Perfectionism is burning you out. Here are 3 easy tactics to end it
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Release Date: 07/07/2025
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they work and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Do you secretly dread hearing the words “I have some feedback for you”? Same. I know feedback is supposed to make us better but for so many of us, especially high achievers with ADHD or imposter feelings, feedback feels like a gut punch. Instead of fueling growth, it can send us...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they work and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Do you cringe when someone asks, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” Most achievers love the idea of having a plan but freeze up trying to make one. In this episode, Amber walks you through a simple, values-based process to design a 5- and 10-year plan you’ll actually...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they work and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve been trying to plan your work while you’re in the middle of doing it, you’re setting yourself up for frustration, lost time, and wasted brain power. In this episode, I’m showing you the simple shift that will completely change your productivity, separating planning...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they work and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve been spending months trying to fix your weaknesses and still feel stuck, this episode is your permission slip to try a totally different way. I’ll show you how to double down on your strengths instead, and why optimizing for what comes naturally creates faster, more joyful...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they work and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. This week’s episode is something special. I’m sharing a raw, personal presentation I gave at Ian Koniak’s Untap Your Sales Potential retreat, where the theme was Scars to Success. I reveal my full backstory: growing up in poverty, struggling with perfectionism, chasing achievement for...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. I recently polled my audience, and the response blew me away. Almost everyone said the same thing: “I feel disorganized and scattered.” In this episode, I break down why that’s happening and exactly what to do about it. You’ll learn how to map out your 5 and 10-year vision without...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. You hit six figures. You got the job. You did everything you thought would finally make you feel successful… and yet, you still feel stuck. In this episode, I’m naming something most high performers are too busy (or too proud) to admit: that outward success doesn’t always equal inner...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Let’s be honest: perfectionism used to work. It helped you over-deliver, hide your self-doubt, and push through the pressure. But now? It’s burning you out. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how perfectionism really shows up, especially for high-achievers who’ve been...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Know what to do, but still not doing it? In this episode, Amber shares a mindset tool used by elite athletes, musicians, and top performers to unlock next-level results: 🎭 The Alter Ego Effect: the neuroscience-backed strategy to shift your identity, elevate your performance, and finally...
info_outlineThe Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Ever feel like you're stuck in a fog but still pushing to be productive? You're not lazy. You're not undisciplined. You're just missing context. In this episode, I unpack the neuroscience-backed strategy that helps high performers get into flow faster without burning out. We’re...
info_outlineWelcome to the The Achievers Podcast.
I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success.
Let’s be honest: perfectionism used to work. It helped you over-deliver, hide your self-doubt, and push through the pressure. But now? It’s burning you out.
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how perfectionism really shows up, especially for high-achievers who’ve been hustling their whole careers. I share how I used it to mask my ADHD, imposter syndrome, and fear of being “found out”… and why it stopped working.
You’ll learn 3 practical, slightly uncomfortable, totally liberating tactics I’ve used myself (and with clients) to shift out of perfectionist mode and get more done, with less mental drama.
In this episode, I riff on:
↠ The real reason you’re procrastinating (hint: it’s not laziness)
↠ Why “done is better than perfect” is more than just a quote
↠ How to let go of gold-plating your work without lowering your standards
↠ What happens when you try B-minus work, and no one notices 👀
↠ The power of time limits and messy drafts to unlock creativity
Perfectionism can look like ambition, but it’s actually fear wearing a nice blazer. If you’re craving more freedom, more energy, and better results with less pressure, this episode is your permission slip.
✨ Let’s test a different way of working, one that actually feels good.
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