EP 240 Running Retreats as a Couple: Behind the Scenes at Blisstopia Retreats with Mark and Lana Royce
Release Date: 09/18/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of The Retreat Leaders Podcast, Shannon sits down with Mark and Lana from Blisstopia Retreats to talk about what it really takes to co-facilitate powerful retreats—and build a business together without losing your minds (or your marriage).
Mark and Lana share their journey from psychotherapy and martial arts to running over 60 retreats and living on-site at their stunning Arizona retreat villa. With over 7,000 sq ft of curated wellness space, they've built a business based on balance, service, and transformation.
You’ll hear:
- Why co-leading retreats is a dance of trust, clarity, and communication
- The pros and cons of living at your retreat property
- What makes a retreat center host different from a vacation rental owner
- Tips for thriving in a saturated retreat market
- A special offer just for podcast listeners
Mention this episode and get $500 off a 3-day retreat rental at Blisstopia Retreats!
Whether you host retreats solo, with a team, or dream of running your own retreat center, this convo will give you a behind-the-scenes look at how to lead with heart and strategy.
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----------------- Timestamps:
Introducing the Guests: Mark & Loni (00:00:25) Host introduces Mark and Loni, a couple running a retreat business together. Loni’s Background & Entrepreneurial Journey (00:01:48) Loni shares her psychotherapy, wellness, and entrepreneurial background, and how she met Mark.
Mark’s Background & Transition to Retreats (00:03:28) Mark discusses his martial arts and coaching background, and their shift to retreats after the pandemic. Deciding to Open a Retreat Center (00:04:18) The couple describes the decision to sell everything and open a retreat center in Arizona.
Transition to Co-Facilitating Retreats (00:05:21) Discussion on how they began co-facilitating retreats and integrating their skills.
Why Retreats Over Other Wellness Businesses (00:05:56) Explaining the deeper impact of retreats compared to fitness or yoga classes.
Mark’s Growth & Their Yin-Yang Dynamic (00:06:57) Mark’s journey into yoga and breathwork, and the couple’s complementary energies.
Choosing & Setting Up Their Retreat Property (00:08:40) How they selected, purchased, and set up their Arizona retreat property.
Hosting Other Facilitators at Their Space (00:11:37) They welcome other retreat hosts and describe the support they provide.
On-Site Support & Services for Retreat Hosts (00:12:04) Details about their on-site help, meal services, and understanding retreat logistics.
Host’s London Event Promo (00:13:00) Brief promotion for the host’s upcoming retreat mastermind event in London.
Why Retreat Centers Are Preferred (00:13:41) Host explains the advantages of retreat centers over Airbnb/Vrbo for hosting retreats.
Challenges of Building & Planning as a Couple (00:14:55) Discussion about the challenges of planning and building a retreat space together.
Staying in Their Lanes & Defining Roles (00:15:19) How they maintain boundaries, respect, and trust by sticking to their strengths.
Industry Struggles & Oversaturation (00:17:06) Mark discusses industry oversaturation and the challenges of inexperienced hosts.
Struggles of Working as a Couple (00:19:03) The couple shares the realities of being together constantly and how they communicate.
Industry Growth & Differentiation (00:20:20) Host reflects on industry growth, competition, and the importance of differentiation.
Staying in Lanes: Host’s Personal Experience (00:24:29) Host shares her own experience working with her husband and the importance of defined roles.
Living On-Site: Pros & Cons (00:26:32) Discussion about the benefits and challenges of living at the retreat property.
Nature, Animals, and Sanctuary Vibes (00:27:10) Description of the property’s natural setting, animals, and peaceful atmosphere.
Being On-Site for Emergencies & Support (00:29:42) Anecdote about stepping in for a retreat host in need and the value of being on-site.
Host’s Perspective: Never Shutting Off (00:30:54) Host discusses the difficulty of separating work and home life when living on-site.
Mark’s Family Resort Experience (00:33:12) Mark relates his experience growing up around a family-run resort.
Constant Upkeep & Business Mindset (00:34:07) The ongoing nature of property maintenance and always being in business mode.
Special Offer for Listeners (00:35:20) Mark and Loni offer $500 off venue rental for podcast listeners.