Modern relationships, the delicate balance of boundaries and compromise, and vulnerability for deeper intimacy and happiness with Charisse Cooke
Release Date: 05/09/2025
The toxin talk we should be having and an approach to low-tox beyond your IG feed with Lara Adler
Figuring It Out
Welcome back to the show. Today, we’re diving into a topic that has become increasingly noisy online: environmental chemicals, toxicity, and what it truly means to support our long-term health. To help ground this conversation in evidence and context rather than fear and marketing, I’m joined by Lara Adler, an environmental health educator and advocate who has spent the last 14 years deep in the research behind environmental exposures and public health. In this episode, we unpack the widening gap between individualized “wellness culture” and the larger systemic issues — like...
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Staying healthy, happy and sane this holiday season + giving the best gifts
Figuring It Out
In this pre-Thanksgiving episode, I’m sharing the habits, mindset shifts, and grounding practices that help me not just survive the holidays—but actually enjoy them. This time of year can feel magical and stressful all at once, so I’m walking you through the tools I use to stay calm, present, and connected, even when life feels chaotic. I’m also diving into intentional gifting: how I’m approaching Black Friday with more mindfulness, how I choose meaningful gifts without getting swept into the overwhelm, and the little luxuries, hostess gifts, men’s gifts, and friend-gifts...
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Unlocking your strengths, aligning your career with your purpose, and finding your flow with Tianna Soto
Figuring It Out
If you’ve ever felt burnt out, confused about your next step, or pressure to be “everything to everyone,” this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. In this conversation, I sat down with Tianna Soto. Tianna is a keynote speaker and mental health educator known for making wellness feel human, hopeful, and actionable. With a Master's in psychology from Columbia, experience as a Women’s Health journalist, and certifications in yoga, reiki, and somatic anxiety coaching, she bridges science and soul to help people manage stress and rebuild resilience. During our conversation...
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My fertility journey: where I’m at, what I’ve learned, and what’s next
Figuring It Out
In this solo episode, I’m opening up about my fertility journey — the IVF cycles, loss, and everything I’ve learned along the way. My hope is that by sharing my experience honestly, you feel less alone in yours. In this episode, I talk about: What the past year of IVF has really looked like behind the scenes — monitoring, injections, emotions, changing protocols and uncertainty How stress, lifestyle, and past habits impacted my hormones What I wish I knew in my 20s about fertility and ovulation The importance of advocating for your own health and understanding your...
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What every woman should know about fertility, hormonal health and advocating for herself with Dr. Natalie Crawford
Figuring It Out
In this episode, we’re diving deep into women’s health, fertility, and empowerment with one of the most trusted voices in reproductive medicine, Dr. Natalie Crawford — a board-certified OB/GYN, reproductive endocrinologist, educator, and advocate for women understanding their own bodies. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by fertility advice, confused by your cycle, or frustrated by the lack of answers, this conversation is going to be a game-changer. Natalie opens up about her own journey through recurrent pregnancy loss, the science of hormones, and why your period is truly a...
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How strength training helped me transform my mental health and made me feel like a better version of myself
Figuring It Out
In this solo, I share my journey with strength training and how it has transformed my perception of fitness and body image and helped me build more emotional resilience. Like many women, I am impacted the the outside noise and all of the things we “should” do to be healthy. By nurturing my internal compass, I have found more peace within myself and my body than ever before. This journey to greater acceptance has had a positive domino affect on my entire well-being including personal relationships, anxiety and of course how I feel about body image, food and exercise. This journey has led to...
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Finding Meaning After Loss: Dr. Erica Rozmid on Grief, Healing, and Radical Acceptance
Figuring It Out
Today’s conversation is one of those rare ones that will stay with you. I’m joined by Dr. Erica Rozmid, a clinical psychologist, researcher, and founder of Clarity CBT & DBT Center and TFMR Psychologist — where she supports parents who have faced the unimaginable: a termination for medical reasons. Not only does she support them, but has built an ecosystem of providers with this specialty, filling a gap that didn’t exist before. In this episode, Dr. Rozmid opens up about her own story of loss, and how she turned her pain into purpose. We talk about radical acceptance,...
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Travel essentials, FAQ, and how we make our travel decisions
Figuring It Out
In this episode, I’m talking about all things travel. After 6 weeks of what feels like constant travel, I feel like quite the expert. I share my travel essentials that help me feel like my best self, tips on how to maintain a sense of self while in the sky, on the road, or in a hotel, the importance of taking time off, how we prioritize travel in our budget, how we decide where to go, and packing tips. I also share how I maintain habits while traveling - I hope this helps you as you plan your next trip or try to maintain some balance in a busy season!
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The mind-body connection and whole body healing with somatic healer Hanna Hanula
Figuring It Out
Today’s guest is Hanna Hanula is a somatic healer, psycho-somatic guide, and intuitive wellness mentor who empowers high achievers — especially women — to reconnect with their bodies, uncover hidden emotional patterns, and transform chronic symptoms into pathways of healing. Hanna is a former financial analyst who transformed her own struggles with anxiety, ADHD, digestive issues, and internal hyperdrive into a deeply embodied practice. She draws from a rich blend of somatic therapy, naturopathy, nutrition, energy work, and intuitive guidance to help clients decode the body’s messages...
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From Playing the Game to Changing It: Owning Your Power as a Woman at Work with Laura Weldy
Figuring It Out
Today’s guest is Laura Weldy — a certified coach and unapologetic champion for women navigating male-dominated workplaces. Laura empowers ambitious women to reclaim their confidence and step into leadership on their own terms—with frameworks like The Personal Power Code and coaching experiences like Powerhouse Intensive. She helps women show up powerfully without shrinking themselves—and teaches organizations how to retain and develop their rising women leaders. In this conversation, Laura Weldy and I discuss the challenges women face in the workplace, particularly in...
info_outlineCharisse Cooke is a London-based psychotherapist and author who specializes in attachment theory. With over 20 years of experience, she uses her expertise in relationship dynamics to help people develop healthy bonds. Her approach is rooted in compassion and understanding, and she offers practical strategies for managing negative thoughts and improving nonverbal communication. She is also an online educator with a mission to mend the fabric of relationships through understanding and emotional resilience. Charisse’s approach to therapy is deeply rooted in adult attachment theory, offering a compassionate lens through which to view and transform one’s relational universe.
- Modern dating dynamics and how relationships have changed during her 20 years of working with couples and how roles have shifted as the socio economic climate has changed, specifically around the change for men
- Shifting standards and expectations as we settle down in life later and how to bring two individual, independent lives together successfully
- Why self-awareness and courage are so important so that you can understand your own behaviors and feelings within the context of your relationship but also express vulnerability and assert your own needs.
- How to recognize emotional patterns and understand how your past experiences may play a role in shaping your present interactions
- Common reactions to vulnerability, including stonewalling and how to get more comfortable with being vulnerable to unlock more potential from your relationship
- The power of open communication
- What a healthy relationship looks like and how to ensure yours is on the right path
- We explore the delicate balance between boundaries and compromise, the emotional labor, and how joy and pain can both provide opportunities for growth