. Evelin Dacker returns to answer a listener’s question about common and chronic UTI’s that occur after sex. She breaks down the how and why, and addresses prevention and treatment.
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They can't find the clit without a roadmap - Alexa (take 2)
Good Girls Talk About Sex
“Deaf U” star Alexa Paulay-Simmons gets candid about who she is (and always has been) as a sexual person, and how that’s shaped her life.
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An error in translation
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Hey friends, You’ll notice this isn’t the regular episode you were expecting! The regular episode was loaded into the feed, and some of you may have already downloaded and listened to it. However, I made an error in the production of this episode so, in fairness to our guest, I’ve pulled the episode to fix it. Here’s what happened – Our guest, Alexa, is Deaf and we did the interview through an interpreter. It was my first time ever doing an interview through an interpreter, so it took me a little time to relax into it. What didn’t occur to me was to send the transcript...
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My pandemic sex life
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah gets real about how her intimate life has weathered the pandemic, and how confronting her partner’s depression spiral turned out to be a better strategy—for both of them—than enduring it.
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He was a god and I was a kid - Debbie
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal.
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Improve your sex life with the STARS talk
Good Girls Talk About Sex
STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex.
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I tried to pee standing up – Lachlan
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Lachlan was born with a vagina. His is the story of how a boy learned to be a girl, then learned to be invisible, then a lesbian, before learning that he could just be who he was all along, except that it’s still … complicated.
info_outlineLeah talks about a consent violation she experienced during medical care last year, and also shares her insights into her own fear around exercising.
Bookmark moments:
- 1:52 - Leah begins by sharing about her quarantine weight gain, which led her to confront a lifetime’s worth of avoidance issues around exercise — and an insight into how that mirrors the effects a negative body image had on safety in her sex
- 3:52 - Leah shares a traumatic memory of assault at age 12 at the hands of her father.
- 6:55 - Built-in responses to trauma complicate our culture’s idea that pushing through weight loss difficulties is just about
- 11:05 - Early socialization and sexualization for those who grew up in girl bodies adds further trauma and mixed messaging.
- 13:35 - Leah talks about an experience of violation of consent during a visit to a new Boldly, she addresses it after the visit.
Resources mentioned:
- Evelin Dacker’s Good Girls Talk About Sex episode –
- Stand up to medical consent violations -
www.leahcarey.com/medicalconsent
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