Candid Confessions: Phoenixes Don't Rise from Checking Out
Release Date: 04/03/2024
Re-Airing of John Wineland Episode from 2016
Intimate Conversations
Oh The Places You’ll Go! That Dr. Seuss book title reminds me of our growth and evolution as leaders! This blast from the past interview in 2016 with John Wineland on Intimate Conversations highlighted John when we both contributed to the Good Men Project. John has travelled world-wide teaching his vision of embodied men’s work and deep relational practice. Back in 2014, he founded The New Men’s Work Project, which has attracted men from around the world looking to develop as leaders in their relationships and communities. Soon as a return guest in 2024 in Season 12 of Intimate...
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A New Story of Value for Humanity with Dr. Marc Gafni: Part 2
Intimate Conversations
I'm always left spellbound by the breathtaking honor of connecting with Dr. Marc Gafni. When he speaks every cell of my body comes alive, my soul feels ignited, I'm able to literally feel Eros in, as and through me. It brought me to tears. We spoke of his new book that I invite you to purchase, First Principles and First Values. Not only did we speak of Eros and Pseudo Eros, but a new word, Erosvalue in response to the meta-crisis. And yet what does this mean to your life and intimate relationships? In this inspiring conversation you will discover... -The importance of being able to feel the...
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A New Story of Value for Humanity with Dr. Marc Gafni: Part 1
Intimate Conversations
I'm always left spellbound by the breathtaking honor of connecting with Dr. Marc Gafni. When he speaks every cell of my body comes alive, my soul feels ignited, I'm able to literally feel Eros in, as and through me. It brought me to tears. We spoke of his new book that I invite you to purchase, First Principles and First Values. Not only did we speak of Eros and Pseudo Eros, but a new word, Erosvalue in response to the meta-crisis. And yet what does this mean to your life and intimate relationships? In this inspiring conversation you will discover... -The importance of being able to feel the...
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Candid Confessions: Conflict as the Doorway to Connection
Intimate Conversations
I loved answering your questions so we can find the Gift in the Sh*tshow! First I shared about finding harmony in conflict: In relationships, conflict and stark polarities can often seem overwhelming. You asked, how can couples find the 'gifts' hidden within these tense moments? Can you share examples of how embracing conflict can lead to deeper understanding and intimacy? I spoke of clients caught in a cycle of him being frustrated and she shutting down… AND how to pattern interrupt and see the ‘enemy' not as each other, but the cycle they were caught in. Conflict is showing us where we...
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Client Myola's Story and Healing Tools That Work
Intimate Conversations
Life is amazing in that we never know the impact we make, whose heart we touch. Yet sometimes we have the magical blessing of knowing... like when I discovered Myola had been following me for a decade! She is an expert in her own right and we've been on similar Summit Panels over the years and I was honored beyond measure to discover she was ready to dive into this level of work. She's become such a huge contribution to our inner circle community, even traveling across the globe to be with us at the Annual Intimacy Retreat in Costa Rica! In this delicious conversation we...
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Astrology Guidance so Your Phoenix will Rise with Dr. Michael Lennox Part 2
Intimate Conversations
Oh my God I met a soul brother. How is it that some people you instantly have a ridiculous blast with going deep, sharing truths, instantly understanding each other, and championing each other's purpose? Dr. Michael is delicious! Exquisite :) Connected. On purpose and a gift to us all. We began our discussion on how dreams and universal symbolism came so easily to him. Given how he was raised being shown symbols from his mother, when he saw astrology symbols it instantly made sense but also opened another portal to a sense of knowing, mastery and genius that in my opinion came from past...
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Astrology Guidance so Your Phoenix will Rise with Dr. Michael Lennox Part 1
Intimate Conversations
Oh my God I met a soul brother. How is it that some people you instantly have a ridiculous blast with going deep, sharing truths, instantly understanding each other, and championing each other's purpose? Dr. Michael is delicious! Exquisite :) Connected. On purpose and a gift to us all. We began our discussion on how dreams and universal symbolism came so easily to him. Given how he was raised being shown symbols from his mother, when he saw astrology symbols it instantly made sense but also opened another portal to a sense of knowing, mastery and genius that in my opinion came from past...
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Candid Confessions: Phoenixes Don't Rise from Checking Out
Intimate Conversations
In this solo episode regarding sitting in the fire and feeling all the feels, I enjoyed answering your spot-on questions. Q1: Allana, why do people bypass, it totally annoys me when they pretend they're over it, but clearly they're not. A: Yes, I call it sprinkles on top of the ice cream cone of shit. I agree that it's highly annoying and yet underneath it all, they are terrified, so have compassion whether it's somebody else or you who is doing the bypassing. The reason I mentioned you might be bypassing too, is that people tend to annoy me when they show me what I have NOT processed yet....
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Client Samantha's Story and Healing Tools That Work
Intimate Conversations
Talk about an awakening of presence, elegance, confidence and unapologetic ownership of her dreams... I loved this one on one girl night connection about Little You, feelings and love with my inspiring client Samantha. This recording came on the tail end of spending close to a week with her in Costa Rica at the annual Intimacy Retreat... and was even more special given she came to me recommended by a past client who found the love of her life and is now married. Samantha does the work, she's learned to slow down and feel her feelings, play a hell of a lot more, and bravely ask for what she...
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Divorce Awakens Your Divine Feminine with Krista Williams: Part 2
Intimate Conversations
Okay, we descended to 300 feet... instantly. There's a reason why her podcast has 100 million downloads. She's captivating. There's a reason why I asked her to support me in my podcast expansion for you. She's brilliant. And I love the reason why we connected... sharing of our divorces, shadows and God was enlivening. From the Mother wound to Little You and sacred sexuality... we shared what's possible when you are embodied and truly surrender. In this exquisite conversation we also discussed... -How many well intending women are running on adrenal fatigue in their masculine energy valuing...
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Q1: Allana, why do people bypass, it totally annoys me when they pretend they're over it, but clearly they're not.
A: Yes, I call it sprinkles on top of the ice cream cone of shit. I agree that it's highly annoying and yet underneath it all, they are terrified, so have compassion whether it's somebody else or you who is doing the bypassing.
The reason I mentioned you might be bypassing too, is that people tend to annoy me when they show me what I have NOT processed yet. When they show me what I HAVE processed, I feel compassion. Most of the time I'm humbled and have more work to do :-)
Q2: How do I know if I'm truly feeling or not, feeling it ALL or not, getting to the raw depth of the true emotion?
A: I have this beautiful, completely committed, shows up and does the work client who was confident she was in her body, yet she was not. She was in her head doing her best to figure it out, understand, justify, occasionally get defensive or blame in validated frustration. She really was trying so hard! Yes that's the word… trying…… she wasn't surrendering come as she still wanted to be in control. Her ego wanted to be right.
It was only after she and I did a VIP where she bravely felt past where she normally disassociates that she came home. And she was One with All. And it was exquisite.
Q3: How can feeling through the pain of heartbreak actually catapult my growth? It just feels like torture, what's the point of that?
A: Every single time for the past 20 to 25 years when a client authentically feels an emotion without trying to fix it or push it away, and they just allow the body and spirit to support their integration, they don't just eliminate the pain, they become powerful. They don't just eliminate the shame, they become unapologetic. They don't just eliminate the betrayal, they become the embodiment of forgiveness. They don't just eliminate fear, they become peace itself.
It's only torture because you're resisting the feeling. Granted feeling the feeling sucks for a little bit, But then integration feels like Home, Wholeness and Embodied Calm. Every time.
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