Grace In Real Life podcast
This podcast is for those who want to wholeheartedly pursue Christ. You’re a woman who wants to follow where God leads, to live and love well, to extend grace to yourself and others, but there’s a part of you that’s like how? You want your faith to intersect with your busy and full life, but you aren’t sure what that looks like in real-time. Here at the Grace In Real Life podcast, we talk about how to practically apply grace in real life. Listen in!
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#197: What I Want You To Know: It takes a village: A behind-the-scenes look at the podcast
03/26/2024
#197: What I Want You To Know: It takes a village: A behind-the-scenes look at the podcast
Receiving grace starts by being in community, by belonging, and connecting. How does grace show up when producing a podcast? Take a listen for this behind-the-scenes look. Before I launched the podcast, I knew I needed a team around me—people to pray for me and the podcast, give insight and ideas, offer suggestions for guests and questions to ask those guests, help me write a title that would appeal most to my listeners, and come alongside me to determine if a guest was in theological and doctrinal alignment with the podcast’s statement of faith. And the women you are about to meet rose to that challenge to love Jesus, love me, love Grace In Real Life, and love you, my sweet listener. This team has helped me with branding and graphic design decisions along with editing scripts and voting on series ideas. If you’ve loved this podcast, it’s because Amy, Angi, Eileen, Kira, Lauren, and Nina made it so good. Together, we break down: What the podcast team did and how I curated this team, What God taught me through the podcast, Podcasting surprises, How I select guests and how I ask them to be on the show, How I planned content and how I handled unexpected global events, like the pandemic and social unrest, AND SO MUCH MORE. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes here and how community has shaped what the podcast is today, listen in.
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#196: What I Want You To Know: Your Good Shepherd leads you to wide open spaces
03/19/2024
#196: What I Want You To Know: Your Good Shepherd leads you to wide open spaces
Being who you are, being who God created you to be, is the most free way to live. So how do we live in the wide open space God offers? Listen in. Living in God’s wide open spaces means there is no condemnation in Christ. God certainly convicts and corrects, but He never assaults your identity. If the Lord has set you free, you are free indeed. It is a grace to accept the fearful and wonderful way God designed you, not to wish you were more like someone else, not to feel confined by the belief that there’s only one way to live your life. Friend, our God takes us away from tight spots and places us in wide-open, green pastures. We no longer need to feel as if we must contort ourselves to fit and conform to someone else’s standards or life or expectations of what we “should” be doing. We no longer need to play the comparison game. We no longer need to feel the shame of legalism. We are free to run, dance, live, and rest in the grace of the wide open spaces of God’s provision and goodness. In this episode, we’ll unpack how our God is a God of wide open spaces. So, how is this grace, and what do we even mean? Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Giveaway Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#195: What I Want You To Know: It all counts
03/12/2024
#195: What I Want You To Know: It all counts
It all counts. Every act the Lord asks you to do is valuable. He sees it all. It all matters. All the work given to you by God and done in love is meaningful. I’m really good at discounting or downplaying the good ways God wired me, how He’s forming me through trials, and the work I do, the roles I hold, and how I show up in the world. And y’all, I believe that discounting is an effective - but totally flimsy - tactic of our enemy, who wants us quiet and isolated and stuck because we’re questioning our value and the goodness of God. Y’all, Jesus sees it all. He delights in all the good you do in His name and out of love. He sees your sacrifice right now. He sees your heart trying to figure out life and how to love your people well. He knows your intentions, and God desires to help you every step of the way. All the work given to you by God and done in love is meaningful. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Giveaway by Drs. Townsend and Cloud Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#194: What I Want You To Know: Our God of AND
03/05/2024
#194: What I Want You To Know: Our God of AND
