How to talk about kink -- Episode 183
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Release Date: 10/25/2023
Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What’s Normal and What to Say
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining. Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy. Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Read . Got some thoughts or questions? ...
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How to explain what slut means!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, I talk about the word 'slut'. BBK Bookstore Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to...
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How to recognize grooming! Ug. Sorry-not-sorry.
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
In this episode, I explains grooming - how to spot it and what to do about it. is the place for you if you were sexually abused as a child. has up-to-date tips too help you spot trouble. There's a lot of helpful info about this from the Australian government Practice Kit for Child Sexual Abuse (this is for folks who work with kids). Other resources – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. – Monitoring and filtering (US only) – Monitoring and filtering (outside US) BBK...
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Holiday Boundaries for Neurodivergent Kids | Clear, Concrete Ways to Teach Consent
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
The holidays can be extra tough for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids—new people, touchy relatives, and lots of noise. In this episode, I share simple, concrete ways to help ND kids keep their boundaries and stay comfortable. You’ll learn: – How to prep ND kids for hugs and touch expectations – What language makes boundaries crystal clear – How to support them when family doesn’t get it Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn...
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Holiday Boundaries for Kids | How to Teach Consent and Body Safety with Family Members
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Holiday gatherings can make body boundaries a mess. Here’s how to help kids handle hugs, high-energy relatives, and “say-hi” moments with confidence and respect. You’ll learn: – What to teach kids about saying “no” politely – How to prep family for your boundary rules – Ways to model consent during the holidays Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most...
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Shut up! How to truly connect with your kids
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
When you stop talking, your connection with your kids will get better. And you will FEEL better because all that yapping takes a ton of energy. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and...
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How to Talk About Masturbation Without Being Too Weird
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Masturbation freaks parents out—but it doesn’t have to. In this quick episode, I explain what kids need to know, what’s normal, and how to talk about it without making it weird. You’ll learn: – What to say when you catch your kid exploring their body – How to keep the conversation calm and matter-of-fact – Why this is a healthy part of growing up Next step: Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Read here. Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most...
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Puberty Prep for All Kids | How to Talk About Boners and Periods
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Puberty doesn’t have to be weird or awful, for you or your kid. In this short episode, I walk you through what to say about the coming changes, how to handle questions about boners and periods, and how to make sure your kid feels normal. You’ll learn: – How to talk about puberty without turning beet red – What kids really need to know (and when) – How to make conversations about periods and erections no big deal Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast...
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Puberty and Neurodivergent Kids | What to Say About Boners and Periods
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Puberty can be confusing and overwhelming for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids. Periods can be scary and boners can be uncomfortable and embarrassing. I’ll show you how to make it clear, concrete, and easier to handle. You’ll learn: – How to talk about these two things without making it awkward (for you or your ND kid) – What neurodivergent kids need to know to help them navigate boners and periods – How to make conversations about periods and erections clear, concrete, and calm Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or...
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So long and thanks for all the calls! Plus 20 tips for the sex talks from Sex Talks with Tweens -- Episode 200
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
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