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#179: Grace Over Fear: When you feel embarrassed by your tears

Release Date: 10/24/2023

#197: What I Want You To Know: It takes a village: A behind-the-scenes look at the podcast

Grace In Real Life podcast

Receiving grace starts by being in community, by belonging, and connecting. How does grace show up when producing a podcast? Take a listen for this behind-the-scenes look. Before I launched the podcast, I knew I needed a team around me—people to pray for me and the podcast, give insight and ideas, offer suggestions for guests and questions to ask those guests, help me write a title that would appeal most to my listeners, and come alongside me to determine if a guest was in theological and doctrinal alignment with the podcast’s statement of faith. And the women you are about to meet...

#196: What I Want You To Know: Your Good Shepherd leads you to wide open spaces

Grace In Real Life podcast

Being who you are, being who God created you to be, is the most free way to live. So how do we live in the wide open space God offers? Listen in. Living in God’s wide open spaces means there is no condemnation in Christ. God certainly convicts and corrects, but He never assaults your identity. If the Lord has set you free, you are free indeed. It is a grace to accept the fearful and wonderful way God designed you, not to wish you were more like someone else, not to feel confined by the belief that there’s only one way to live your life. Friend, our God takes us away from tight spots...

#195: What I Want You To Know: It all counts

Grace In Real Life podcast

It all counts. Every act the Lord asks you to do is valuable. He sees it all. It all matters. All the work given to you by God and done in love is meaningful. I’m really good at discounting or downplaying the good ways God wired me, how He’s forming me through trials, and the work I do, the roles I hold, and how I show up in the world. And y’all, I believe that discounting is an effective - but totally flimsy - tactic of our enemy, who wants us quiet and isolated and stuck because we’re questioning our value and the goodness of God. Y’all, Jesus sees it all. He delights...

#194: What I Want You To Know: Our God of AND

Grace In Real Life podcast

Our God is a God of grace and truth. But what does this mean for us in our busy and full lives? Listen to what it means for our God to be a God of AND. If you’ve been around the Grace In Real Life podcast long enough, you’ve heard me share that our God is a God of AND: He’s grace AND truth Mercy AND holy justice Love AND perfect judgment Man of Sorrows AND Prince of Peace Offensive AND attractive What does this concept of God’s AND-ness mean for our everyday, walking-around lives? This is good and true, but what do we do with it? The reality that we love...

#193: Spiritual Health: Disciple-making in your right-now life with Kirk Freeman

Grace In Real Life podcast

What is disciple-making? How do we do it? What does it look like to make disciples when your schedule is full? And how can you possibly disciple your teenagers? When I really stop and think about it, going and making disciples sounds intimidating. How do I do it? What does it even look like? Is it One More Thing to add to my already full schedule? But as today’s guest points out, disciple-making is as easy and light as enjoying and following Jesus and helping others enjoy and follow Jesus. Discipleship is a gift from Jesus that we get to receive. It’s not a “have to” situation;...

#192: Spiritual Health: Building resilient relationships one question at a time with Mandy Pallock

Grace In Real Life podcast

When we were in college, Ryan gave me the nickname “The Interrogator” because I love asking questions. People are truly fascinating to me, and God gave us such an incredible world to discover, it seems impossible for me to not ask eleventybillion questions in a day. But as today’s guest points out, if all we do is ask questions, we’re just delving into trivia instead of a person's heart. Because asking and responding to questions is an art in which many of us would like to grow, I invited Mandy Pallock to the show. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and...

#191: Spiritual Health: Doing theology with Jen Wilkin

Grace In Real Life podcast

What are the benefits of studying theology? Isn’t theology for those in seminary or pastors? Do you need to study it? The truth is this: You are a theologian. If you’re like me, you’re like, “Am I a theologian? I’m pretty sure theologians went to seminary and read ancient texts and write papers about abstract attributes of God. I’m pretty sure I’m not one.” Through this conversation, Jen Wilkin will convince you of how you really, truly are a theologian in your right-now life and why that’s important for today’s world and generations to come. (Y’all, some of the stats Jen...

#190: Spiritual Health: Glorifying God through your work with Jordan Raynor

Grace In Real Life podcast

We’re talking about becoming spiritually healthy by recognizing how sacred our work is – no matter what we do – and how our work matters for eternity. Some of you might hear that and think, “But I’m not in full-time ministry. I’m not a missionary or on a church’s staff or recording a worship album. How is my work sacred?” Or maybe you think, “Well, maybe my work is important because it’s where I get to share the gospel.” I hope you receive the light Jordan sheds on how important your work is – whether you’re a spiritual director or a teacher’s aide, whether you’re...

#189: Spiritual Health: Naming what matters with Kendra Adachi

Grace In Real Life podcast

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#188: Spiritual Health: Moving Jesus’s love from your head to your heart with Dr. Curt Thompson

Grace In Real Life podcast

If we do not know Jesus' love on a deeply personal level and encounter His love in our busy and full, real lives, then the spiritual disciplines devolve into legalism and empty works. Without recognizing how much we are loved and cared for, everything else we do in that relationship is a striving attempt to be loved. Because experiencing God’s love for us is a gift we want to receive AND struggle with experiencing, I’ve invited Dr. Curt Thompson to join the show. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as we process moving God’s love...

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Have you ever felt embarrassed by your tears? What is going on when we do not like to cry in front of others? Listen in.

If Jesus wept, if Jesus calls us to suffer with those who suffer and weep with those who weep, why do we fear crying so much?

The reality is that as much as we hate crying, most of us cry relatively often. As image-bearers, we resonate deeply with Jesus as the Man of Sorrows. We cry because we feel so deeply that words cannot convey our grief and heartbreak.

In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for remembering grace overcomes fear and that you do not need to be embarrassed by your tears. You’ll learn:

what we do when we cry in front of others,
why many of us are so averse to crying,
how our enemy leverages our fear of this vulnerability,
and what God says.

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