195. Finding Light When the World Feels Heavy | What To Do When Things Get Scary
Release Date: 10/30/2025
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We’re wrapping up the year by replaying the episodes you loved most in 2025 while we spend time with our friends and family over the holidays! AKA the episodes you guys streamed the most! Thank you so much for your support of the podcast in 2025. We hope you have an amazing holiday surrounded by loved ones, peaceful moments, and memories in the making. Cheers! May is a big month! Lee’s birthday is just around the corner (May 19th, mark your calendars!), and we’re celebrating an exciting win: we’ve officially been named Best Podcast in Charlotte by the BOB Awards! THANK YOU to...
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We’re wrapping up the year by replaying the episodes you loved most in 2025 while we spend time with our friends and family over the holidays! AKA the episodes you guys streamed the most! Thank you so much for your support of the podcast in 2025. We hope you have an amazing holiday surrounded by loved ones, peaceful moments, and memories in the making. Cheers! Let’s talk about what everyone’s thinking but not always saying: is my sex life normal? In today’s innuendo-filled episode, we’re diving into five key areas to check in on with your partner: communication, desire,...
info_outlineSome weeks just feel heavier than others, and this one’s no exception. With everything happening in the world right now, we wanted to pause the noise and bring you something simple, honest, and hopefully grounding.
In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when life feels uncertain -- how to stay informed without spiraling, when to unplug and protect your peace, and why small acts of movement, kindness, and connection can shift everything. From taking a walk or casting your vote to drawing a hot bath or calling someone you love, this is your reminder that light still lives in the everyday things we can control.
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Some key takeaways from this episode:
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Name what’s weighing on you. Awareness brings clarity and helps you take back your sense of control.
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Move your body. Even a short walk or 10 minutes of stretching can shift your energy and calm your nervous system.
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Find your ceremony. Baths, journaling, or quiet moments with someone you love. Small rituals keep you grounded.
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Lead with empathy. Everyone’s carrying something. Choosing kindness lightens the load for all of us.
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Use your voice. Whether you speak softly or stand boldly, your energy and your actions matter.
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