Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

The Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast is your trusted companion through every stage of divorce—emotional, legal, financial, and parental. With over nine years of impactful episodes, this top-ranked podcast supports men and women navigating the challenges of divorce, especially those facing high-conflict dynamics, co-parenting struggles, emotional overwhelm, or legal uncertainty. Hosted by Karen McMahon, Certified Divorce Coach® and founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, the show offers strategic guidance, expert interviews, and real-life stories designed to help listeners move from confusion and chaos to clarity and confidence. Each episode is packed with insight and inspiration to help you make informed decisions, protect your children, safeguard your finances, and heal emotionally—so you can create a life you truly love post-divorce. If you’re on the fence about whether to stay or go, have just been told your marriage is ending, or are actively working through the messy middle of litigation, negotiation, or co-parenting, this podcast meets you where you are. You’ll learn how to emotionally regulate through triggers, explore your divorce process options (mediation, collaboration, litigation, arbitration), and prepare to work effectively with legal and financial professionals. Topics include how to gather your financials, navigate custody issues, and negotiate complex decisions around property, retirement assets, and business valuations. For those already in the process, episodes offer real-time guidance on how to cope with personality disorders in your co-parent, how to protect your children from toxic dynamics, and how to negotiate settlements strategically. You’ll hear from certified divorce financial analysts, attorneys, parenting coordinators, therapists, and coaches who share proven tools and tips. Professionals in the divorce field—including family law attorneys, therapists, and financial experts—also listen in to better support their clients and stay up-to-date on best practices. And when the divorce is final? The podcast continues to serve as a roadmap for building your next chapter. Learn how to close out the financial and legal loose ends—such as QDROs, life insurance, beneficiary changes, and estate updates—while beginning to design a life aligned with your values, goals, and inner peace. Episodes cover healing from betrayal trauma, understanding your emotional patterns, rediscovering your identity, and navigating the complexities of post-divorce dating and parenting. This podcast also answers the most searched divorce-related questions, including: * How do I co-parent with a narcissist? * What are the steps in the divorce process? * Should I litigate or mediate? * What is a QDRO and do I need one? * How do I protect my kids emotionally? * What is the role of a certified divorce financial analyst? * How do I move on after infidelity or betrayal? Listeners benefit from expert-vetted strategies, free resources, and supportive insights grounded in both experience and compassion. The Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast is more than just content—it’s a lifeline. Whether you're seeking calm in the storm, tools to advocate for yourself, or support rebuilding your life, each episode helps you grow stronger, wiser, and more empowered. Subscribe today and begin your journey beyond divorce with guidance you can trust.

Finding Strength and Confidence Post-Divorce 11/24/2025

How Do I Know If It’s Time to Divorce? The Brutal Truth No One Talks About 11/14/2025

Divorce Disaster Waiting to Happen: The Cost of Not Building a Strategic Team Early 11/11/2025

The Costly Mistake Most People Make in Divorce: Ignoring the Money Trail 11/08/2025

The Costly Mistake Most People Make in Divorce: Ignoring the Money Trail Are you worried your spouse is hiding money or manipulating finances during your divorce? In high-conflict divorces, it’s all too common for funds to be moved, concealed, or dissipated, leaving one partner in the dark and anxious about their financial future. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I dive into the high-stakes world of divorce forensics and financial investigations, exploring what you need to know to protect yourself and your assets. I’m joined by seasoned forensic accounting expert Ilan Hirschfeld, who shares decades of experience uncovering hidden assets, analyzing complex financial records, and guiding clients through some of the most challenging divorce situations. We talk about the warning signs that finances may not be fully transparent, how to assess whether forensic accounting is a necessary investment, and the different levels of forensic investigation—from targeted reviews to full-scale audits. Ilan also explains what to look for in a forensic accountant: not just technical skill, but integrity, client care, and the ability to support you through what can feel like one of the most stressful chapters of your life. Whether you’re concerned about post-complaint earnings, undisclosed income, or the subtle ways finances can be hidden, this conversation gives practical guidance to help you make informed decisions and move forward with clarity and confidence. If you’ve ever questioned whether following the money in your divorce is worth the cost, this episode will help you weigh the risks, understand your options, and take the steps necessary to protect your financial future. Connect with Ilan: Website: Instagram: Linkedin: Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/38958570

Why Emotional Immaturity Destroys Relationships: A Conversation for Men & Women 11/06/2025

Breaking Energetic Ties After Divorce: Healing, Letting Go & Reopening to Love with Joanna Shakti, The Soul Love Mentor and Founder of Ecstatic Intimacy 10/30/2025

