Dig to the ROOTS (or Keep Struggling)
Sports Motivation Podcast
James Allen wrote it over a hundred years ago, and it's still the truest thing I know: "Whatsoever you harbor in the innermost chambers of your heart will, sooner or later, by the inevitable law of reaction, shape itself in your outward life." Your thoughts, your beliefs, your unhealed pain, they don't stay hidden. They show up as your life. In this episode I get into what's actually driving your repeated patterns of failure and frustration. It's not the market, not your team, not bad luck. It's your fear of failure. It's the belief that you're worthless underneath it all. It's your fear of...
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How the EGO keeps you stuck (without you even knowing)
Sports Motivation Podcast
Your ego is running way more decisions than you think, and it's not trying to help you win. In this episode I break down how the ego operates, why bad choices feel right in the moment and good choices feel wrong, and what to actually do about it. The ego isn't the enemy. It's part of being human, and you can't kill it off. What you can do is make it flexible instead of rigid. Right now it's probably running stiff, defending itself, convincing you that comfort is the same thing as correct. Here's the trap. When you flash out at someone, when you eat the fries on the diet, when you go for...
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Live like your parents are DEAD
Sports Motivation Podcast
At 20, I found out my ex girlfriend was pregnant. I stared at the ceiling for an hour, drowning in guilt, shame, and the fear of what my church going family would think. I ended up back with her. Had another kid. Spent almost 10 years in an on and off toxic relationship, three failed engagements, all because I was chasing my dad's approval instead of building my own life. He was a devoted Christian who wanted me married, and he never seemed to care that we weren't right for each other. I wasn't even living my own beliefs, I was living his. In this episode I break down why so many of you are...
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Reality Check: You think you're changing, but you are not (The realities of change)
Sports Motivation Podcast
You think you're changing. You're not. Most of what people call growth is just a new way to avoid pain. Your body is wired for survival, homeostasis. Change registers as a threat. So when your relationship fails and you try again, only to repeat the same patterns with new fears layered on top, that's not growth. When you overtrain, get injured, then pull back and call it wisdom, that's not growth either. It's avoidance dressed up as evolution. Real change requires four things: a genuine disgust with how things have gone, hyper awareness of your own patterns like a scientist studying a disease,...
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BARS: The Power of Emotional Flow (Excerpt from 50th Law)
Sports Motivation Podcast
Your mind won't shut off at night because there are stress loops still open in your brain and nervous system. This is what emotional flow fixes. Every night before bed, set a timer for 7 minutes. Grab a pen and paper or a voice recorder. Then let everything out, every thought, every emotion, every idea sitting in your head. Don't try to organize it. Don't try to do it right. Just keep the thought vomit going until the timer stops. I break down why emotional flow works, how it helps close the open loops keeping you buzzing and antsy at night, and why doing this consistently changes the quality...
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DOMINATE your woman (just like you dominate your sport)
Sports Motivation Podcast
You dominate your sport but hand the keys of your relationship straight to your woman. You call it fairness. It's fear. Athletes and high performers build their careers on clarity, control, and uncompromising standards. Then they get into a relationship and turn into a pillow. Soft. Yielding. Compromising. Borrowing beliefs from Disney movies, social media, and politics instead of running their own process. The result: a sexless marriage, a platonic friendship dressed up as a partnership, and a woman who resents you for refusing to lead. I break down why the same principles that make you...
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The game has changed...
Sports Motivation Podcast
Information is not your problem. Fear is. You have access to AI, YouTube, books, experts, every tool imaginable. And you're still not moving. This episode breaks down exactly why, and what the three things are that will actually determine whether you win from here. The bottleneck is no longer what you know. It's whether you can take in the right information, act on it consistently, and adjust in real time when it's not working. Most people fail at step two. They build the plan, they feel good about the plan, and then fear convinces them the plan is too dangerous to actually run. Niyi...
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When the vision feels so far away, and you're unsure how it will play out
Sports Motivation Podcast
You keep looking at the whole mountain instead of the next step. That's why you're stuck. In this episode, Niyi breaks down a simple mindset from Charlie Munger: you get ahead step by step, not in fast spurts. Using the analogy of a team down 3-0 in a seven-game series and a cross-country drive from Portland to New York, Niyi shows you how to stop drowning in the size of your goal and start focusing on the next milestone and the next best action. If you've been stuck in a pattern of overwhelm, procrastination, or avoidance around your big goals, this episode gives you a way out that doesn't...
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Why You Keep Talking Yourself Out Of What You Want
Sports Motivation Podcast
You're doing something right now that you don't actually want to be doing. Maybe you had a real idea about what you want, and somewhere between having it and acting on it, you talked yourself right out of it. Or maybe it's worse, you're walking around acting like you want something you actually don't. In this episode, Niyi breaks down what's really happening underneath that pattern: the desire that's real, the fear that isn't, and why the things you've probably already tried, forcing action, hyping yourself up, beating yourself up, don't work. He lays out what actually does, and why you...
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The Self Worship Ritual | All Praise Be To You
Sports Motivation Podcast
You've been told worship belongs to God, never you. Today we flip that. Because the same hand that made the ocean, the sunset, every flower that's ever stopped you in your tracks, made you too. So when I say worship yourself, I'm not asking you to replace God. I'm asking you to stop disrespecting His work. This episode is an interactive ritual, not a lecture. I walk you through eight places to look: your favorite physical trait, the part of you you've been taught to hate, the shame you've been carrying, the quality you love most, the one you've been told to hide, your superpower, your jungle...
info_outline"Everybody wants to be a big dog… until it’s time to do big dog shit." - Philthy Rich
In this episode, we’re cutting through the fantasy of success and getting real about what it actually takes to become and stay dominant. It’s not about your first win, your first $100K, or your early momentum...it’s about who you are after you lose it, after you get tested, after it gets hard.
We break down the different stages you might be in right now; hungry and coming up, chasing the next level, or still searching for your first real breakthrough, and expose the one thing holding all of you back: avoiding the hard decisions you already know you need to make.
This episode is about tapping into that God-given instinct to dominate, and understanding that instinct means nothing if you don’t have the courage to act on it. Not more podcasts. Not more planning. Execution. Pressure. Standards. Change.
Because becoming a real competitor, a true Killa, requires you to:
- Face the fears you’ve been avoiding
- Make uncomfortable, high-stakes decisions
- Raise your standards and live by them
- Execute under pressure until the job is done
At the end, you’ll be challenged to identify your next real move, the one you’ve been putting off, and step into it.
🎵 Featured track: FOD x GAFFLE BOYZ by Philthy Rich
If you’re ready to start moving like a big dog, it’s time to take action.
For coaching, go to imnotyou.com/coaching and start executing at the level you know you’re capable of.