#572 The Myth of More: Why 'Everything' is Never Enough
Happiness Podcast
We spend our lives climbing mountains—chasing the perfect relationship, the higher salary, or the dream home—convinced that the view from the top will finally make us feel complete. But all too often, we arrive at the summit only to find that the feeling of emptiness has followed us up the trail. In this episode, we will dismantle the illusion that 'more' is the answer and explore why true fulfillment can never be found in things that can be lost. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. 🎧 Listen now at Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life?...
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#571 The Ripple Effect of Words: Speaking Kindness When No One is Watching
Happiness Podcast
We often think of our emotions like a light switch—that we can be a rage monster on the freeway or rude to a chatbot, and then instantly flip the switch to 'Saint' when we walk through the front door to see our family. But neuroscience tells us a different story. Every time we practice impatience—even when we think it's harmless—we are literally wiring our brains to be unkind. Today, we’re discussing the ripple effects of our private words, and how the 'neural grooves' we carve in secret eventually bleed over into the lives of the people we love most. New Episode of the Happiness...
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#570 Fear vs. Acceptance: How to Embrace the Unknown (Instead of Fighting It)
Happiness Podcast
Change is the only constant, yet our first reaction to it is often fear. Whether it is a shift in the economy, a change in our health, or the rise of new technology like AI, the "unknown" triggers our defenses. In this episode, we explore the choice between Fear and Acceptance. We look at historical figures like Dorothy Vaughan (who embraced the first computers) and the Impressionist painters (who embraced the camera) to see how successful people don't fight the future—they evolve with it. Learn how to treat the changes in our world not as threats, but as a "gym" where we practice expanding...
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#569 The Numbness Paradox: Why Avoiding Pain Kills Your Joy
Happiness Podcast
In an attempt to cope with a harsh and overwhelming world, many of us unconsciously desensitize ourselves to block out pain. But here is the catch: our emotions do not have selective volume knobs; when we numb the darkness, we also numb the light. In this episode, we explore this numbness paradox—why avoiding pain kills your joy—and how to safely open your heart to feel fully alive again. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. 🎧 Listen now at Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you...
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#568 The Lamp Within: How to Find Beauty in a Dark World
Happiness Podcast
Imagine walking into a pitch-black room; you cannot see anything until you bring a light with you. Life works much the same way: the world does not inherently possess beauty or ugliness, but rather reflects the light we carry inside us. In this episode, we will explore how nurturing your inner beauty acts as a lamp, allowing you to find grace and wonder even in the darkest of times. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. 🎧 Listen now at Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready...
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#567 From "Why is This Happening to Me?" to "What is This Teaching Me?"
Happiness Podcast
When we face difficulty, our natural instinct is often to ask the disempowering question, 'Why is this happening to me?' However, this keeps us trapped in victimhood, whereas shifting our focus to 'What is this teaching me?' immediately unlocks our potential for growth and resilience. In this episode, we will explore how to make this powerful mental pivot so you can stop suffering through your challenges and start learning from them. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. 🎧 Listen now at Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling...
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#566 Rage Bait: Why the World Wants You Angry (And How to Opt Out)
Happiness Podcast
The Oxford Word of the Year for 2025 is 'Rage Bait,' a perfect term for the online content that is engineered to hijack your attention by deliberately triggering your anger. In this episode, we will explore the psychology behind why the digital world wants you mad and, most importantly, how you can choose to opt out. It is time to stop taking the bait and reclaim your internal peace. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. 🎧 Listen now at Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready...
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#565 The Chess Game of Life: Every Move Matters
Happiness Podcast
Are you playing a short-term tactic or a long-term strategy? Life, like a complex game of chess, is defined by the moves we make. But unlike a solitary game, our board is shared. In this episode, we explore the powerful metaphor of Life as a Chess Game, where every decision—big or small—sends a ripple effect across the board, impacting not just our position, but the lives of everyone around us. We discuss the lag time of karma (why results often take time to manifest), the importance of foresight, and the ultimate question: Are your moves setting up a game of connection and victory for...
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#564 Stop the Cycle: Why Hurting Them Back Only Hurts You (And How to Choose Calm)
Happiness Podcast
This talk explores the critical difference between being hurt by someone else’s unkindness and choosing to react with cruelty. We challenge the notion that "hurting back" is justifiable, arguing that such an action makes us the unkind person we claim to hate in others. Learn how to choose calm and break the cycle by taking responsibility for your own emotional response. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D. 🎧 Listen now at Do you want to live a peaceful, happy life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you simply ready to take the...
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#563 The Smart Shortcut: Learn From Other People's Mistakes (Not Just Your Own)
Happiness Podcast
Why reinvent the wheel (and crash it)? Most people believe the only way to learn is through the painful school of personal experience. But there’s a smarter way. In this episode, we explore The Observer's Advantage—the critical skill of extracting lessons from other people’s failures and successes so you can fast-track your own path. We’ll show you how to move beyond learning the hard way and start borrowing wisdom to save time, money, and emotional energy. Learn the specific techniques for identifying, analyzing, and applying "second-hand lessons" from mentors, historical figures,...
info_outlineHerd Mentality: Whose Life Are You Living?
We are all profoundly shaped by the people we associate with, often adopting their habits, beliefs, and definitions of happiness. But what happens when the herd you're following is leading you away from a life you truly want? This is "Herd Mentality," the podcast that explores how to break free and answer the question: Whose life are you really living?
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