Breaking Energetic Ties After Divorce: Healing, Letting Go & Reopening to Love with Joanna Shakti, The Soul Love Mentor and Founder of Ecstatic Intimacy Have you ever wondered why, even after divorce, your ex still feels energetically present in your life? Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship... it’s a profound emotional, energetic, and spiritual transition. Long after the legal papers are signed and the physical separation is complete, many people remain unconsciously bonded to their former spouse, feeling stuck in emotional patterns, attachment, or resentment that blocks healing, peace, and future love. In this powerful episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Joanna Shakti, the Soul Love™ Mentor and founder of Ecstatic Intimacy™, to explore how to release energetic ties after divorce, reopen your heart, and rebuild your capacity for healthy, authentic connection. Joanna brings decades of expertise in masculine-feminine dynamics, conscious separation, emotional healing, and spiritual intimacy, offering compassionate guidance and practical tools for breaking free from lingering bonds and stepping into a life rooted in self-love, clarity, and empowered choice. If you’re ready to reclaim your emotional autonomy, release the lingering energy of your past relationship, and open your heart to possibility — this conversation will support you every step of the way. Connect with Joanna: Free Gift: Ecstatic Intimacy Jumpstart Kit With your 4-part Ecstatic Intimacy Jumpstart kit you’ll ignite confidence, connection and chemistry on the path of Soul Love. Your kit includes the “Soul Love Roadmap”, Conscious Masculine and Feminine Assessments, tips for the bedroom and much more!: Facebook: facebook.com/EcstaticIntimacy Instagram: instagram.com/joanna.shakti YouTube: Linkedin: X: Pinterest: Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Free Divorce Support Network Gift: /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/38852690

When Your Wife Wants a Divorce... And You Didn’t See It Coming with Relationship and Personal‐Growth Coach, Tim Wade 10/22/2025

Navigating Narcissistic Co-Parenting with Clarity and Strength with Dr. David Hawkins, Founder and Director of the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute 10/16/2025

Abuse Recovery: Why Narcissistic Trauma Takes Longer to Heal with Justine Weber. Psy.D & Coach 10/04/2025

Healing Betrayal at the Cellular Level: Somatic Freedom After Infidelity with Guest, Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt, Betrayal Recovery Coach, Attorney, and TEDx Speaker 09/29/2025

Healing Betrayal at the Cellular Level: Somatic Freedom After Infidelity with Guest, Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt, Betrayal Recovery Coach, Attorney, and TEDx Speaker Betrayal doesn’t just happen in your mind—it lives in your body. The racing heart, the tight chest, the endless mental loops that keep you awake at night… they’re not just “in your head.” They’re your body holding on to trauma. And while journaling, therapy, and mindset work can bring clarity, they don’t always free you from the pain that’s lodged deep within. That’s why this conversation with betrayal recovery coach, TEDx speaker, and author Lora Cheadle is so powerful. Lora knows firsthand the devastation of infidelity, and she shares how somatic healing, hypnosis, and even burlesque-inspired movement can unlock joy, sensuality, and a true sense of safety after betrayal. Together, we explore how trauma gets stored on a cellular level and the surprising ways to release it, how hypnosis helps quiet the obsessive loops about the affair or the other woman, and why reconnecting with your sensual body is not just important—it’s essential. Lora even introduces the playful, empowering practice of burlesque-inspired movement and Yogalesque® as a way to reclaim pleasure, confidence, and personal power. If you’ve been stuck reliving the same painful stories, this episode is an invitation to step out of your head and back into your body. Because real healing—and the freedom to fully live again—begins when your body feels safe enough to let go. Lora Cheadle brings not only her professional expertise but her lived experience of betrayal. After discovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned heartbreak into a path of healing and joy, and now guides women through the emotional, energetic, and even ancestral layers of betrayal recovery. She’s the author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal, and the host of the FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal podcast. This episode is a compassionate reminder that your healing isn’t just about making sense of the past—it’s about reclaiming your body, your joy, and your life. Connect with Lora: Listen to the Flaunt! Podcast: Follow Lora on Instagram: Watch Lora on YouTube: Download Your Free Gift - Betrayal Recovery Guide: Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/38388415

The Unspoken Grief of Divorced Men and How to Rise From It with Founder of Men’s Therapy Online, Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CPG, ACS 09/24/2025

