Unhappily married - Tee
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Tee is unhappily married, and unhappy with her sex life—like so many people. Also like too many, she experiences the lingering impacts of sexual assault.
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I think I had a crush on a woman - Coaching Caitlin
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah shares a coaching session with client Caitlin to give us an in-depth experience of what coaching looks and feels like. They focus on Caitlin’s newly-discovered attraction to women.
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I thought my vagina was broken - Stephanie
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Stephanie shares how childhood shame led to an eating disorder, which had a profound affect on her ability to relate with her sexuality and her sexual partners.
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Dealing with post-sex UTIs
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Dr. Evelin Dacker returns to answer a listener’s question about common and chronic UTI’s that occur after sex. She breaks down the how and why, and addresses prevention and treatment.
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They can't find the clit without a roadmap - Alexa (take 2)
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“Deaf U” star Alexa Paulay-Simmons gets candid about who she is (and always has been) as a sexual person, and how that’s shaped her life.
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An error in translation
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Hey friends, You’ll notice this isn’t the regular episode you were expecting! The regular episode was loaded into the feed, and some of you may have already downloaded and listened to it. However, I made an error in the production of this episode so, in fairness to our guest, I’ve pulled the episode to fix it. Here’s what happened – Our guest, Alexa, is Deaf and we did the interview through an interpreter. It was my first time ever doing an interview through an interpreter, so it took me a little time to relax into it. What didn’t occur to me was to send the transcript...
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My pandemic sex life
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Leah gets real about how her intimate life has weathered the pandemic, and how confronting her partner’s depression spiral turned out to be a better strategy—for both of them—than enduring it.
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He was a god and I was a kid - Debbie
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Debbie was formed by experiences of both pleasure and pain. She was blessed with good early relationships, but also is a survivor of the epidemic of sexual abuse in elite women’s sport. Her faith in herself helped her choose to heal.
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Improve your sex life with the STARS talk
Good Girls Talk About Sex
STARS is an easy-to-remember acronym for conversations that lead to awesome consensual sex.
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I tried to pee standing up – Lachlan
Good Girls Talk About Sex
Lachlan was born with a vagina. His is the story of how a boy learned to be a girl, then learned to be invisible, then a lesbian, before learning that he could just be who he was all along, except that it’s still … complicated.
info_outlineBookmark moments:
- 1:05 - You can say no at any point, even when you’re in the middle of it. Leah talks about how to do this in real life.
- 6:24 - Men are socialized to feel entitled to an ending once the sex has started.
- 7:33 - Leah shares a guide she created to help find words for navigating mid-sex consent: “Take a Breath.”
- 9:16 - The “Am I Normal?” phone line (720-GOOD-SEX) goes to anonymous voicemail. Call away!
- 12:00 - The Lowdown question is answered by a variety of women.
- 19:15 - Leah answers. She opens up about problematic recurring yeast infections in her youth, and recommends against putting garlic in your hoo-haa.
- 21:49 - In the name of truth-seeking, Leah makes an unusual Sunday afternoon request of her boyfriend.
Resources mentioned:
- leahcarey.com/takeabreath - A worksheet to walk you through taking a pause in the middle of sex
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Music – Nazar Rybak