How To Turn Being Raised By A Narcissist Into Gold
The Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
Release Date: 03/18/2024
The Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐๏ธ In the last episode, we embarked on a journey through the first 10 years of my 20-year business adventure. Now, get ready to dive even deeper as we continue our exploration with lessons 11 through 20. Ah, but my human counterpart has, and I've been channeling alongside her this whole time. And now, I'm fully stepping into my role as Mother Malia, guiding you to your own golden success! โจ Grab a cozy cuppa, settle in, and let's explore the next 10 nuggets of wisdom. Golden Nuggets: Your need to be needed will determine the caliber of people that come into your...
info_outline Part 1: What I Have Learned from 20 Years in BusinessThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐Today, we're diving into the treasure trove of wisdom I've gathered over 20 years in business. Now, you might be thinking, "Mother Malia, you haven't been in business that long!" Ah, but my human counterpart has, and I've been channeling alongside her this whole time. And now, I'm fully stepping into my role as Mother Malia, guiding you to your own golden success! โจ In this two-part series, we'll uncover timeless lessons that apply no matter where you are in your business journey. Grab a cozy cuppa, settle in, and let's explore the first 10 nuggets of wisdom: Golden Nuggets: Your...
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๐This episode dives into the changing landscape of business and leadership in the New Earth paradigm. We're joined by a select group of highly successful, financially abundant CEOs who are also clear channels for intuitive guidance. Together, we'll explore how to move away from old models and embrace heart-centered approaches focused on service, contribution, and authenticity. Key Points: From Hierarchy to Heart: We discuss the shift from hierarchical structures to collaborative, purpose-driven models. This includes dismantling traditional business ideas and associated competition....
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๐In this episode of The Gold Standard Podcast, Mother Malia dives into how the freeze trauma response can hinder your business growth and limit your income. Here are the key takeaways: Understanding the Freeze Response: Freezing is a common trauma response to a perceived threat. When we freeze, we become unable to take action or move forward. This can show up in business as procrastination, avoidance, or a general feeling of being stuck. The Impact of Freeze on Business: The freeze response can hold you back from taking essential actions to grow your business. This can include...
info_outline How To Turn The Trauma Response of Fawning Into GoldThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐This episode, part of the ongoing trauma series on The Gold Standard:Making Millions with Mother Malia, explores how the trauma response of fawning can impact your business and offers steps to overcome it. Key Points: Fawners are experts at keeping people happy, often at their own expense. This people-pleasing behavior can stem from childhood abuse and a need to avoid upsetting caregivers. In business, fawning can lead to burnout, resentment, and difficulty attracting ideal clients. Fawners may struggle to set boundaries or charge premium rates. How Fawn Trauma Shows Up in Your...
info_outline How To Turn The Trauma Response of Flight Into GoldThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐This episode of The Gold Standard Podcast dives into the concept of flight trauma and how it can impede your business growth. Mother Malia explains that past traumas, like difficult childhood experiences, can lead to a "flight response" where you subconsciously disassociate from your body. This disassociation can manifest in several ways that hold you back in business, including: Analysis Paralysis: Overthinking and getting stuck in the planning stages to avoid taking action. Inconsistent Presence: Being physically present but mentally elsewhere,...
info_outline How To Turn The Trauma Response of Fight Into GoldThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐In this episode of The Gold Standard Podcast, Mother Malia dives deep into the ongoing trauma series, focusing on how to transform the fight response into financial abundance. Fight, a Necessary Response, But Potentially Limiting The fight response, a natural trauma response, can fuel your drive and determination. It can be the very reason you push hard and achieve great things in your business. However, this same fight response can also become a barrier to even greater success. Mother Malia explores how this fight response can manifest in your business: Constant Battling: Feeling...
info_outline How To Turn Being Raised By A Physically Or Emotionally Distant Parent Into GoldThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐ This episode explores the surprising connection between childhood trauma and your ability to make millions. Mother Malia explores how being raised by a physically or emotionally distant parent can show up in your business as: Feeling like a burden to clients Difficulty attracting ideal clients Hesitation to make sales or promote yourself A constant feeling of "being behind" Struggling to reach the next income level You'll learn: How your childhood experiences can unconsciously impact your business decisions The hidden ways you might be pushing away money and success ...
