Questions (IQ): The #1 Thing You Need to Know to Help Yourself Heal (IQ. 262)
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™
Release Date: 05/19/2026
Self-Healing Insights: Finding the Hidden Pattern Behind Toxic Relationships (Michael | Ep. 353)
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™
What if the most obvious relationship problem is not the deepest pattern keeping you stuck? In this powerful episode, Brandy shares breakthrough insights from working with a beautiful volunteer named Michael—a loving husband, devoted father, firefighter, and genuinely caring man who wanted to become the best version of himself. Yet beneath his strength and kindness was an emotional pattern that had continued showing up in different relationships and different areas of his life. Michael had experienced painful dynamics with parents, friends, and other people he cared about. At times, the hurt...
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Questions (IQ): One Simple Insight to Increase Your Energy and Support Healing (IQ. 273)
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™
What if your energy could offer an important clue about how your mind is relating to healing, change, and life? In this episode, Brandy shares one simple but counterintuitive insight that became pivotal during her own healing journey. For years, she was doing many of the things she believed would help her body heal. Yet she continued feeling exhausted, depleted, and physically weak. Then she began recognizing an important distinction that changed the way she understood energy and healing. In this episode, you will discover: One simple insight that can help you understand your energy...
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Self-Healing Insights: One Key Insight That Can Make Self-Healing Easier and Faster (Sheridan | Ep. 352)
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What if one important shift in how you work with your mind could make self-healing feel easier and help you begin creating results more quickly? In this powerful episode, Brandy shares an insight that became pivotal in her own healing journey—and later helped a beautiful volunteer named Sheridan begin creating a remarkable shift. Sheridan had spent more than 20 years in personal development and had been trying for decades to release deep emotional hurt. At the same time, she was experiencing such severe physical pain that she estimated she spent approximately 90% of her time in bed. She was...
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Questions (IQ): Have You Been Working on Self-Love but Still Feeling Unloved? (IQ. 272)
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Have you been working on self-love, setting healthy boundaries, and learning to value yourself, yet still find yourself feeling unloved, unappreciated, rejected, or hurt in your relationships? Perhaps you have genuinely been doing all of the things you thought would help. You have been trying to love yourself more, honor your needs, respect your feelings, and create healthier relationships. You may be a deeply loving, thoughtful, and caring person who gives a lot to the people around you. And yet, something still does not feel quite right. The same painful feelings or relationship patterns may...
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Self-Healing Insights: Do You Feel Guilty When You Know You “Shouldn’t”? (Amy | Ep. 351)
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Have you ever felt guilty even though, logically, you knew you had not done anything wrong? Perhaps you needed time to work, take care of yourself, or handle something important, yet part of you still felt bad. You may have tried to dismiss the feeling, reason with it, or push it away, but it continued to affect you. These seemingly small emotions can be surprisingly powerful. In this short breakthrough episode, Brandy shares key insights from working with a live volunteer named Amy, who was able to release her neck pain in approximately 14 minutes. What surfaced was not a major trauma....
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Questions (IQ): How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Hurting Your Relationships (IQ. 271)
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Have you ever tried to stop people-pleasing, only to find that it created more tension, distance, or difficulty in your relationships? Perhaps you have worked on setting boundaries, saying no, and doing all of the things you thought you were supposed to do, yet you still feel stuck. Or maybe your boundaries have started to feel more defensive than empowering, and instead of creating healthier relationships, they seem to be creating more disconnection. People-pleasing can be a surprisingly tricky pattern to change. In fact, when people focus only on stopping the behavior, it can sometimes...
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Self-Healing Insights: Why Your Nervous System Won’t Slow Down... And How to Finally Calm It (Sophie | Ep. 350)
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Have you ever tried to sit down, relax, and simply be still, only to feel like your nervous system is still running at full speed? You are not alone, and the reason it happens is often very different from what people expect. In this episode, Brandy shares powerful insights from her recent work with a live volunteer, Sophie, a deeply self-aware woman who had spent years practicing yoga, meditation, energy work, and positive thinking, and yet still could not get her nervous system to settle. As Brandy explains, when a person feels constantly wired, amped, or unable to stop, it is rarely just a...
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Questions (IQ): One Subtle Shift That Can Help Transform Emotional Patterns (IQ. 270)
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The mind can be incredibly sneaky. Sometimes a person can genuinely believe they are doing everything possible to transform a pattern, while unknowingly reinforcing that same pattern in a slightly different form. This is why small distinctions in how we work with the mind can create radically different results. In this episode, Brandy explains why accessing the power of the mind requires learning to work with it in a different way. Using examples involving criticism, abandonment, rejection, and emotional patterns from Toni’s recent episode, she illustrates how the same underlying pattern can...
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Self-Healing Insights: What if positive thinking was accidentally reinforcing the very pattern you were trying to change? (Toni | Ep. 349)
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When Toni first came to me, she had breast cancer for the second time. It had spread through her bones and liver, and her prognosis was not good. I recorded this session more than a year ago, but I intentionally waited to release it. Recently, Toni's doctors report that her latest scans show no visible sign of cancer. In this episode, you'll hear the actual session where we uncovered several subconscious patterns that were quietly working against her, including one that surprises almost everyone. If you've ever wondered why simply "thinking positive" doesn't always create the...
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Questions (IQ): Why Manifesting Isn't Working (And What Actually Creates Change) (IQ. 269)
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Have you ever felt like you're doing all the "right" things, visualizing, affirming, meditating, thinking positively, and trying to manifest, but the real change you're longing for still isn't showing up? In this eye-opening episode, Brandy explores why manifesting falls flat for so many people, and what actually creates real, lasting change in your health, relationships, happiness, and life. Using simple, relatable examples, Brandy shares how our energy can quietly influence the way we show up, connect with others, and experience life. She also explains why working with your mind in a...
info_outlineWhat if there was one key insight that could make the healing journey feel less confusing, less random, and more empowering?
In this powerful quick IQ episode, Brandy answers a heartfelt question from a listener who has been trying to heal for more than 20 years and wants to know: If there was just one thing a person needed to know to help themselves heal, what would it be?
Her answer may surprise you.
In this episode, Brandy shares why so many people unintentionally stay stuck, even when they are doing meditation, mindset work, personal development, or spiritual practices. She reveals how the mind can be deeply counterintuitive — and why some well-intended practices may unknowingly reinforce the very patterns a person is trying to heal.
She also explores the connection between love, loneliness, subconscious associations, and the mind-body connection in a way that makes healing feel clearer, more logical, and more empowering!
This episode is perfect for anyone who has been trying everything, feels stuck, or wants a deeper understanding of what may be missing on their healing journey.
Do you want to see proof of the power of the mind in a medical journal?
Here’s a demonstration of Brandy Gillmore working with volunteers under medical equipment, as featured in a medical journal.
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