Our God is a God of grace and truth. But what does this mean for us in our busy and full lives? Listen to what it means for our God to be a God of AND. If you’ve been around the Grace In Real Life podcast long enough, you’ve heard me share that our God is a God of AND: He’s grace AND truth Mercy AND holy justice Love AND perfect judgment Man of Sorrows AND Prince of Peace Offensive AND attractive What does this concept of God’s AND-ness mean for our everyday, walking-around lives? This is good and true, but what do we do with it? The reality that we love and worship our God of AND coupled with the truth that we are people of AND impacts three areas: How we work out our salvation How we live How we embrace our humanity In today’s episode, you’ll learn about the grace and truth of our God, that: The grace of salvation is to be received AND lived. Christ-followers are not individualistic islands to ourselves but interwoven parts that create a whole. Grace calls us higher; to see that life and that our own selves are more nuanced than we ever thought possible. To see that God’s ways are higher and bigger than we could ever imagine. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Giveaway by Mark Buchanan by Tish Harrison Warren Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#193: Spiritual Health: Disciple-making in your right-now life with Kirk Freeman
02/27/2024
#193: Spiritual Health: Disciple-making in your right-now life with Kirk Freeman
What is disciple-making? How do we do it? What does it look like to make disciples when your schedule is full? And how can you possibly disciple your teenagers? When I really stop and think about it, going and making disciples sounds intimidating. How do I do it? What does it even look like? Is it One More Thing to add to my already full schedule? But as today’s guest points out, disciple-making is as easy and light as enjoying and following Jesus and helping others enjoy and follow Jesus. Discipleship is a gift from Jesus that we get to receive. It’s not a “have to” situation; it’s a “look what I get to do with my Father” situation. Because making disciples can feel big and weighty, I invited pastor and author Kirk Freeman to the show. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as you learn about how disciple-making relates to spiritual health. You’ll learn: Starting points for disciple-making, How to make disciples when you’re low on time, And how to spiritually lead your teenager. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! by Kirk Freeman Here’s how to connect with Kirk Freeman by Kirk Freeman Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#192: Spiritual Health: Building resilient relationships one question at a time with Mandy Pallock
02/20/2024
#192: Spiritual Health: Building resilient relationships one question at a time with Mandy Pallock
When we were in college, Ryan gave me the nickname “The Interrogator” because I love asking questions. People are truly fascinating to me, and God gave us such an incredible world to discover, it seems impossible for me to not ask eleventybillion questions in a day. But as today’s guest points out, if all we do is ask questions, we’re just delving into trivia instead of a person's heart. Because asking and responding to questions is an art in which many of us would like to grow, I invited Mandy Pallock to the show. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as you use the power of questions to cultivate spiritual health. You’ll learn: How questions draw you into deep community, Why questions are powerful, One pro tip on how to ask questions your kids will actually answer, And a sure-fire question to kick-start any conversation. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! by Mandy Pallock Here’s how to connect with Mandy Pallock Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#191: Spiritual Health: Doing theology with Jen Wilkin
02/13/2024
#191: Spiritual Health: Doing theology with Jen Wilkin
What are the benefits of studying theology? Isn’t theology for those in seminary or pastors? Do you need to study it? The truth is this: You are a theologian. If you’re like me, you’re like, “Am I a theologian? I’m pretty sure theologians went to seminary and read ancient texts and write papers about abstract attributes of God. I’m pretty sure I’m not one.” Through this conversation, Jen Wilkin will convince you of how you really, truly are a theologian in your right-now life and why that’s important for today’s world and generations to come. (Y’all, some of the stats Jen shares about what current evangelicals believe about basic Christian doctrine are shocking.) If you’ve ever doubted that you’re a theologian, that it’s above your pay grade, that it’s all head-knowledge and no experience, or that it’s too academic for your liking, please listen to Jen’s wisdom on why theology matters in your everyday, busy and full life. Theology may feel like a big topic, so I’m thankful Jen is here to walk us through the importance of it. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as you learn how to honor God. You’ll learn: What theology is, What are first-tier theological issues, What to do (and not do!) when you disagree with someone on a theological point, And the value of having theological conversations with our brothers in Christ. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! by J.T. English and Jen Wilkin podcast by Louis Berkof Here’s how to connect with Jen Wilkin Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#190: Spiritual Health: Glorifying God through your work with Jordan Raynor
02/06/2024
#190: Spiritual Health: Glorifying God through your work with Jordan Raynor
We’re talking about becoming spiritually healthy by recognizing how sacred our work is – no matter what we do – and how our work matters for eternity. Some of you might hear that and think, “But I’m not in full-time ministry. I’m not a missionary or on a church’s staff or recording a worship album. How is my work sacred?” Or maybe you think, “Well, maybe my work is important because it’s where I get to share the gospel.” I hope you receive the light Jordan sheds on how important your work is – whether you’re a spiritual director or a teacher’s aide, whether you’re a women’s ministry leader or a hairstylist, whether you’re a speaker or a marketing coordinator. Work – done in partnership with God – is the oldest spiritual discipline there is, and it’s one we don’t talk much about. I deeply want you to know that God created the concept of work before sin ever entered the world and that your work is tied to the redemptive power of the gospel of Jesus. I hope you are freed from feeling as if your work is only important if you’re sharing the gospel and fulfilling the Great Commission. Friends, Jordan and I believe in the power and importance of the Great Commission. People come to a relationship with Jesus because someone who knows Jesus tells them about Jesus. And also, so often, we feel the weight or obligation or guilt because we don’t share the gospel in every interaction we have. What would it be like to know that God designed you to participate in the Great Commission AND His command to us to fill and subdue the earth, to participate in creating good and useful and beautiful things with Him? How free would you feel to know that the work you’re doing right now matters for all eternity, and it makes God smile when you partner with Him in that work – whether you evangelized today or not? What would it be like to only feel free to do the good works God prepared in advance for you to do before the creation of the world? How loud would you exhale if you remembered the beautiful gift that is Sabbath rest? Jordan and I talk about the beauty, sacredness, and eternal value of our work, whether it’s prosecuting human traffickers, teaching at cosmetology school, writing grants, or selling real estate. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as you learn how to honor God. You’ll learn: four ways your work matters for eternity, what to do when the Great Commission feels heavy, and why Sabbath is good for your soul and goals. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! by Jordan Raynor by Jordan Raynor Here’s how to connect with Jordan Raynor Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#189: Spiritual Health: Naming what matters with Kendra Adachi
01/23/2024
#189: Spiritual Health: Naming what matters with Kendra Adachi
Have you ever wondered how to be compassionate to yourself? What would it look like to live in grace? Listen to Kendra Adachi on Grace In Real Life. This entire podcast is predicated on answering the question, “How do we live in and give out grace in our busy and full lives?” And one of the most generous, practical, action-oriented grace-girls I know is The Lazy Genius, Kendra Adachi. Kendra believes and practices self-compassion, contentedness, rest, and grace. Because living in grace and from grace is a bit tricky for those of us who love a to-do list and efficiency, Kendra joins the show. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as you learn how to be compassionate to yourself. You’ll learn: how to be compassionate to yourself while getting stuff done, one simple way to halt comparison and naming what matters Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! by Kendra Adachi by Kendra Adachi Here’s how to connect with Kendra Adachi Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#188: Spiritual Health: Moving Jesus’s love from your head to your heart with Dr. Curt Thompson
01/16/2024
#188: Spiritual Health: Moving Jesus’s love from your head to your heart with Dr. Curt Thompson
If we do not know Jesus' love on a deeply personal level and encounter His love in our busy and full, real lives, then the spiritual disciplines devolve into legalism and empty works. Without recognizing how much we are loved and cared for, everything else we do in that relationship is a striving attempt to be loved. Because experiencing God’s love for us is a gift we want to receive AND struggle with experiencing, I’ve invited Dr. Curt Thompson to join the show. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths as we process moving God’s love from head to heart. You’ll learn: How to move Jesus’s love for you from your head down to your heart How to experience grace in your real life, How solitude soothes your soul. And one simple exercise to help you pay attention to what you’re paying attention to. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! by Martin Laird by Dr. Curt Thompson by Dr. Curt Thompson Here’s how to connect with Dr. Curt Thompson Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#187: The grace girl’s guide to a new year
01/09/2024
#187: The grace girl’s guide to a new year
How can you start the new year with grace? What does that look like? Whether you’re starting a new year, a new job, or a new season, listen in. May we not be women who squash or silence this gift, but may we be women who partner with Christ to become new in the ways He wants to shape and form us. To that end, I’ve curated past Grace In Real Life episodes and resources in one place just for you. When you want to embrace newness in practical and actionable ways, come here and find what you need. We’re breaking down how to give yourself grace in the new year into three categories: Let’s get back to the fundamentals When you’re ready to set goals When you walk into the new year tired Let’s get back to the fundamentals When you’re ready to set goals When you walk into the new year tired Bonus resources for how to start the new year with grace Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#186: Advent: Peace: Forgiveness + reconciliation
12/19/2023
#186: Advent: Peace: Forgiveness + reconciliation
Have you ever wondered how to have peace with God? Or how you can live in peace with others? If your life lacks peace and you’re looking for encouragement, listen in. In today’s Advent episode, we take a look at what it means to be at peace with God and others. How to have peace with God Once sin entered the world, we humans were at war with God. Not that God was at war with us, but that we chose our way over His, our thoughts over His, our agenda over His. And there was no peace in the hearts of people. So, God, in His goodness, made a way for peace to be restored between us. The Lord’s plan since Genesis 3:15 is to reconcile us to Himself through His Son. His Son, Jesus, came at just the right time in history. He was born to the right parents In the right town with just the right visitors: shepherds and wise men. Our Savior was placed in a cradle by His mother and sent to the cross by His Father at just the perfect time. Jesus’s birth is tied to blessing. His blessing is found in His death and resurrection. And in His salvation, we find our peace. For those who know Jesus as their Savior, we are now at peace with God. As Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#185: Advent: Joy: Making room for the singing of angels
12/12/2023
#185: Advent: Joy: Making room for the singing of angels
In today’s Advent episode, we take a look at how the shepherds found joy in the middle of their everyday, right now lives. How to find joy in the little things For there to always remain in your life some place for the singing of angels, you do not need an angelic visit. Perhaps to make space for the singing of angels means to do the work God specifically created you to do, at the time He gave you to do it, to be open to the possibility of wonder and miracle, to go and see Jesus for yourself, to tell others about what you’ve experienced, and to return to your real life, making much of Jesus. As Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#184: Advent: Faith: Embodying your faith
12/05/2023
#184: Advent: Faith: Embodying your faith
How do we exercise our faith? What does it look like to have embodied faith? What does living out our faith look like in real life? Listen in. In today’s Advent episode, we take a look at Mary’s faith journey. How do we exercise our faith? Faith starts in the mind with knowledge about God, facts about His character and understanding who He is and what He can do. Then faith moves into consent: We intellectually agree with the facts we know and the reality we understand, and then consent takes root in the soil of our hearts. Finally, faith takes the form of commitment, of application, of action, of obedience. Faith is always fruitful, and faith will not be quiet. For Mary, her faith produced the fruit of a firstborn Son. Her faith could not be quiet as she screamed in the night at the delivery of her Son. As Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#183: Advent: Hope: God is the Author
11/28/2023
#183: Advent: Hope: God is the Author
We have hope because God is the Author of our story, and we are not. We have hope because we are not alone. We have hope because Jesus is the protagonist of our story. We have hope because God is the Author The Author and Finisher of our faith is the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The Word is Jesus, and the language the Author speaks is Christ. When God spoke and wrote the story of redemption, His speech wasn’t in the mode of sentences or nouns or verbs or articles or predicates. The language He spoke in the New Covenant was Jesus. We have hope because we are not alone God. Is writing. Your. Story. And in the story God writes for you, you are not the only character in your story. You do not walk alone. Heaven is cheering you on right now. Can you hear it? Listen to the great crowd of witnesses who surround you right now. We have hope because Jesus is the protagonist of our story But perhaps the best part of your story is that you are not the protagonist of it. Jesus is. Jesus is the protagonist. The victor. The firstborn. And this is our hope. As Mentioned in the Podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry, there's no added cost to you! Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#182: Grace Over Fear: When you fear taking up space + want to be low-maintenance
11/14/2023
#182: Grace Over Fear: When you fear taking up space + want to be low-maintenance
What does it mean to take up space? Do you have a fear of taking up space? Do you want to be seen as low maintenance? Listen in. Taking up space means to be more than furniture; to be human. In the words of Pinocchio to be “a real boy.” It means to kindly and directly – without apology or embarrassment – share needs, wants, preferences, and dreams. Friends, God created you to take up space. We are allowed to take up space. To be human means that our physical body, emotions, thoughts, and spirit take up space. It is impossible to be a human and not take up square footage. Taking up space is part of God’s design. So when you fear taking up space, it means you fear sharing what troubles and worries rumble in your heart, or what gifts and work light you up. Fearing taking up space might come out in phrases like, “Whatever is easiest for you” or “Oh, I don’t care” when you really do care. In terms of how we feel about taking up space, we fall into one of three buckets. “It’s natural” bucket “It’s uncomfortable” bucket “It’s totally fine, but then when I do, I regret it” bucket No matter what bucket you fall into, you may fear taking up space because: You’ve done it in the past; it didn’t go well, so you vowed never to do it again. Or you’ve misunderstood scripture about what it means to deny and die to self, Or you desperately do not want to be seen as selfish. Our enemy has done a heck of a job convincing God’s girls that taking up space is a bad thing. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for remembering grace overcomes fear and that you do not need to fear taking up space. You’ll learn: what it means to take up space, how you feel about taking up space, why you fear taking up space, and what God says. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! # by Dr. Curt Thompson Resources that weren’t directly quoted but influenced this episode by Jen Barnett by Jill E. McCormick by Jill E. McCormick Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#181: Grace Over Fear: When you fear being vulnerable with Jamie Ivey
11/07/2023
#181: Grace Over Fear: When you fear being vulnerable with Jamie Ivey
Why is it hard to be vulnerable? What are the characteristics of a safe person? If you fear being vulnerable but want to try, listen to Jamie Ivey. Being vulnerable with safe people in the midst of your mess is a sacred space. Saying “I’m struggling too” is a saint’s cry. Wherever you struggle today, Whether it’s struggling with sin and temptation, a hard season in your marriage, or doubting God’s goodness and sovereignty in the midst of a cancer diagnosis, God longs for you to tell Him about it – to be vulnerable with Him and to share it with a sister in Christ. But many of us – for very valid reasons – are skittish and reticent to be vulnerable. I can think of no one better to cheer us on toward vulnerability than today’s guest, Jamie Ivey. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths to answer the question, “Why is it hard to be vulnerable?”. You’ll learn: why we don’t want to be vulnerable, six characteristics of a safe person, what to do when you suffer from a vulnerability hangover, and three questions to ask when you’re ready to be vulnerable. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! Netlix’s by Jamie Ivey Here’s how to connect with Jamie Ivey Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#180: Grace Over Fear: When you avoid the discomfort of grief with Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young
10/31/2023
#180: Grace Over Fear: When you avoid the discomfort of grief with Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young
Even today, I imagine you experienced grief. Perhaps you’re back at work, even though you loved staying at home Or you miss your daughter, who’s off at college Or a friend has stood you up and blocked you out, and you feel unsettled by the loss. Or you are so sad about your pet who has passed away, Or maybe you’re grieving your spouse or parent who is slowly slipping away because of a diagnosis. Today, I’m grieving that the rhythms and routines I once held dear are met with sighs or a jam-packed schedule. (For any parent of a marching band or club sport kid, you know what I’m talking about!) Whatever you grieve today, God meets you there. As the God of all comfort, He longs to comfort you. But many of us feel squeamish about grief. We don’t want to talk about our loss. Or what hurts. We prefer to get busy, push down, numb out, or power through. Are we even allowed to be sad when God promised He’d work all things out for good? As Americans and as Christian women, many of us have an aversion to grief. Most of us don’t want to have anything to do with it. And also, this side of heaven, grief is a part of daily life. I can think of no one better to speak about entering into grief despite our fear than today’s guest, Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for navigating grief. You’ll learn: What we fear about grief, Why we avoid it, Where God meets us in our sadness and sorrow, And four ways to be a grace-giving friend to someone who is grieving. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young by Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young Here’s how to connect with Dorina Lazo Gilmore-Young Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#179: Grace Over Fear: When you feel embarrassed by your tears
10/24/2023
#179: Grace Over Fear: When you feel embarrassed by your tears
Have you ever felt embarrassed by your tears? What is going on when we do not like to cry in front of others? Listen in. If Jesus wept, if Jesus calls us to suffer with those who suffer and weep with those who weep, why do we fear crying so much? The reality is that as much as we hate crying, most of us cry relatively often. As image-bearers, we resonate deeply with Jesus as the Man of Sorrows. We cry because we feel so deeply that words cannot convey our grief and heartbreak. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for remembering grace overcomes fear and that you do not need to be embarrassed by your tears. You’ll learn: what we do when we cry in front of others, why many of us are so averse to crying, how our enemy leverages our fear of this vulnerability, and what God says. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#178: Grace In Marriage: How to have a D.R.E.A.M. marriage with Arlene Pellicane
10/10/2023
#178: Grace In Marriage: How to have a D.R.E.A.M. marriage with Arlene Pellicane
How happy is your marriage? How can you have a happier marriage? Listen to Arlene Pellicane as she shares how to be a happier wife. You’re listening to this episode because you want a happier marriage. Your marriage may be super happy and full of joy, and you want to increase it. Or, your marriage may feel like it’s on its last breath, and you are so ready for Jesus to breathe laughter and smiling and hope back into your relationship. You and Jesus and your spouse know where you are in your marriage. And here’s what I know: I know that God’s heart for your marriage is for it to be a reflection of how Christ loves the church. As children of God, our inheritance includes peace, hope, joy, and life. Not just for when you get to heaven, but for right now, in your real life. God wants these gifts for you as an individual and also for marriage. So, how do we tap into these God-given gifts? What do we do if we are more interested in investing in our marriage than our husbands? How can we become happier wives with happier husbands? I can think of no one better to speak about becoming happier in marriage than today’s guest, Arlene Pellicane. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for offering grace in your marriage by learning how to have a happier marriage. You’ll learn: How to determine if you have a happy marriage, One way to become a happier wife TODAY, And what to do when you want to improve your marriage but your husband has checked out. Mentioned in the podcast for how to have a happier marriage The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Arlene Pellicane by Arlene Pellicane by Jordan Peterson by Sharon Jaynes by James Clear Here’s how to connect with Arlene Pellicane Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#177: Grace in Marriage: Intentionally creating the marriage you want with Kevin A. Thompson
10/03/2023
#177: Grace in Marriage: Intentionally creating the marriage you want with Kevin A. Thompson
You don’t want to leave your marriage to chance. You want to design an intentional marriage, but how? Listen to Kevin Thompson in today's episode My marriage isn’t perfect. Ryan and I aren’t perfect. We struggle and get frustrated with each other. AND ALSO, we work on the relationship that we have. We are bound and determined to remember that before we were mom and dad, we were Ryan and Jill, two fun, Jesus-loving people who thought the other person was too awesome to get away. As much as we’ve messed up, we are also devoted to being intentional with each other and our relationship. Intentional about chatting about our days and stressors after the girls have gone to bed. Intentional about hanging out together doing something fun. Intentional about dreaming about the future when we are empty nesters. I can think of no one better to speak about being intentional and designing your marriage on purpose than today’s guest, Kevin A. Thompson. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by learning how to design an intentional marriage. You’ll learn: How to create the marriage you want, Three questions to help you figure out how healthy your marriage is, And how to move toward a healthy marriage. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Kevin A. Thompson by Kevin A. Thompson by Sue Johnson by John Gottman Here’s how to connect with Kevin A. Thompson Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#176: Grace in Marriage: How the Enneagram can help you build a healthy marriage with Beth McCord
09/26/2023
#176: Grace in Marriage: How the Enneagram can help you build a healthy marriage with Beth McCord
Have you ever wondered how the Enneagram can improve your marriage? Listen to Beth McCord as she breaks down how to use this tool. You don’t need me to tell you that seeing the same situation through a different lens can cause friction. So what do we do with this? How do we grow in our marriages without getting super annoyed at someone who sees life differently? I can think of no one better to speak about offering grace in marriage than today’s guest, Beth McCord. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by learning how the Enneagram can improve your marriage. You’ll learn: Four ways the Enneagram can help your marriage, How the messages you picked up in childhood impact your marriage today, And how the Enneagram helps in conflict. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Jeff + Beth McCord Here’s how to connect with Beth McCord Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#175: Skill Set: Acknowledging everything is (not) fine with Katie Schnack
09/12/2023
#175: Skill Set: Acknowledging everything is (not) fine with Katie Schnack
I feel like I’m the poster child for the sentiment, “I’m fine. It’s fine. Everything’s fine,” when clearly it is not. Friend, I cannot tell you how much energy I spend avoiding pain, trying to make the bad, hard thing disappear, or pretending it’s all okay. But what if the most gracious, most life-giving gift we can give ourselves today is to acknowledge that we are struggling, that everything is not fine, that we need the Lord, and we need His people, our people? Perhaps we need to quit outrunning the pain, so we can run into the arms of Christ. What does it look like to acknowledge we’re struggling while still living our life of work, carpool pick-up, volunteering, caring for our parents, and late-night band practice? I can think of no one better to speak about this than today’s guest, Katie Schnack. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by acknowledging everything is not fine. You’ll learn: Why it’s hard to take off your game-face, When you trust the Lord AND struggle in your circumstances, And six ways to rewrite what it means to be “strong.” Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Kayla Craig by Katie Schnack Here’s how to connect with Katie Schnack Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#174: Skill Set: Building a resilient thought life with Lauren Gaines
09/05/2023
#174: Skill Set: Building a resilient thought life with Lauren Gaines
Y’all, our world feels crazy and seems to get crazier by the year. Our children experience questions and come up against worldviews we never had to face at their age. As much as I want to be an ostrich and bury my head in the sand, I refuse to do that to my girls. I want to be mentally tough in the Lord. I want to combat lies with truth. I don’t want to be apathetic or resigned, but strong and courageous because I know the truth that my God is good. So, how do we become resilient and emotionally healthy moms? How can we raise brave and unshakable kids? What does it look like to stand firm and courageous in a world gone mad? I can think of no one better to speak about this than today’s guest, Lauren Gaines. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for giving grace by taking your thoughts captive. You’ll learn: six ways to deescalate a negative thought, how to practically take thoughts captive in real-time, and seven lies moms can believe. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Lauren Gaines Here’s how to connect with Lauren Gaines Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#173: Skill Set: How to listen so people will talk with Becky Harling
08/29/2023
#173: Skill Set: How to listen so people will talk with Becky Harling
The first words in the Bible speak of the cosmos hearing God’s spoken words and obeying: “And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light.” At the heart of Israel’s prayer life is God’s call to listen in Deuteronomy 6:4: “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.” The writers of the Psalms ask God to listen to them and then write how He hears them and acts. As God’s sheep, we hear His voice; because we listen, we follow Him. So, yes, listening is important to God. It is vital to our relationship with Him and with others. And also, our lives are full, so time to listen is hard to come by. Our hearts long to teach and correct – which are good and certainly have their place – but sometimes people just want to be heard. Our brains are so full of distractions about deadlines, upcoming events, and the logistics of our schedule that sometimes it’s hard to stay focused on what the person right in front of us is saying. So if we want to become more and more like Christ, and Christ is someone who listens, how do we grow in this skill? I can think of no one better to talk about how to listen than today’s guest, Becky Harling. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for giving grace by becoming a better listener: How to tell if you’re a good listener, What it means to “listen to your heart,” Four ways to get your teenager to talk with you, And help when you long to fix or offer solutions when someone shares a struggle. Mentioned in the podcast The FCC requires that I tell you that I'm an Amazon Affiliate, which means I earn a bit of commission on each sale. But don't worry there's no added cost to you! by Becky Harling by Becky Harling Here’s how to connect with Becky Harling Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#172: Skill Set: Building trust in the Lord with Maleah Stephens
08/22/2023
#172: Skill Set: Building trust in the Lord with Maleah Stephens
As a Grace In Real Life podcast listener, you want to grow in your faith and become more and more like Christ, but how do you do that? In your hardest moments, in the most mundane, what does it look like to trust the Lord? I can think of no one better to share about how to trust the Lord in shaky circumstances than today’s guest, Maleah Stephens. Maleah’s story is one of bold faith, love, survival, and hope. Her’s is the story of hearing that her firstborn had a congenital heart defect that would cost her unborn son his life without medical intervention. Maleah had a choice: faith or fear. Guess which one she picked? In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by answering the question, “how to build faith and trust in God.” We walk through: Experiencing peace when your future is shaken, How thankfulness builds your faith, And when you trust the Lord and still fear. Mentioned in the podcast by Maleah Stephens by Mark Batterson Here’s how to connect with Maleah Stephens Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#171: Skill Set: Setting healthy boundaries that work with LPC Shundria Riddick
08/15/2023
#171: Skill Set: Setting healthy boundaries that work with LPC Shundria Riddick
If you’re anything like me, you’re like, “I’m not sure I need to listen to this episode. I don’t feel like I struggle with setting boundaries.” As a 47-year-old, I know my strengths and weaknesses, I invest in emotionally healthy people, and I don’t get sucked into drama or volunteering. And also… I wonder about the Bible’s call to help others and sacrifice myself with the reality that I get burned out and overwhelmed. I often fear turning down an opportunity because I don’t want people to think I’m dispensable or easily replaced. I may feel confident setting boundaries but struggle to enforce them when confronted with the needs of those I know are genuinely struggling. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by setting boundaries for yourself. We walk through: When saying “no” feels unkind, Six ways to set healthy boundaries, And one truth when you’re exhausted from helping everyone else. Mentioned in the podcast by Curt Thompson Here’s how to connect with LPC Shundria Riddick Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#170: Skill Set: Reclaiming fun and playfulness in your busy life with Courtney Ellis
08/08/2023
#170: Skill Set: Reclaiming fun and playfulness in your busy life with Courtney Ellis
You may be hard-wired for efficiency, effectiveness, and checking tasks off the list. Being playful and silly and giving into whimsy is not your strong suit. We have fun AFTER we work. But the work is never done, and fun is the first to go when our calendar is full. And yet… when we don’t play, when we don’t laugh, when we don’t lighten up, seriousness scrunches up our souls. And it seems as if playfulness is the only way out and back to our true, God-made self. So how can we become more playful? How can you reconnect to your soul and with God? If you’ve ever felt like you used to be fun but aren’t fun anymore OR that your schedule is too full and you’re too tired to think of being playful, this short episode is for you. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by learning how to be playful. We walk through: Two ways to reconnect to what brings you joy, Ten invitations to playfulness – so you can pick one– And one easy way to leverage what you’re already doing so you can have more fun without making it A Thing. Mentioned in the podcast by Courtney Ellis by Mark Batterson by John Steinbeck Here’s how to connect with Courtney Ellis Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#169: Grace is: allowing the Lord to tend to your heart with Vivian Mabuni
06/27/2023
#169: Grace is: allowing the Lord to tend to your heart with Vivian Mabuni
PLEASE KNOW: This is the last podcast until August 2023. Grace In Real Life is taking a break in July 2023. What does it mean for God to tend to your heart? How does God comfort you in real life? How does God heal our hurting hearts? I’ll never forget the first time I heard the phrase, “Allow the Lord to tend to your heart.” A friend of mine said it, and I was like, What is she talking about? What does that even mean? I’ve pondered that phrase for six years now: What does it mean for the Lord to tend to a heart? What in our hearts needs tending? How does He do it? For me, it means receiving the compassion and kindness the Lord offers as I struggle with the sting of sin, the wounds from others, and the trials of being a human on planet Earth. Today’s guest sheds so much biblical truth and light on this grace-giving concept. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace by finding comfort in the Lord. We walk through: What it means for God to tend to your heart, How God comforts us in real life, And what stunts spiritual growth. Mentioned in the podcast by Ruth Haley Barton by Vivian Mabuni by Vivian Mabuni compilation Here’s how to connect with Vivian Mabuni Here’s how to connect with Jill
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#168: Grace is: forgiving others + yourself with Jennifer Barnett
06/20/2023
#168: Grace is: forgiving others + yourself with Jennifer Barnett
What is forgiveness, really? Is it something more than feeling like we should apologize? Is it more than just saying we forgive someone who hurt us even when we don’t want to at all? Forgiving others and asking for forgiveness are ground zero for receiving grace. Because isn’t the Lord’s forgiving of our sins the ultimate gift of grace? Forgiveness is foundational to our understanding of what it means to receive and live from grace. In today’s episode, you’ll receive practical strategies and anchoring truths for receiving grace through forgiveness and healing. We walk through: What forgiveness is – and what it is not, The 3 steps of biblical forgiveness, And 3 clues you’re holding onto unforgiveness. Mentioned in the podcast by Jennifer Barnett Here’s how to connect with Freedom Prayer Here’s how to connect with Jill
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