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Therapists & Coaches are people, too with Esin Pinarli

Intimate Conversations

Release Date: 07/10/2025

Sacred Hunger & Unquestionable Trust with Sophie Josephina show art Sacred Hunger & Unquestionable Trust with Sophie Josephina

Intimate Conversations

You know when things look like they're falling apart but they're really falling together? I was super stoked to interview several teacher trainers after the workshop completed in Mallorca, Spain. However, one by one the guests began to reschedule as the intensity of the workshop built. It was a good learning lesson to temper my enthusiasm with grounded intuition to ensure my idea was a 5D win win for all. Literally as I was speaking to one guest who was understandably exhausted and requesting to reschedule, her replacement suggestion to interview literally walked in the room. AND I had just...

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Hope, Healing, and Holistic Fertility with Gabriela Rosa show art Hope, Healing, and Holistic Fertility with Gabriela Rosa

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➡️ Go check out patreon.com/allanapratt for Exclusive content! About Gabriella:   Gabriela Rosa is a fertility specialist, reproductive health educator, and Harvard University-awarded scholar and an accomplished and experienced business leader and entrepreneur. Gabriela created the world’s first entirely virtual and holistic fertility clinic. As the founder and CEO of The Rosa Institute, which currently serves patients in every continent (other than Antarctica), Gabriela leads a team of holistic specialists. Her treatment methodology has become an authority in its industry for...

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Client Nada's Story and Healing Tools That Work show art Client Nada's Story and Healing Tools That Work

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For someone who I've known for two decades, it's amazing that I've only interviewed her and her husband once. This was the first time to interview Nada individually and what a profound treat it was! It's been breathtaking to watch her evolution as she balances her superpowers of mind and heart. So many of our childhood wounds turn into coping mechanisms that allow us to thrive vocationally. She is an extraordinary litigator and has a masterful capacity to not be triggered, see both sides of a situation and communicate in a way so that everyone feels heard. She brilliantly sees a way through...

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Two Decades of Friendship, Healing, and Truth with Nada Shamonki - Part 2 show art Two Decades of Friendship, Healing, and Truth with Nada Shamonki - Part 2

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There are some conversations that stay with you forever because they crack you open and remind you of what’s truly possible when we lean into vulnerability, truth AND cherished sisterhood. What a gift to circle back with my bestie Nada Shamonki, who has witnessed my journey for the past 20 years as we explore the depths of emotional capacity and sacred repair together. In this delicious and soul-stirring conversation we explored… - How I shifted from survival-based relationships, either damsel in distress or hyper-independent ‘boss woman,’ into wholeness, where love, work and...

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Two Decades of Friendship, Healing, and Truth with Nada Shamonki - Part 1 show art Two Decades of Friendship, Healing, and Truth with Nada Shamonki - Part 1

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This extended and deeply personal episode turns the tables as Allana Pratt, usually the host, is interviewed by her long-time friend, client, and legal counsel, Nada Shamonki. Their 20-year friendship lays the foundation for an open, vulnerable, and intimate conversation about Allana’s personal, professional and spiritual evolution.   -Allana reflects on becoming a single mother and building her coaching career from scratch, including her initial niche as the “Sexy Mom Expert.” She shares early milestones, including working with Leeza Gibbons and navigating motherhood without her...

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Uncovering the Shadows in Love with Bob Grant show art Uncovering the Shadows in Love with Bob Grant

Intimate Conversations

This is phenomenal to interview Bob Grant after having been interviewed by him for his summit. I can see why women feel so safe being coached around dating and relationships by him. His energy is so present, safe, kind, and caring. He's void of judgment and committed to a proven path of fixing the problem. He provides clear points of view that open up new possibilities. And simultaneously, he's deep, he's not into quick fixes or surface solutions, he invites his clients to slow down and feel, discover the shadow underneath it all that's at the root of the problem. In this...

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Client Danielle's Story and Healing Tools That Work show art Client Danielle's Story and Healing Tools That Work

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This deeply personal and emotional episode features Danielle, a cherished client of my coaching program. The conversation highlights her impressive growth through emotional healing, relationship transformation, and personal empowerment, especially after ending a toxic relationship. Danielle began coaching when she was in a manipulative and emotionally abusive relationship with a man who resented her financial success. Despite having wealth and a supportive family background, she struggled with self-worth, especially around romantic partners. Her patterns included "project men" – dating men...

