Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What’s Normal and What to Say
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Release Date: 01/07/2026
REPLAY! How to talk to kids about polyamory!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
In this replay episode, I give you scripts to explain polyamory to your kid. Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics...
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How to talk to kids about crushes
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Crushes can be soooo painful! And fun! And confusing! All the things. I’ve been a terminal crusher my entire life, so, for better or worse, I’m kind of an expert. Explaining them can be a little tough because crushes are amorphous in just about every way. Hope this helps! . I’m featured in this CNN article from 2022. I totally forgot about it. Terrific video from Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or...
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How to explain crushes to your neurodivergent kid
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Crushes can be extra confusing for ND kids. There’s physical, social, and emotional stuff that goes on that can be a bit mystifying. Feelings in their bodies, misunderstanding chatter about who’s crushing on whom (#grammar police), and trying to figure out how they fit into all this can be tough. Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Struggling to find the words?...
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REPLAY! How to talk with kids about erections/boners/woodies
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
In this replay episode, I explain how to talk to kids about erections. Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com LEARN MORE Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own. Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as...
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How to talk with kids about sex for pleasure!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
The main reason we have sex is for pleasure! Learn how to talk with kids about sex for pleasure so you don't freak out, and they don't either. Much. This is a tough one for most parents, so start small, keep it chill, and get it done. Your next step? Check out Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent,...
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How to explain sex for pleasure to neurodivergent kids!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Often, neurodivergent kids struggle to understand why people would have sex for pleasure. This may be due to sensory issues, disinterest, or the assumption by adults that they aren't (and won't ) be interested, so don't need to know this. It's best to assume your kid will be interested in sex and relationships so that they can have a healthy and fun sex life - if they want one. Your next step? Check out Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with...
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REPLAY: How to explain STIs to kids under 10
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How to talk to young kids about sexually transmitted infections without freaking them out. Or being crazy uncomfortable. The Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids. Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – The podcast can only get you so far... can help you become the trustworthy adult you...
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Neurodivergent Kid Question: AutDHD girl needs sex ed and help with inappropriate boundaries
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Her 16-year-old daughter with autism, ADHD, sensory processing differences needs sex ed, and support regarding boundaries without shaming her. Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to communicate with...
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Question From a Parent: What are house rules for teen "romantic" sleepovers?
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Mom needs some guidance as her teen starts a relationship! She has questions about setting clear house rules around things like bedroom doors and sleepovers. Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to communicate...
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Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What’s Normal and What to Say
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining. Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy. Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Read . Got some thoughts or questions? ...
info_outlineWorried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining.
Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy.
Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this.
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