The Unspoken Grief of Divorced Men and How to Rise From It with Founder of Men’s Therapy Online, Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CPG, ACS In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Marc Azoulay, psychotherapist and founder of Men’s Therapy Online, for a raw and powerful conversation about the struggles men face during and after divorce. Too often, men are left to navigate their grief alone—raised to be stoic, self-sufficient, and emotionally guarded. But when divorce shatters their world, the quiet reckoning sets in. Identity collapses. Numbness and rage surface. Disbelief lingers. Many men find themselves staring at the wreckage of what used to be, barely recognizing who they are anymore. Marc and I explore what it really takes for men to move through this kind of pain and begin rebuilding their lives. We talk about the collapse of identity after divorce, the hidden cost of traditional masculinity, and why community, mentorship, and ritual are essential for healing. Marc offers practical guidance for finding structure and meaning again, navigating co-parenting while hurting, and stepping back into dating without the masks that keep men disconnected from their truth. He also shares the deeper practices that help men reclaim themselves and rise stronger—on their terms. Marc Azoulay, LPC, LAC, CGP, ACS, is the founder of Men’s Therapy Online, a groundbreaking healing community that combines psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhism. His work—whether through group counseling, individual therapy, or wilderness retreats—creates safe spaces where men can confront their grief, break down unconscious barriers, and discover the man they were always meant to be. If you are a man navigating the grief of divorce and searching for clarity, brotherhood, and strength, this episode will offer both insight and a path forward. Connect with Marc: : Facebook: LinkedIn: MTO LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/menstherapyonline Twitter: Instagram: Website: Blog mentioned in podcast: Men's Therapy Podcast: Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: Free Divorce Support Network Gift: /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/38342870

Dating After Divorce: Expert Tips on Confidence, Curiosity & Connection with Legendary Matchmaker & Dating Coach, Julie Ferman 09/18/2025

Essential Steps for Business Owners Facing Divorce with Gabriella Martinelli, CDFA® 09/15/2025

When the Abuse Has No Bruises: How to Spot, Speak About, and Heal from Emotional Harm with Annette Oltmans, Founder and CEO of The M3ND Project 09/10/2025

Rewire Your Beliefs: Shift Painful Emotions Instantly with ThetaHealing with Sanaiyah Gurnamal 08/31/2025

Parallel Parenting: Boundaries, Structure & Legal Clarity with Randi L. Karmel, PLLC 08/20/2025

Faith in the Fire: Why a Spiritual Foundation Matters in Life’s Hardest Moments with Pastor Ray Longwood 08/13/2025

When Money Turns Malicious: High-Conflict Divorce in Wealthy Families with New York Attorney, Joshua L. Rieger 08/03/2025

Divorce-Proof Your Wallet: What High-Earning Women Must Know with CDFA, Nikki Turner 07/26/2025

Healing the Nervous System After High-Conflict Divorce with Dr. Nima Rahmany 07/24/2025

Navigating the Male Identity Crisis in Divorce with Josh Tomeoni, Divorce Coach, CFP, ChFC, CLU, RICP 07/16/2025

Out of My Comfort Zone & Into My Genius Zone: A Year of Radical Realignment 07/03/2025

Post Divorce Money Moves That Can’t Wait with Jacki Roessler, CDFA 07/01/2025

The Most Overlooked Financial Mistakes in Divorce... and How to Avoid Them with Laura Combs, CFP®, MBA 06/26/2025

Lies, Threats & Triggers: How to Stay Grounded When Your Co-Parent Is Out of Control with Divorce Coach, and Co-parenting Expert Jill Kaufman 06/23/2025

Lies, Threats & Triggers: How to Stay Grounded When Your Co-Parent Is Out of Control with Divorce Coach, and Co-parenting Expert Jill Kaufman If your ex seems committed to making your life difficult, manipulating your kids, pushing your buttons, or weaponizing the past, this episode of Journey Beyond Divorce is a must-listen. Host Karen McMahon sits down with therapist, divorce coach, and co-parenting expert Jill Kaufman for a raw and compassionate conversation about navigating high-conflict co-parenting. With hard-earned wisdom and actionable strategies, Jill shares how to set boundaries that stick, manage emotional triggers, and protect your children from the chaos. Whether you're in the thick of it or working to heal, this episode offers powerful tools to help you stay grounded and regain control of your emotional wellbeing. Connect with Jill: Website: Free Gift - 8 Guidlines for Seperating or Divorcing Parents: Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: A word from our sponsor: Let’s talk about sleep... especially during those hot summer nights. If you’ve ever tossed and turned, sweating through your sheets, you’re not alone. That’s why I’m so excited to share Cozy Earth with you. I personally use their bamboo sheets, and they’ve completely transformed how I sleep—cooler, more comfortably, and without waking up in a sweat. The fabric is naturally temperature-regulating and moisture-wicking, which means better rest for you. Their All Day Tee is a favorite in my house—soft, breathable, and perfect for staying cool during busy days. And don’t even get me started on the Studio Pant Collection—comfort and style in one perfect piece. Even better? You can try it all risk-free. With a 100-night sleep trial and a 10-year warranty on bedding, you have nothing to lose—and so much sleep to gain. ✨ Upgrade your summer. Go to and use code JBD for 40% off their best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more. You’ll feel the difference from night one. /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/37116335

