Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What’s Normal and What to Say
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Release Date: 01/07/2026
How to talk with kids about sex for pleasure!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
The main reason we have sex is for pleasure! Learn how to talk with kids about sex for pleasure so you don't freak out, and they don't either. Much. This is a tough one for most parents, so start small, keep it chill, and get it done. Your next step? Check out Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent,...
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How to explain sex for pleasure to neurodivergent kids!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Often, neurodivergent kids struggle to understand why people would have sex for pleasure. This may be due to sensory issues, disinterest, or the assumption by adults that they aren't (and won't ) be interested, so don't need to know this. It's best to assume your kid will be interested in sex and relationships so that they can have a healthy and fun sex life - if they want one. Your next step? Check out Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with...
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REPLAY: How to explain STIs to kids under 10
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
How to talk to young kids about sexually transmitted infections without freaking them out. Or being crazy uncomfortable. The Birds & Bees & Kids Bookstore is all scripts and some tips! Other resources My is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids. Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – The podcast can only get you so far... can help you become the trustworthy adult you...
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Neurodivergent Kid Question: AutDHD girl needs sex ed and help with inappropriate boundaries
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Her 16-year-old daughter with autism, ADHD, sensory processing differences needs sex ed, and support regarding boundaries without shaming her. Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to communicate with...
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Question From a Parent: What are house rules for teen "romantic" sleepovers?
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Mom needs some guidance as her teen starts a relationship! She has questions about setting clear house rules around things like bedroom doors and sleepovers. Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to communicate...
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Masturbation & Neurodivergent Kids: What’s Normal and What to Say
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Worried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining. Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy. Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this. Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Read . Got some thoughts or questions? ...
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How to explain what slut means!
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, I talk about the word 'slut'. BBK Bookstore Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)! Get the tools to...
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How to recognize grooming! Ug. Sorry-not-sorry.
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
In this episode, I explains grooming - how to spot it and what to do about it. is the place for you if you were sexually abused as a child. has up-to-date tips too help you spot trouble. There's a lot of helpful info about this from the Australian government Practice Kit for Child Sexual Abuse (this is for folks who work with kids). Other resources – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential. – Monitoring and filtering (US only) – Monitoring and filtering (outside US) BBK...
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Holiday Boundaries for Neurodivergent Kids | Clear, Concrete Ways to Teach Consent
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
The holidays can be extra tough for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids—new people, touchy relatives, and lots of noise. In this episode, I share simple, concrete ways to help ND kids keep their boundaries and stay comfortable. You’ll learn: – How to prep ND kids for hugs and touch expectations – What language makes boundaries crystal clear – How to support them when family doesn’t get it Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn...
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Holiday Boundaries for Kids | How to Teach Consent and Body Safety with Family Members
Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!
Holiday gatherings can make body boundaries a mess. Here’s how to help kids handle hugs, high-energy relatives, and “say-hi” moments with confidence and respect. You’ll learn: – What to teach kids about saying “no” politely – How to prep family for your boundary rules – Ways to model consent during the holidays Your next step? Check out LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most...
info_outlineWorried about your child masturbating? Every kid discovers their body, and every parent wonders what to do about it. The good news? You can handle this without freaking out, shutting it down, or over-explaining.
Neurodivergent kids may touch their privates to stim, when they are anxious or just because it feels good. They often struggle with public/private and this can make parents crazy.
Here's some ideas about how to help them learn about appropriate times to do this.
Watch here:
All Kids Episode on YouTube
ND Kids Episode on YouTube
Read here.
Got some thoughts or questions?
Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com
Learn more!
30-minute Quickie Consultation
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The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent
All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!
The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.
Other stuff
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