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To the Man on the Other Side of Divorce

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Release Date: 06/24/2026

10 Year Anniversary Episode: Surviving a High Conflict Divorce Without Losing Your Sanity with Karen McMahon show art 10 Year Anniversary Episode: Surviving a High Conflict Divorce Without Losing Your Sanity with Karen McMahon

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

To celebrate a decade of Journey Beyond Divorce, weโ€™re sharing a special collection of episodes featuring Karen McMahon as a guest on some of her favorite podcasts. Over the years, Karen has joined incredible hosts across the divorce, coaching, and personal growth space to share her story and her expertise. This collection brings those conversations together in one place, offering a look at Karenโ€™s voice and message from a different angle, through the eyes of the hosts who welcomed her. Thank you for being part of this journey, and for helping Journey Beyond Divorce grow into what it is...

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You Can Insure Your Divorce Settlement. Here's How, with CEO/Founder of NASDF Ronald Platt show art You Can Insure Your Divorce Settlement. Here's How, with CEO/Founder of NASDF Ronald Platt

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

You spend months, sometimes years, negotiating child support and alimony. Then a layoff, a disability, a business bankruptcy, or a death can stop those payments overnight, and most people have no idea thereโ€™s a way to protect that income. In this episode, Karen McMahon sits down with Ron Platt, founder of the National Association of Single and Divorced Families (NASDF) and creator of Support Insured, the only policy on the market that covers child support and alimony together. Ron shares how an idea he and his father developed 30 years ago was turned down by carrier after carrier because of...

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Should I Stay Together for the Kids? show art Should I Stay Together for the Kids?

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Should you stay for the kids? Karen McMahon opens this solo episode with a composite scene drawn from moments she has seen over and over in her work: a dinner table, a parentโ€™s jaw tightening, and a silence that lasts a beat too long. Two children respond in two different ways. Nine-year-old Emily fills the quiet with bright chatter, and five-year-old Jake gets smaller, hoping to take up less space. Their parent watches it happen across the table and recognizes the same fear in both of them. From there, Karen explains what those moments teach. Children who grow up around tension build coping...

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AI and Divorce: What Your Chatbot Could Cost You in Court with Amanda DuBois show art AI and Divorce: What Your Chatbot Could Cost You in Court with Amanda DuBois

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Everyone is turning to AI to get organized, prepare for attorney meetings, and make sense of divorce. Seattle family law attorney Amanda DuBois, founder of DuBois Law Group and 30 years into practicing, explains why that instinct can backfire. Amanda walks through why conversations with a chatbot have no attorney-client privilege, which means your prompts and the AIโ€™s answers can be requested in discovery or subpoenaed. She connects it to something she has seen for decades: journals and diaries are discoverable too, unless you are keeping them at your lawyerโ€™s direction for the case....

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When Women Out-Earn their Spouse: Navigating High-Conflict Divorce with Divorce Coach, Ksenia Muench show art When Women Out-Earn their Spouse: Navigating High-Conflict Divorce with Divorce Coach, Ksenia Muench

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

High-achieving women often carry the whole household on their shoulders. They build the career, bring home the bigger paycheck, and still come home to the kids, the laundry, and a spouse who assumes they can handle it all. When divorce enters the picture, and especially a high-conflict divorce, that weight doubles overnight. In this episode, Karen McMahon sits down with fellow high-conflict divorce strategist Ksenia Muench, founder of Thrive Again Divorce Coaching and creator of the High Conflict Playbook, who lived her own high-conflict divorce as the higher-earning spouse. Karen and Ksenia...

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How to Prepare for Divorce: 5 Steps to Take Before You File show art How to Prepare for Divorce: 5 Steps to Take Before You File

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Whether you've decided to divorce and haven't told your spouse yet, or the decision has been made for you, the first weeks can bring a wave of fear, guilt, overwhelm and uncertainty. In this solo episode, Karen McMahon, high-conflict divorce coach and founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, explains how to prepare for divorce in a way that protects your emotional health, your finances and your children. After 16 years of coaching, Karen has seen that how you handle the emotional side of divorce shapes how well you handle the legal, financial and co-parenting decisions that follow. She explains why...

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10 Year Anniversary Episode: How to Thrive After Divorce: A Midlife Survival Guide with Karen McMahon show art 10 Year Anniversary Episode: How to Thrive After Divorce: A Midlife Survival Guide with Karen McMahon

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

To celebrate a decade of Journey Beyond Divorce, we're sharing a special collection of episodes featuring Karen McMahon as a guest on some of her favorite podcasts. Over the years, Karen has joined incredible hosts across the divorce, coaching, and personal growth space to share her story and her expertise. This collection brings those conversations together in one place, offering a look at Karen's voice and message from a different angle, through the eyes of the hosts who welcomed her. Thank you for being part of this journey, and for helping Journey Beyond Divorce grow into what it is today....