Co-Parenting Through Coercive Control: Responding with Power, Protecting with Love featuring Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW 06/17/2025

Co-Parenting Through Coercive Control: Responding with Power, Protecting with Love featuring Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW Coercive control doesn’t end with separation—and when children are involved, the stakes are even higher. In this compelling episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon sits down with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert and passionate advocate in the field of coercive control, to explore how this invisible form of abuse continues to impact families long after the relationship ends. Together, they unpack how emotional abuse often flies under the radar, the lasting harm it causes to both parents and children, and how protective parents can navigate the ongoing manipulation with clarity, strength, and love. If you've felt trapped in a battle where your integrity and your child’s well-being are constantly under attack, this conversation offers validation—and a way forward. Dr. Cocchiola shares powerful insights on how to stay emotionally grounded, respond without reactivity, and support your child’s healing without gaslighting yourself or them. She explores the role trauma plays in behavioral issues and emphasizes the importance of becoming a consistent source of safety and truth in your child’s life. This episode introduces a strategy to help you lead with intention: Predict what your children may have heard, Prepare your grounded response, and Protect both yourself and your child. It’s not just about recognizing the harm—it’s about rising to meet it. Your steady, loving presence may be the most powerful tool your child has—and the clearest reflection of your own healing and hope. Connect with Dr. Christine: YouTube: Instagram: Podcast: Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: A word from our sponsor: Let’s talk about sleep... especially during those hot summer nights. If you’ve ever tossed and turned, sweating through your sheets, you’re not alone. That’s why I’m so excited to share Cozy Earth with you. I personally use their bamboo sheets, and they’ve completely transformed how I sleep—cooler, more comfortably, and without waking up in a sweat. The fabric is naturally temperature-regulating and moisture-wicking, which means better rest for you. Their All Day Tee is a favorite in my house—soft, breathable, and perfect for staying cool during busy days. And don’t even get me started on the Studio Pant Collection—comfort and style in one perfect piece. Even better? You can try it all risk-free. With a 100-night sleep trial and a 10-year warranty on bedding, you have nothing to lose—and so much sleep to gain. ✨ Upgrade your summer. Go to and use code JBD for 40% off their best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more. You’ll feel the difference from night one. /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/37019915

Mastering Communication During High Conflict Divorce Without Letting Emotions Take Over with Deborah Donenfeld 06/12/2025

Mastering Communication During High Conflict Divorce Without Letting Emotions Take Over with Deborah Donenfeld In this episode, I sit down with midlife transformation coach Debra Donenfeld of Photosynthesis Coaching, who brings 14 years of coaching experience and a deeply soulful yet no-nonsense approach to helping people thrive through major life transitions. Together, we explore how to communicate effectively during high conflict divorce, even when emotions are running high and your ex seems to know exactly how to push your buttons. If every text, email, or conversation feels like walking through a minefield, this episode is for you. You’ll learn the real reason to keep your cool—not to “be the bigger person,” but to stay grounded in your power. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The #1 reason to keep your cool—even when your ex is throwing verbal grenades Why focusing on behavior instead of content is the key to de-escalating conflict The power of the pause: a simple technique to create space between reaction and response How to shift out of victim mode and into self-empowerment Practical communication strategies you can use with your ex, your children, and even yourself We also talk about the critical role of self-awareness, how to stop taking the bait, and how to avoid emotional hijacking in moments of tension. Check the show notes - Debra is offering a free 45-minute consultation for listeners ready to step into calm, confident communication during this challenging chapter. This episode is full of wisdom, tools, and compassionate guidance to help you reclaim your voice—and your peace—during high conflict divorce. Connect with Deborah: Linkedin: Instagram: Free 45-minute consultation: Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: A word from our sponsor: Let’s talk about sleep... especially during those hot summer nights. If you’ve ever tossed and turned, sweating through your sheets, you’re not alone. That’s why I’m so excited to share Cozy Earth with you. I personally use their bamboo sheets, and they’ve completely transformed how I sleep—cooler, more comfortably, and without waking up in a sweat. The fabric is naturally temperature-regulating and moisture-wicking, which means better rest for you. Their All Day Tee is a favorite in my house—soft, breathable, and perfect for staying cool during busy days. And don’t even get me started on the Studio Pant Collection—comfort and style in one perfect piece. Even better? You can try it all risk-free. With a 100-night sleep trial and a 10-year warranty on bedding, you have nothing to lose—and so much sleep to gain. ✨ Upgrade your summer. Go to and use code JBD for 40% off their best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more. You’ll feel the difference from night one. /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/36973120

