It's Not about You

Today our text is Romans 12:9a, 13

Love must be sincere…Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

We return to hospitality. Why? Because culturally, hospitality is mostly about the one hosting, whereas Christian hospitality is about the one being hosted. Let’s flesh this out some more.

Hotels and restaurants are part of the hospitality industry. They seek to impress customers so that they will return. Likewise, we want to impress people so they will associate with us. Hospitality is largely understood as having people over. More importantly, people we want to associate with. I’m not saying you shouldn’t do this anymore. But let me ask a question: when is the last time you invited someone to your house that you didn’t want over?

You see, the thing we are talking about, ‘Christian hospitality’, includes such events. It can include having friends over; it can include going the extra mile to clean the house and preparing a delicious meal. But we don’t do it to impress; we do it because the people we have invited are important. Not important in a worldly or cultural or political sense. Hosting them may not benefit us at all. They are important because God has sent them to us. We have the privilege of hosting them on God’s behalf, even if we don’t want to.

Jesus put’s it this way in a parable ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me…Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me’ (Matthew 25:45-46).

Many Biblical scholars suggest that the word ‘practice’ ought to be translated ‘pursue.’ There is an urgency to it. Further, the word for hospitality includes the idea, “love of strangers”. It carries the idea of extending love to those who are different — folks from another culture, another race, or a different belief system. Love takes the initiative, actively looking for opportunities to benefit others, especially those who are different.

A cold, unfriendly church contradicts the gospel message. Yet unfriendliness stands out as one of the most common criticisms people have of the local church. It doesn’t take people long to figure out that there is a “churchy” love among Christians that ends shortly after the service. It is a superficial Sunday-morning kind of love that is unwilling to venture beyond the walls of the church building. 

Christian hospitality moves us beyond our comfort zones. It nudges us to give time, attention and space to strangers that God sends our way, tending to their needs before our own.

It also insists that we see ourselves as God sees us: his beloved children who have been loved so deeply that we are able to love. Such hospitality is not rooted in our limited resources, but in the unlimited resources of God. When he calls, he will also provide.

As you journey on, go with this blessing:

     Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.