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Embodying the Divine Journey with Rebecca Reynolds show art Embodying the Divine Journey with Rebecca Reynolds

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My Allana Pratt Method Coach, Kristina, has been speaking of Rebecca for years. I am super stoked I followed through and interviewed this brilliant, embodied, and inspiring woman! Rebecca gets Change!  It's like she's another facet of the same Diamond I am, one that we shine a congruent, complementary light on embracing change and an aligned feeling of breathtaking honor to walk with someone through the cycle of change. She helped me turn some unconscious competences into competent competences. I'm so grateful! In this conversation that I would have been happy to have gone on for over 5...

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From Dark Night to Divine Light with Dr. Kevin Reese show art From Dark Night to Divine Light with Dr. Kevin Reese

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While Dr. Kevin is known for his whole body approach called Head to Toe Healing, I would say from Head to Heart. We instantly dove into a spiritual conversation about all the Divine orchestrations and experiences of his evolution. It explains so much of the depth of presence that I experienced with him when I interviewed him on Instagram and teased him that he's the Sexy Care Bear :-) There's a resonance in his voice that is sourced someplace quite deep, and learning more of his story revealed what I intuited. And even though we eventually talked about health and well-being and the phenomenal...

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Therapists & Coaches are people, too with Esin Pinarli show art Therapists & Coaches are people, too with Esin Pinarli

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After a botchy IG Live when I couldn’t SEE Esin, this was delicious to LOOK into her beautiful eyes and connect heart to heart. Erin is a Holistic Psychologist, LCSW, Addiction Professional, and Relationship Expert.  We dove right into our shared experiences of Female Friendship & Betrayal. While many think breaking up with a boyfriend or husband is intense… we both agreed that the heartbreak of female friendship betrayals and the pain of sisterhood ruptures can be even more intense… perhaps because you don’t see them coming.  We both opened up about how early family...

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After a botchy IG Live when I couldn’t SEE Esin, this was delicious to LOOK into her beautiful eyes and connect heart to heart. Erin is a Holistic Psychologist, LCSW, Addiction Professional, and Relationship Expert. 

We dove right into our shared experiences of Female Friendship & Betrayal. While many think breaking up with a boyfriend or husband is intense… we both agreed that the heartbreak of female friendship betrayals and the pain of sisterhood ruptures can be even more intense… perhaps because you don’t see them coming. 

We both opened up about how early family roles and codependent tendencies and how that has shaped our adult relationships, and how needing constant reassurance or connection with others can lead to losing a sense of self.

It was so nourishing to connect with Esin about the complexities of therapeutic relationships, how deeply intimate and soul-connected they can become, and the struggle to maintain healthy boundaries without losing authenticity or care. We both have historically over-given to clients at the cost of our own well-being. I shared how my mentors have taught me self-first care vs. selfless care, and how time off and new practices like a month's sabbatical in Spain, flamenco dancing is helping me reclaim joy and balance.

As two single women, we highlighted the importance of building friendships and romantic relationships outside of work and stop over-relying on our careers for fulfillment. We lovingly challenged each other to actively create more space for personal relationships and fun. I shared a playfully structured approach with ways I'm reparenting my inner self—including having “dinner” with her inner masculine and feminine, and putting a cardboard Jason Mamoa in my home to prompt sensual self-practices! (Decided on the poster, not the full-size cardboard after all xox) 

Our conversation was deeply personal, with both of us modeling vulnerability, acknowledging our wounds, and laughing through the shared journey of learning to love and care for ourselves more fully. Some bumper sticker takeaways include..."If I avoid love, I avoid pain. But if I avoid pain, I also avoid love.” "We don’t want to dismantle codependency in a way where we demonize it—we just want to harness it differently.” "The source of my wholeness needs to come from inside-out, not outside-in."

This episode is a beautiful, raw, and deeply human exploration of the messy, courageous journey of reclaiming self-worth, intimacy, and joy—especially for those, like Esin and I, who help others for a living. It’s a reminder that even the most evolved coaches and therapists are still growing, too.

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About Esin:  

Esin Pinarli is a holistic psychotherapist and relationship expert specializing in IMAGO therapy, brainspotting, Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic practices, and psychodrama. Through an integrative experiential approach, she helps individuals and couples suffering from anxiety, depression, addiction, codependency, trauma, and relational attachment issues to navigate life's challenges so they can become fully alive, supported, and whole.

Website:
https://eternalwellnesscounseling.com

Facebook URL:
https://www.facebook.com/eternalwellnesscounseling

Instagram URL:
https://www.instagram.com/esinpinarli_lcsw

YouTube URL:
https://www.youtube.com/@EsinPinarli

Becoming Aware of Self: An introduction to Internal Family Systems
https://esinpinarli.myflodesk.com/becoming-aware-of-self

 

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