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Your Grief Pain

Healing Starts with the Heart

Release Date: 08/19/2023

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Healing Starts with the Heart

Episode Summary: In this heartfelt episode of Healing Starts with the Heart, Sharon Brubaker opens the door to a topic many avoid—your grief story. Not the polite, watered-down version, but the real, raw, unfiltered story of what happened, what you felt, and what you still carry. Sharon explains why telling this story—first to yourself and then to others—is a necessary part of healing. She shares how the truth of our pain holds the key to transformation, connection, and true emotional release. Whether you’ve lost a person, a dream, a relationship, or a piece of yourself—this episode...

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In this empowering episode of Healing Starts with the Heart, Sharon Brubaker pulls back the curtain on one of the greatest grief misconceptions: that we need to learn how to grieve. Sharon reveals a deeper truth—we were all born knowing how to grieve. From your first cry to your instinct to reach out when in pain, grief is not something to be taught but something we’ve been taught to forget. Through raw, compassionate storytelling and the powerful example of a client who found her way back to healing, Sharon reminds us that grief is not a flaw—it’s our body and spirit doing exactly...

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In this raw and deeply honest episode of Healing Starts with the Heart, Sharon Brubaker invites listeners into the messy, painful, and necessary truth of what it means to lean in to grief. Instead of hiding, numbing, or pretending you’re okay, Sharon challenges you to stop running from the pain and start facing it head-on. This is not about suffering for suffering’s sake—it’s about healing the only way that works: by feeling it all. If you’ve ever told yourself, “If I let this out, I’ll never stop crying,” this episode is for you. Sharon unpacks the myths we’re told about...

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🎙️ Episode Summary: In this unforgettable episode of Healing Starts with the Heart, grief specialist Sharon Brubaker shares the story of the exact moment her life split into “before” and “after.” Through a searingly honest account of the phone call that changed everything—the loss of her nephew Austin—Sharon takes listeners inside the collapse that grief can cause. This isn’t a conversation about “moving on” or checking boxes—it’s a journey through the mess, the silence, and the search for truth. If you’ve had that day—the one where it all fell apart—this...

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Episode Summary: In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Healing Starts with a Heart, grief specialist Sharon Brubaker explores the raw truth behind her book Grieve That Sht*. Through honest storytelling and lived experience, Sharon unpacks “the grief sh*t”—the real, often unspoken pain that comes with loss—and what it actually feels like in the body, mind, and soul. This episode is a lifeline for anyone navigating the devastating aftermath of grief and looking for real talk, not clichés. Key Points Discussed: The origin and meaning behind the book title Grieve That Sht* ...

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A Wake-Up Call for Every Griever Episode Summary: In this powerful kickoff to Healing Starts with a Heart, Sharon Brubaker gets real about what it means to truly grieve. This episode introduces the unapologetic truth behind her upcoming book, Grieve That Sht*. Sharon shares the raw inspiration for the title, why she refuses to sugarcoat grief, and why it’s time for all grievers to stop hiding. If you’ve ever felt suffocated by forced positivity, misunderstood by the people around you, or overwhelmed by the hidden layers of loss—this episode is for you. This is more than a conversation....

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Healing Starts with the Heart

Grieve That Sht – A Wake-Up Call for Every Griever Episode Summary: In this powerful kickoff to Healing Starts with a Heart, Sharon Brubaker gets real about what it means to truly grieve. This episode introduces the unapologetic truth behind her upcoming book, Grieve That Sht*. Sharon shares the raw inspiration for the title, why she refuses to sugarcoat grief, and why it’s time for all grievers to stop hiding. If you’ve ever felt suffocated by forced positivity, misunderstood by the people around you, or overwhelmed by the hidden layers of loss—this episode is for you. This is more...

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Healing Starts with the Heart

The Lies We've Been Told About Grief Episode Description: In this eye-opening episode of Healing Starts with the Heart, grief specialist Sharon Brubaker confronts the damaging lies we've all been told about grief. From childhood, we are handed false beliefs like: • “Don’t feel bad” • “Be strong” • “Time will heal” • “You should get over it” Sharon dives deep into how these messages have distorted our understanding of grief and often cause us to suppress or deny the pain we’re carrying. She shares her own personal experience with the grief that no one warned her...

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Healing Starts with the Heart

  The Truth About Time and Why It Won’t Heal Your Grief Episode Description: In this powerful episode of Healing Starts with the Heart, grief specialist Sharon Brubaker challenges one of the most common myths about grief: that time alone will heal all wounds. With raw honesty and deep personal reflection, Sharon explores the ways time affects grief—not by erasing pain, but by revealing the spaces where healing is still needed. She shares her own journey of realizing just how long it has been since she last saw and spoke to her loved ones, and the surprising emotions that surfaced when...

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Healing Starts with the Heart

Grief and the Journey of Healing Grief is a deeply personal and often misunderstood experience. Society tends to encourage moving on quickly, but true healing comes from acknowledging and processing grief rather than suppressing it. Sharon Brubaker, a grief specialist with over 18 years of experience, guides individuals through their healing journeys with compassion and practical tools. Rather than avoiding grief, embracing it with awareness can lead to emotional recovery. Suppressing grief may seem like the easiest option, but unprocessed emotions often resurface in unexpected ways. By...

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Your Grief Pain Will Change You

 

Introduction

Grief is a deeply personal and emotional experience that touches all of us at some point in our lives. 💔 Losing a loved one or experiencing significant loss can be overwhelming and can evoke intense emotions. In this blog post, we'll explore how your grief pain has the potential to change you, shaping your perspectives, emotions, and personal growth.

 

Embracing the Complexity of Grief

Grief pain is not a simple emotion; it's a multifaceted experience that can leave a lasting impact. It's essential to recognize that grieving is a natural and valid response to loss. Allowing yourself to feel and process the emotions that come with grief is an important step in the healing journey. 🌊

Grief can bring forth an array of emotions such as sadness, anger, guilt, and even relief. Embracing the complexity of these feelings can lead to a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationship with the person you've lost. 🌈

 

The Transformative Nature of Grief

Grief pain has the power to change you in profound ways. As you navigate through your grief, you may find yourself reevaluating your priorities, relationships, and life's purpose. 🌟 The loss may prompt you to reassess your values and make meaningful changes in your life.

While grief is undoubtedly challenging, it can also be a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery. By facing your grief pain, you open yourself up to the possibility of transformation and new beginnings. 🌱

 

Navigating the Ups and Downs

Grief is not a linear process. It's a journey with ups and downs, moments of strength and vulnerability. Your grief pain may come in waves, and some days may feel more challenging than others. It's essential to be patient with yourself and allow yourself to grieve at your own pace. 🌞

Remember that healing takes time and that it's okay to seek support from friends, family, or professionals during your grief journey. By embracing the fluctuations of grief, you give yourself the space to heal and grow. 🤗

 

Finding Meaning and Resilience

Amidst grief pain, you may find opportunities for resilience and finding meaning in your experiences. 💪 Some individuals channel their grief into positive actions, such as supporting others in similar situations or starting meaningful projects in memory of their loved ones.

Finding a sense of purpose and meaning in the face of loss can help you navigate through grief pain with a renewed sense of hope and purpose. 💕

 

Conclusion

Your grief pain is a unique and transformative experience that can change you in ways you may not expect. Embracing the complexity of grief, navigating its ups and downs, and finding resilience and meaning can lead to personal growth and healing. 🌷💖

As you allow yourself to grieve and process your emotions, remember that there is no right or wrong way to grieve. Each individual's grief journey is unique, and it's essential to be compassionate and patient with yourself during this time. 🌈💕

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