Two Homes, Two Fathers, One Powerful Story of Resilience with Author and Retired Judge, Anthony J. Mohr 06/06/2025

Two Homes, Two Fathers, One Powerful Story of Resilience with Author and Retired Judge, Anthony J. Mohr On this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon welcomes retired Superior Court Judge Anthony J. Mohr for a powerful conversation about the long-term impact of divorce on children. Drawing from his personal experience growing up with two very different dads—his successful, conservative stepfather and his charismatic, unpredictable Hollywood actor father—Anthony offers a unique perspective on what it’s like for kids to live in two homes after divorce. Now an author of the memoir Every Other Weekend, Anthony shares how his childhood shaped his identity and ultimately influenced his nearly 30-year career on the bench. This episode explores the emotional challenges children face navigating dual households and highlights how resilience, awareness, and intentional parenting can shape a more stable future for kids of divorce. Connect with Anthony: Facebook: Linkedin: Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: A word from our sponsor: Let’s talk about sleep... especially during those hot summer nights. If you’ve ever tossed and turned, sweating through your sheets, you’re not alone. That’s why I’m so excited to share Cozy Earth with you. I personally use their bamboo sheets, and they’ve completely transformed how I sleep—cooler, more comfortably, and without waking up in a sweat. The fabric is naturally temperature-regulating and moisture-wicking, which means better rest for you. Their All Day Tee is a favorite in my house—soft, breathable, and perfect for staying cool during busy days. And don’t even get me started on the Studio Pant Collection—comfort and style in one perfect piece. Even better? You can try it all risk-free. With a 100-night sleep trial and a 10-year warranty on bedding, you have nothing to lose—and so much sleep to gain. ✨ Upgrade your summer. Go to and use code JBD for 40% off their best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more. You’ll feel the difference from night one. /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/36896065

Divorce Without Destruction: The Secret Sauce of Diplomacy + Boundaries with Acclaimed Master Attorney Mediator, Hesha Abrams, Esq. 06/06/2025

Divorce Without Destruction: The Secret Sauce of Diplomacy + Boundaries with Acclaimed Master Attorney Mediator, Hesha Abrams, Esq. What if you could navigate your divorce with calm, clarity, and even collaboration, no matter how high the conflict? In this powerful episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, host Karen McMahon sits down with internationally renowned mediator and author of Keeping the Calm, Hesha Abrams, to explore how to stay grounded, communicate effectively, and maintain your personal power during a high-conflict divorce. Together, they dive into the emotional and practical challenges of divorce, including handling custody battles, negotiating financial settlements, and co-parenting with a difficult ex. Hesha shares proven strategies for emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and productive negotiation that can help you stay calm, protect your well-being, and create more peaceful outcomes for you and your children. You’ll learn how diplomacy and firm boundaries can work together to shift power dynamics, de-escalate conflict, and keep communication focused and intentional. Whether you’re just beginning your divorce journey or already in the thick of it, this conversation offers tools to help you protect your peace and make empowered decisions throughout the process. Hesha Abrams is an internationally acclaimed master attorney, mediator, negotiator, and deal-maker with over 30 years of experience resolving complex and high-profile disputes. She has worked with companies such as Apple, Google, Amazon, Facebook, IBM, and Verizon, and is known for mediating the landmark case involving the secret formula for Pepsi. Her work spans from multinational corporations to individuals navigating deeply personal conflicts, bringing clarity, resolution, and peace to even the most challenging situations. Connect with Hesha: Holding The Calm - The Book: LinkedIn: Facebook: YouTube Channel: Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: /episode/index/show/journeybeyonddivorce/id/36882020

The Stay or Go Divorce Decision: How to Determine if Your Marriage is Over with Sharon Pope, Certified Master Life Coach 06/03/2025

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