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204. 5 Pillars To A Fulfilled Midlife/ft. Bernie Borges

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Release Date: 01/11/2024

231. Finding Strength and Resilience During Uncontrollable Events

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Life is full of unexpected twists and turns. One moment, you’re managing your routine, tackling your to-do list, and feeling in control. And then, something happens—a phone call, a change in the weather, or news you weren’t prepared for—and suddenly, your world feels upside down. In Finding Strength and Resilience During Uncontrollable Events, we’re diving into what it means to navigate life’s most challenging moments with clarity and confidence. While we can’t control every curveball life throws, we can control how we respond. In this episode, I share personal stories,...

230. Why Self-Care Feels So Damn Hard For Midlife Women/ft. Lesley Logan

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Feeling like self-care is selfish? You’re not alone. For midlife women over 50, guilt often sneaks in and stops us from putting ourselves first. And let’s be honest—Why Self-Care Feels So Damn Hard for Midlife Women is something we’ve all wondered about. Here’s the truth: self-care isn’t about spa days or bubble baths. It’s about creating habits that help us thrive. Setting boundaries. Avoiding burnout. Showing up as our best selves. In episode 230, I’m joined by Lesley Logan, a second-generation certified Pilates teacher, author, and host of the Be It Till You See It ...

229. Why Losing Motivation Is Not Your Fault

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Ever feel like you’ve hit a wall and can’t figure out why your motivation has disappeared? Here’s the thing: losing motivation isn’t your fault. Motivation isn’t some steady, unshakable thing. It changes as we go through life, just like we do. What lit you up in your 20s and 30s might not feel right now, and that’s okay. Life throws us curveballs—work, family, caregiving—and sometimes it feels like there’s no room left for you. Add in sneaky traps like comparing yourself to others (or your younger self), trying to do everything at once, or waiting for the “perfect”...

228. Building a Business That Aligns with Your Purpose/ ft. Shannon Russell

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Has your 9-5 lost its spark? If what once excited you now feels like a grind, it might be time for a change. Shannon Russell, CEO of Second Act Success, joins me to share her journey and expert advice on transitioning to a career that aligns with your purpose and brings fulfillment. After a successful career in TV production, Shannon pivoted to entrepreneurship to gain freedom and flexibility. Through self-reflection, she identified her values—family time and creating meaningful work—and built a business on her own terms. Key Lessons from Shannon: Overcome Self-Doubt: Your skills and...

227. Break Through Overwhelm To Find Your Focus and Energy

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Feeling overwhelmed and stuck in midlife? You’re not alone. For many women over 50, juggling commitments and trying to keep up with wellness trends can feel like an uphill battle. The good news? Overcoming overwhelm doesn’t require big resolutions or drastic overhauls—it’s about starting small and focusing on what truly matters. That’s exactly what we explore in episode 227: Tiny Shifts to Beat Overwhelm in Midlife. We explore why feeling stuck is common and how recognizing it is the first step toward change. Whether repeating the same routines or saying yes when you want to say...

226. Shifting from Wanting Change to Making It Happen/ft. Allan Misner

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Ever feel like you’re caught in that cycle of wanting to make a change, but somehow, it never quite sticks? Maybe you’re searching for that spark—that extra push to finally put yourself first and see actual results. But what if it’s not about wanting at all but actually committing? Today, we’re diving into this big shift with Allan Misner, a fitness and nutrition coach for people over 40 who has been right where you are. He knows what it takes to turn the desire for change into real, lasting action. Together, we’ll explore his story, the lessons he’s picked up along the way,...

225. Building Strength Without Self-Judgement in Midlife

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Ever feel like you’re showing up and putting in the work, but somehow, it doesn’t seem to add up? Building Strength Without Self-Judgment in Midlife can be tricky, especially when you’ve set a strength goal—like lifting heavier, trying a new move, or just feeling stronger every day—but it feels like no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough. Sound familiar? In today’s episode, we’re diving into that feeling we know too well: the self-judgment that sneaks in and makes us feel like we should be further along. We’ll unpack why this happens, especially for those of us...

224. Build Your Caregiving Dream Team/ft. Lynn Smargis

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Are you feeling the weight of caring for aging parents while juggling everything else on your plate? You’re definitely not alone. So many of us are in this boat, wondering if we’re doing enough or if it’s time to get extra support. That’s why I’m sitting down today with Senior Care Advisor for Pacific Northwest Seniorcare, Lynn Smargis, to find out how to build your caregiving dream team. Lynn, who’s encountered the Gen X “sandwich generation” challenge firsthand, shares practical advice on distinguishing between Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care. She...

223. Why You Need To Change Your Workout After 40

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Ever struggle with something as simple as putting on socks or lifting a bag of groceries and think, "Is this what getting older feels like?" You're not alone. We tackle these common frustrations head-on in Podcast Episode 223: Why You Need to Change Your Workout After 40. Picture this: you're battling your socks every morning, hopping around on one foot, maybe even taking a tumble. It could be a more graceful way to start your day. But what if I told you there's a type of exercise that can make these everyday tasks easier, boost your strength, and keep you moving effortlessly through life?...

222. Stop Settling for 'Fine'—Fight Cancer Now/ft. Deb Krier

Pursue Your Spark - Midlife, Fitness, Nutrition, Mindset, Health, women over 50

Cancer doesn't wait, nor should you. Whether you're facing cancer yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode with Deb Krier will give you the tools and mindset to take action today. Don’t settle—fight back now. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and today's episode, 'Stop Settling for 'Fine'—Fight Cancer Now,' is a must-listen. Deb Krier is an entrepreneur, cancer advocate, and the visionary behind tryingnottodie.LIVE. Diagnosed with Stage 4 triple-positive breast cancer in 2015 and thyroid cancer in 2023, Deb has transformed her challenges into a mission to help...

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We begin an insightful journey into the essence of a fulfilled midlife. Heike chats with Bernie Borges, a seasoned B2B expert and podcast enthusiast, about the nuances of midlife fulfillment. Bernie, originally from New York City and now thriving in Tampa Bay, brings his rich experience from his successful 36-year marriage and his podcasting ventures, including the 'Midlife Fulfilled' Podcast.

This episode centers around the concept of a fulfilled midlife, examining the 5 Pillars: Health, Fitness, Career, Relationships, and Legacy. Bernie and Heike challenge listeners to introspect their fulfillment levels in these critical life areas. Bernie's insights, drawn from his diverse experiences, shed light on the less discussed yet crucial aspects of midlife.

We unravel the true meaning of midlife, offering a fresh perspective that goes beyond the conventional chronological definition. Bernie's approach to defining midlife is rooted in logic and personal insight, presenting it as a period rich with change and growth.

The discussion explores how health priorities shift during midlife and the factors driving these changes. Fitness is highlighted as a critical component for achieving a fulfilled midlife, emphasizing its role in maintaining physical and mental well-being.

The conversation then turns to career transformations during midlife. Bernie and Heike discuss how to rediscover passion in one's career and the importance of adaptability and lifelong learning in achieving career satisfaction.

Relationship dynamics are also a focal point. The Podcast delves into ways midlifers can strengthen existing relationships or build new, meaningful connections while navigating changes like children leaving home or taking on eldercare responsibilities.

The concept of legacy in midlife is examined, highlighting why many in this life stage reflect on their legacy and how it influences their sense of purpose. The episode introduces listeners to the idea of assessing fulfillment levels using the 80/20 principle, distinguishing between 'before fulfillment' and 'after fulfillment.'

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