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The Divorce Digital Blind Spot: What Your Lawyer Isn't Warning You About with Jonathan Steele, Esq. show art The Divorce Digital Blind Spot: What Your Lawyer Isn't Warning You About with Jonathan Steele, Esq.

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

Changing the locks is no longer the same thing as changing the access. In this episode, Karen McMahon sits down with Jonathan Steele, a Chicago based family law attorney and certified cybersecurity professional, for a conversation Journey Beyond Divorce has never had in over 425 episodes. Jonathan has spent more than a decade litigating high conflict, high net worth cases, and he brings a layer of technical expertise that most family lawyers simply do not have. Karen opens with the uncomfortable truth that almost nobody going through divorce thinks of themselves as a cybersecurity target....

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How to Stop Anxiety from Controlling Your Divorce Decisions with Mindful Drinking Coach, Colleen Freeland Kachmann show art How to Stop Anxiety from Controlling Your Divorce Decisions with Mindful Drinking Coach, Colleen Freeland Kachmann

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

If you've ever felt like you can't think straight, can't stop second-guessing yourself, or can't figure out why you keep making decisions you regret, this episode is for you. One of the most damaging and least talked about effects of divorce is what anxiety does to your decision making. Fear takes over, your nervous system goes into overdrive, and suddenly you're not making choices from a clear, grounded place, you're reacting. Most people don't even realize it's happening until the damage is done, and for many, anxiety and alcohol end up feeding each other during this exact chapter of life....

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10 Year Anniversary Episode: High Conflict Relationships: Self-Love Deficit, Delusions & Boundaries show art 10 Year Anniversary Episode: High Conflict Relationships: Self-Love Deficit, Delusions & Boundaries

Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

To celebrate a decade of Journey Beyond Divorce, we're sharing a special collection of episodes featuring Karen McMahon as a guest on some of her favorite podcasts. Over the years, Karen has joined incredible hosts across the divorce, coaching, and personal growth space to share her story and her expertise. This collection brings those conversations together in one place, offering a look at Karen's voice and message from a different angle, through the eyes of the hosts who welcomed her. Thank you for being part of this journey, and for helping Journey Beyond Divorce grow into what it is today....

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More Episodes

Most men enter divorce feeling like a bad person.
Shamed.
Labeled.
Often called a narcissist.

This episode is for that man.

Because the truth is, you are not broken.
You are under-resourced.
And there is a profound difference.

In this solo episode, Karen McMahon speaks directly to the divorcing dad who is white-knuckling it through one of the hardest seasons of his life, carrying shame he didn't earn, fighting for children he loves deeply, and quietly wondering if he's going to make it through this.

The answer is yes. And this episode shows you how.

Karen addresses the emotional depth of men that nobody is acknowledging, the very real dangers that emerge when divorcing dads don't get support, and the brilliance... yes, brilliance... that becomes possible when they do.


What you'll take away:

1. The truth about your emotional life
You feel more than anyone has ever given you credit for. You've just never been given the tools, the language, or the permission to work with it. That changes here.

2. The stats that should stop us all cold
Divorcing men are among the most at-risk demographics on the planet. The numbers are sobering. The silence around them is unacceptable. Karen names them, because someone has to.

3. Fight for your kids and your right to father them
Her version of reality is not the truth. The courts are not automatically stacked against you. And keeping the peace at the expense of your presence is not protecting your children. It is costing them. Trust what you innately know they need from you.

4. Trust your instincts as a dad
You parent differently than mom. That is not a weakness. It is exactly what your children need, and only you can give it. Karen shares a powerful story that will change how you see yourself as a father.

5. Roll up your sleeves
The hard, vulnerable, and courageous work of healing your wounds and refining your character is not optional if you want to emerge from this as the man and father your children deserve. This episode shows you exactly where to begin.

6. Break the chain
The generational patterns that quietly led you here, they stop with you. This painful season is your invitation to become the man who was always in there, waiting to be found.


In this episode Karen also covers:

  • Why men feel deeply and why nobody is talking about it
  • The dangerous edge men reach when emotional capacity runs out
  • Why caving and controlling are both driven by fear and what to do instead
  • How to evict your ex from your mental space and reclaim your own thinking
  • Why silence and boundaries do more heavy lifting than any argument ever will
  • The Michelangelo principle and what it means for who you're becoming
  • Why divorce is the most powerful doorway men walk through to do their inner work

Resources mentioned in this episode:

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