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Seasons of the Soul: When to Push, When to Pause Respecting Your Rhythm

Resilience Across Borders Podcast

Release Date: 02/06/2026

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Life doesn’t move in a straight line—and neither do we. In this episode of Resilience Across Borders, Rachid Zahidi explores the concept of inner seasons and how honoring your natural rhythm can foster deeper resilience, clarity, and balance.

Drawing inspiration from nature, Rachid explains the difference between seasons of expansion and seasons of rest—what he calls the winter push and the winter pause. Instead of forcing productivity or fighting low-energy phases, this episode invites you to recognize what each season is asking of you and respond with wisdom rather than pressure.

This conversation is a reminder that rest is not weakness, pausing is not falling behind, and true growth happens when effort and recovery work together.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why life unfolds in seasons of growth, stillness, and renewal

  • How to recognize your current internal season

  • The difference between acting from energy vs. acting from ego

  • Why rest is a critical part of productivity and resilience

  • How pausing can prepare you for clarity, creativity, and strength

  • Ways to trust timing instead of rushing the process

  • Simple rituals to help you realign with your natural rhythm


Key Takeaways:

  • Resilience is rhythmic, not relentless

  • Pushing works best during seasons of energy and clarity

  • Pausing allows insight, healing, and renewal to take root

  • Productivity includes rest, reflection, and recovery

  • What’s meant for you cannot miss you


Practical Reflections:

  • Ask yourself: Am I moving from inspiration or obligation?

  • Notice when your energy feels expansive vs. contracted

  • Journal not only what you achieve, but when you rest and what you learn

  • Create weekly check-ins to adjust your pace based on your energy


Featured Tool

The EMO Gym Journal (Emotional Gym)
A guided workbook designed to help you gain clarity, stay focused on your priorities, build better habits, and track both growth and rest.


Quotes from the Episode:

  • “Respecting your rhythm is not a sign of weakness, but of wisdom.”

  • “True resilience isn’t constant motion—it’s harmony with your own cycle.”

  • “Rest is not wasted time; it’s where clarity and strength are restored.”


Resources & Links

  • 📘 EMO Gym Journal — Available on Amazon

  • 🌐 Blog & Episodes: resilienceacrossborders.com

  • 🎧 Resilience Across Borders Podcast — New episodes weekly


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Remember: be kind to yourself, be kind to others—and stay resilient. 🌊✨