Do You Hear What I Hear? Listening with Your Ears Open - PHH 210
Release Date: 05/26/2025
Celebrating of Summer - 20+ Pieces Just For Fun - PHH 216
Practicing Harp Happiness
This week I started my yearly ritual of going through my drawers of music and pulling out new pieces to play. Actually they aren’t all new; some are old friends that I haven’t played in years. Others are pieces that have been sitting around waiting for me to get to them. Others are favorites that I seem to pull out every summer and play for a while. It’s a summer thing for me. Perhaps because my playing schedule is a little lighter, I don’t feel as pressured or as driven. Also, though, I just want to play music, music that fits my vacation mindset. So this week as I was...
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The Superpower of Shortcuts and Why You Need Them Now - PHH 215
Practicing Harp Happiness
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Recovering from Burnout - the 5R Framework to Recover and Reset - PHH 214
Practicing Harp Happiness
It’s summer time here and time for a little R and R, rest and relaxation, maybe even time away. You might be feeling like you need some time away from whatever stress you’ve been experiencing. I hope it isn’t your harp playing that’s been causing the stress, but even playing and practicing the harp can cause frustration and burnout. If you’re feeling like you need a break from your harp playing, I’m here to help and to make sure you take that break in a way that will bring you more confidence and more joy in your harp playing again. Actually, at the time you are listening to this,...
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Practicing Harp Happiness
Have you ever made something and it turned out ok, but somehow it just didn’t look right? Maybe you thought those two paint colors would go together, but now you’re not sure. Or maybe the furniture arrangement in the living room looked great on paper but it sort of doesn’t work now that you see everything in place. I think we’ve all had those moments. I had one not long ago with a photo I was doing. It wasn’t quite right, but since I had to get it done, all I could do was to shrug and sign off on it, whether it was right or not. But if a piece of music we’re working on doesn’t...
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Practicing Harp Happiness
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Practicing Harp Happiness
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Do You Hear What I Hear? Listening with Your Ears Open - PHH 210
Practicing Harp Happiness
Four friends went to an orchestra concert. Afterward, they went out for dessert and compared notes on the concert, talking about what they heard. Here is what they said: One person heard the person in the row behind crackling a cough drop wrapper.One person, a flutist, heard that the clarinet wasn’t in tune with the flute.One person, a harpist, heard that the orchestra drowned out the harp solo.One person heard that the piano soloist was humming to himself while he played. Oddly enough, when the review of the concert appeared in the newspaper the next day, it seemed the critic had gone to a...
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Is Your Practice Not Working? Maybe Hard Work Isn’t the Answer - PHH 209
Practicing Harp Happiness
Today I want to talk with you about hard work. I don’t mean how to buckle down and do the hard work. We all know that playing the harp is hard, and we spend a lot of time working out practice techniques, strategies and routines to help us play the music we want in spite of the difficulties. No, what I want to talk about today is how to get out of the “just buckle down and do it” mindset. The truth is that when it comes to playing the harp or even music in general, sometimes trying harder is counter-productive. For instance, the harder we try to get that harmonic to ring, the more it just...
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Is Music Theory Really Useful? Turning Theory Into Practice - PHH 208
Practicing Harp Happiness
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How to Choose Your Next Piece - PHH 207
Practicing Harp Happiness
Shel Silverstein wrote a beautiful and supremely short poem that perfectly fits today’s topic. The poem is called “Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda,” and in just seven short lines, Silverstein sums up the ultimate way to prevent regret. He tells us that all those woulda-coulda-shouldas vanish with one little “did.” Doing beats wishing every day. So if we were sitting in the same room together, sharing a cup of tea, and you asked me what I thought your next piece should be, I’d have to ask you a question right back, “What do you think you want to do?” Life is filled with...
info_outlineFour friends went to an orchestra concert. Afterward, they went out for dessert and compared notes on the concert, talking about what they heard. Here is what they said:
One person heard the person in the row behind crackling a cough drop wrapper.
One person, a flutist, heard that the clarinet wasn’t in tune with the flute.
One person, a harpist, heard that the orchestra drowned out the harp solo.
One person heard that the piano soloist was humming to himself while he played.
Oddly enough, when the review of the concert appeared in the newspaper the next day, it seemed the critic had gone to a completely different concert. The critic described the pianist as being an impassioned player with a fiery technique, the orchestra as presenting a colorful, well-balanced and nuanced interpretation. There was no mention of out of tune clarinets, or inaudible harps or even noisy cough drop wrappers.
Yes, this is a fictional scenario, although I’ve been part of very similar discussions. I wanted to relate this to you today, though, to highlight the way we channel our listening. We pay attention to the things that distract us, like noises or mistakes. That’s not in itself a bad thing; it’s part of being observant. Often, however, our listening stops there.
Think about how you listen to yourself. You pick out the flaws, the things that you wanted to do better. How often do you take time to identify what you have done well? Would you even be able to identify what you are doing well?
Today, we are going to talk about listening for growth, not for comparison or fault-finding. I’ll help you discover how to listen with open ears and an open mind so that the next time you listen to that amazing harpist play the piece you’re struggling to learn, you can find the precise elements in that performance that will help you make your own playing sound the way you want it to. And we’ll talk about how to listen to yourself so you don’t end up in the depths of despair. It’s all about what you listen for.
Links to things I think you might be interested in that were mentioned in the podcast episode:
- Work with a Harp Mastery® Certified Coach this summer!
- Harp teachers! Are you interested in learning more about our Fall Break Retreat? Email me at [email protected].
- Harpmastery.com
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