Episode 301: The Science and Art of Engagement with Author Rich Carr
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
Release Date: 12/13/2024
Episode 301: The Science and Art of Engagement with Author Rich Carr
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook has guest Rich Carr author of Surprised: The Science and Art of Engagement. Rich brings a bright and engaging look at how we as humans respond or react to an outside stimulus and in understanding the workings of the various part of the brain dictate how you will engage in or disengage with that stimulus. In high conflict or for that matter any relational interaction, getting to the solution with the least amount of conflict and the optimal exploration is the goal. Rich goes into how you can install intention and preprogram action to reduce the reactivity in your system...
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Episode 300: Disasterous Divorce To Priceless Relationship With Your Kids with Derrick Chevalier
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook and his guest Derrick Chevalier discuss in depth the interconnection between negotiation in divorce and custody and first understanding what is on the playing field and who the players are first, before setting sail in the process. Getting yourself settled and using your unique knowledge of the situation in order to knit together the solution and the proper delivery system ie: Attorney, Mediator and such. By doing so getting to the center of the issues, such as finances and custody can be a much easier path and resulting in better outcomes become more available and...
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Episode 299 Getting Ahead of The Holiday Chaos with Michelle Mitchell
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook and Michelle take another deeper dive into the subject of preparing for and dealing with the stresses of the holidays. When dealing with high conflict co-parentis it is important to have an open mindset of solving the problems out front and deep understanding of how you are stuck trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Challenging your beliefs about what is important vs what solves the problem and takes the children out of the chaos isn't easy. Listen to Brook and Michelle in this episode in order to get some fresh and deeper perspective. Enjoy!!! For exclusive...
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Episode 298 Projection, Transference and Countertransference, Making it Personal
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook has special guest Nicola Ranson L.C.S.W. Brook and Nicola discuss the concepts of Transference and Projection as pertain to working with a coach or therapist. These are always taking place in all relationships and unconsciously affect the interaction. When working with a coach or therapist it is important the coach or therapist is trained to consciously identify it and not get entangled with but use it as an informative process to uncover deeper solutions and processes. As a client it is important to find a coach that is seasoned and proficient so as not to collude...
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Episode 297 Client/Attorney Management
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this Episode Brook has as his special guest Attorney Kelli Avallone in to discuss the frustrations that clients have when dealing with their attorneys as well as those frustrations of the attorney with their clients, in high conflict custody cases. The discussion explores the topics that can cause the frustration and how using a qualified coach can go a long way in keeping both the client and the attorney on a productive path that is efficient both financially and emotionally. Enjoy!!! You can contact Kelli at [email protected] Join our membership site at Download our...
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Episode 296 Anxiety and How it Drives Conflict
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook and Tony delve into the notion of how anxiety is one of if not the main driver of conflict and at the base understanding this and learning how to navigate the terrain of ones own anxiety is the avenue toward a high threshold of tolerance can make the difference in disengaging. The basis in the defensive response even in those with narcissism and other personality disorders can be found in navigating the internal sensation that comes with the anxiousness. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails...
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Episode 295 Finding Refuge From The Email Carpet Bombing
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the narcissistic practice of email Carpet Bombing. This is the practice of incessantly sending repeated emails in order to hook you into an argument, to tell you are doing it wrong, to harass and demean you and to cause as much chaos as possible to get you to engage. This is an important concept to understand and to get the tools needed to navigate the barrage. Enjoy!!! You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachmichellesd. Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes...
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Episode 294 Legal Abuse and Going it Pro Se With Chris Barry and Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out
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In this episode Brook has special guest Lisa Johnson from Been There Got Out to discuss how High Conflict Personalities can drive legal abuse in the family court system and how to organize yourself to be able to go it with out an attorney. Lisa brings some good information to a scary subject. You can contact Lisa through their website beentheregotout.com or follow them on instagram, Youtube and Facebook. Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized recommendations...
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Episode 292 The Tightrope Act of Keeping The Kids Out of the Middle
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the struggles that come with dealing with a ex that isn't on the same page and exhibits narcissist like behaviors and how to navigate keeping the kids out of the middle of ongoing conflict. Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized recommendations for lawyers and therapists •live Q&A sessions •special discounts •meditation sessions •and fresh content every month All designed to help you master high-conflict co-parenting....
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Episode 293 High Conflict Co-Parenting Combating Harassment and Abuse An Interview with Talking Parents
The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast
In this episode Brook Olsen and Kelli Avallone Join the Talking Parents team on their Co-Parenting and Coffee webinar to discuss Parallel Parenting and the use of Co-Parenting Apps. During High Conflict Co-Parenting and dealing with Narcissism and other personality disorders the use of Co-Parenting Apps like Talking Parents can be a useful tool in getting the conflict under control and tracking the conversation between parents. The use of such apps can all so help when going to court to show the level of conflict and who is in may ways causing the conflict to continue. This is a rich...
info_outlineIn this episode Brook has guest Rich Carr author of Surprised: The Science and Art of Engagement. Rich brings a bright and engaging look at how we as humans respond or react to an outside stimulus and in understanding the workings of the various part of the brain dictate how you will engage in or disengage with that stimulus. In high conflict or for that matter any relational interaction, getting to the solution with the least amount of conflict and the optimal exploration is the goal. Rich goes into how you can install intention and preprogram action to reduce the reactivity in your system and access the parts of the brain that problem solve. Enjoy!!!
Rich Carr can be reached at through his website. https://braincentricdesign.com/
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