info_outline How To Turn Being Raised By A Controlling Parent Into GoldThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐ In this episode, Mother Malia dives into the surprising ways being raised by a controlling parent can impact your ability to make millions. Learn how to identify these hidden patterns, break free from self-preservation, and finally turn your wounds into gold. Key Points: Uncover how a controlling upbringing can manifest in struggles with attracting clients, receiving money, and building a sustainable business. Discover the hidden ways your trauma might be playing out in your business decisions and client interactions. Stop attracting the wrong clients! Learn how to break the cycle...
info_outline How To Turn Childhood Bullying Into GoldThe Gold Standard: Making Millions with Mother Malia
๐ This episode explores the hidden impact of childhood trauma, particularly bullying, on your business success. Mother Malia and I discuss how these experiences can limit your earning potential and share strategies to overcome them. Key Points: How childhood traumas can manifest as roadblocks in your business life. Understanding the "golden thread" - the core issue holding you back from financial abundance. The impact of trauma on your nervous system and its effect on achieving your goals. Limiting beliefs formed from past experiences and how to overcome them. This...
info_outline๐ In this episode, Mother Malia discusses the surprising upsides and downsides of having a narcissistic parent, and how it can impact your business journey.
Key Points:
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Being raised by a narcissist can make you a master at anticipating people's needs, which is a goldmine in the business world. ([2:58])
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Trauma from childhood can surface when you're trying to grow your business. ([5:08])
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People who were raised by narcissists may struggle to feel safe enough to receive abundance. ([3:15])
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Business can be a great healer, bringing up past traumas to be addressed. ([3:17])
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Symptoms of having a narcissist parent can manifest in specific ways within your business. ([3:58])
The Golden Nuggets of a Narcissistic Parent:
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You become an expert at making it all about other people, which can be a major advantage in business (initially). ([5:23])
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You may find it easy to connect with clients and create products/programs that resonate with their needs. ([5:41])
The Shadow Side:
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You may struggle to set boundaries and end up feeling burnt out from constantly giving. ([6:31])
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You might undervalue yourself and overdeliver for clients, creating resentment. ([7:14])
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You may attract clients who are bottomless pits, never satisfied and demanding more and more. ([8:39])
Healing the Trauma and Building a Thriving Business:
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By addressing the underlying trauma, you can transform the negative effects of a narcissistic parent into business gold. ([61:38])
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You can learn to create healthy boundaries and prioritize your own needs.
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You can shift from people-pleasing to attracting ideal clients who value you.
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About Our Host - Jennifer Longmore / 8 Figure Mentor, Founder of the #1 Akashic Record Training School & Clear Channel for Mother Malia
Jennifer Longmore is an award winning 8+ Figure CEO, 12 time best selling author, sought after high level business advisor to 6, 7 & 8 figure light leaders with enormous missions that require enormous money to fund them. She has amassed great wealth by building assets, investing, and buying and selling companies.
Before becoming Mother Malia, she built the #1 Akashic Record Training School in the world. Over the past 20 years, her school has certified over 100,000 consultants in over 100 countries and has been translated into 5 languages.
She is a clear channel for Mother Malia: The Great Mother who comes to earth during times of great transition, like the collective ascension we are experiencing now. She is here to restore the original codes of The Land of Humanity, to reawaken the gold codes as they were intended, and support as many light leaders as possible elevate into their sacred mission and allow in millions to fuel the spread of their sacred gifts.
Mother Malia has been very clear that our mission must come over the monkey mind and that we need to be fully resourced in order to expand our Sacred Missions here on Earth.
When she is not channeling and providing high level strategic guidance to light leaders, you can find her enjoying trips with her family, hikes with her dog, or tending to her 100+ rare plant collection.
Learn more:
Website: https://mothermalia.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenniferlongmore/