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Meet the Coaches: My High Conflict Divorce changed the Trajectory of my Life w/ JBD Coach, Tammy Oswald

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Release Date: 04/11/2023

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Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

This episode is being shared from the Divorced People podcast which Karen McMahon was recently interviewed on.   Divorced People is a podcast about divorce, marriage, and relationships. The host, Nicole Quallen, a divorced person and collaborative divorce lawyer, speaks with story-tellers who have been through the difficult, beautiful, complicated, super-stigmatized institution and are brave and ready enough to share their experience with us all.   Here is Nicole's introduction to this episode: Karen McMahon is the founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, a podcast and divorce coaching...

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Distance parenting was a new term to me when I found today’s guest and given that I have been in the divorce field for over a dozen years, that surprised me.  So today we are discussing “Long Distance Parenting: The challenges, rewards and best practices.”   The term Distance Parenting refers to those who are parenting from afar…another state, region or country….physically very far away from their children.  Carrie has been a distance parent for over two decades.  She explains some of the circumstances that create this dynamic, addresses the stigma around it and...

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Part 3 of our series focuses on how to appreciate and benefit from the different voices in your head and their unique perspectives by using “The Brain Huddle” , a practice author Jill Bolte Taylor, PhD refers to as a “Power Tool for Peace”.  The four voices or characters generated by four different types of neural tissue in our brains are somewhat stereotypical in their behavioral patterns which means that the more that you are willing to observe their responses/reactions to circumstances the more freedom you (and they) will have  to work together to support you in a “whole...

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Welcome to another episode of All Things Parenting.  You’re post divorce and survived the chaotic, complex, often times hostile and overwhelming divorce process. You thought you would be free, feel better, be less triggered and engaged with your ex. But you have kids together and somedays it feels like nothing has changed except you’re living under separate roofs!   How can you successfully co parent with a high conflict person when there is so much that continues to trigger you.  The answer lies in understanding and evolving YOUR behavior.  Today’s guest is one of...

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The neurons in our brains are not all alike.  Our brains think and feel in four different ways, every one of us.  We may be more aware of certain ways than others, and define ourselves by the ways of thinking that are habitual...which does not always serve us well, especially when navigating divorce and post divorce life.      In today’s show, Part 2 of You’re Not Crazy: Exploring the Voices in Your Head,  Lisa and Karen familiarize you with the four distinct thinking and feeling modes in your brain  introduced in Part 1.  With this knowledge...

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As if divorce is not overwhelming enough, those facing ‘international divorce’ complexities encounter an entirely unique and complex set of challenges which are even further intensified if there are children involved.     Join us as we speak to matrimonial attorneys Nicole Centracchio and Bryan Reed who specialize in international divorce.    They talk about the importance of strategically deciding when to make the decision to file for divorce and what to consider when choosing jurisdiction. Another key element is how to protect your children’s ability to have access...

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Clare was beaming when we began talking, so excited about her new lease on life. She had a marriage that had been dead for a while, with little communication or emotional support. She found herself more anxious and depressed, even praying for a way out of life...until one day, she got really sick and found herself facing death which ironically gave her a desire to live again!   The journey to health also led her to re-evaluate her life, decide what was important. Clare began reading and learning about presence, meditation and finding her zest for life. She has moved a thousands miles...

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Today we are discussing what happens when Divorce Collides with Raising Complex Kids. If you are raising a complex kid, you know the unique challenges you face. These difficulties may even have played a role in the dissolution of your marriage.     Today we’re joined by my dear friend and colleague, Diane Dempster. She walks us through what she means by ‘complex kid’ and what’s different about parenting one through divorce.  She highlights the likelihood that if you have a complex kid, either you and/or your co-parent may also be complex and discusses how this adds...

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It is an all too human tendency to react to stressful situations in counterproductive ways, to attack out of intense emotion without a clear purpose, to accommodate long after it's healthy to do so, or to avoid addressing situations that are destructive.  While these are rarely wise strategies, they are disastrous strategies prior to, in the midst of, and post divorce.      During this episode and the following two Team Talks, Karen McMahon and Lisa Brick discuss an alternative approach to attacking, accommodating, and avoiding, help you to understand what part of your...

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Raising special needs children has a unique set of gifts and challenges.  When negotiating divorce, it is essential that you can advocate for the support they will continue to need.    Guest, Randi L. Karmel, PLLC, specializes in this area and discusses the pitfalls inherent and possibilities available through the negotiation process.   Randi shares negotiation danger signs to be aware of as well as resources, organizations and advocates ready to assist you, financial support available for schooling and what you need to do to receive it. This is a must listen show for...

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Tammy shares her personal and professional experiences related to divorce in this episode.  She grew up as a child of divorce with an absentee father, living in poverty and experiencing physical and emotional neglect as a result.  Having no contact or support from her father, Tammy’s mother worked 3 jobs to make ends meet, making her unavailable physically, mentally and emotionally while struggling financially to care for two children on her own.

Tammy shares her story of the day her heart for service was born and some of the struggles she overcame growing up in relation to divorce and the impact it had on her life.

Tammy took her experiences and her heart for service and spent nearly three decades in the child welfare system as a social worker and child advocate before branching out into life and wellness coaching, and eventually, divorce and relationship coaching. 

Being a child of divorce, being Catholic and seeing marriage as a sacrament, and being a social worker who worked to help families every day, she talks of that being a trifecta for her staying in a marriage that she would never have left. 

It took serious and painful experiences that could not be undone, along with a high conflict divorce process to get her to face her fears and take a look in the mirror and see who she really was.  That was the day she set out to make some changes, in her life and in herself.

Tammy shares that everything she has learned to be an expert in are areas she has experienced personally, which fueled her desire to learn, grow and heal and use what she learned professionally to help others.  Her passion is for helping others to empower themselves during crisis or conflict and to take a journey of self-discovery and self-love to reach their true and authentic self and get to a place of thriving!

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