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My Guest Presentation at Ian Koniak's UYSP 2025 Retreat

The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success

Release Date: 08/04/2025

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Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. 

I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they work and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success.

This week’s episode is something special.

I’m sharing a raw, personal presentation I gave at Ian Koniak’s Untap Your Sales Potential retreat, where the theme was Scars to Success. I reveal my full backstory: growing up in poverty, struggling with perfectionism, chasing achievement for self-worth and the breakdown that changed everything.

You'll hear the painful (and funny) moments that shaped me, the survival strategies that got me far (until they didn’t), and the emotional healing I had to do to finally feel like I was enough, exactly as I am.

If you’ve ever felt like achievement is the only way to prove yourself, this episode will hit home in a powerful way.

 

🎯 In this episode:

    ↠ Growing up in chaos, and how it shaped my nervous system

    ↠ Using achievement as a way to earn love and worth

    ↠ Why people-pleasing and perfectionism eventually collapse

    ↠ The burnout moment that forced me to finally look inward

    ↠ Learning self-compassion and modeling it for the first time

    ↠ Why you don’t need to fix yourself to be worthy

    ↠ The power of “protecting the asset” (aka YOU)

    ↠ What growth looks like without proving yourself

 Watch the full visualization here: https://youtu.be/UNIRE-m2FF4

 

Ready to finally feel focused again?

▶️ Press play, take notes, and try one small shift today.

 

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