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467 How to Calm Your Mind Before Bed: Anxiety Relief for Sleep‑Trouble Nights

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

Release Date: 01/07/2026

Bonus Episode: 5 Self‑Compassion Exercises That Support ERP & OCD Recovery show art Bonus Episode: 5 Self‑Compassion Exercises That Support ERP & OCD Recovery

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this episode, I talk about something that doesn’t replace ERP, but actually makes it more effective: self-compassion. So many people worry that being kind to themselves will weaken recovery, let them off the hook, or make OCD worse. But the truth is that self-criticism often increases anxiety, reinforces the obsession cycle, and leads to more burnout and exhaustion.

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481 Harm OCD Explained: What It Is, Why It Happens & How to Manage It show art 481 Harm OCD Explained: What It Is, Why It Happens & How to Manage It

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this heartfelt episode, Kimberley Quinlan and therapist Lacey Yukelson unpack what harm OCD really is, why it feels so terrifying, and how recovery becomes possible when you stop fighting the thoughts and start changing your response.

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Bonus Episode: What to Say When Your Brain Freezes in Conversation: Social Anxiety Rescue Script show art Bonus Episode: What to Say When Your Brain Freezes in Conversation: Social Anxiety Rescue Script

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this episode, I talk about what to do when your brain freezes in conversation and social anxiety suddenly takes over. So many people experience that moment where their mind goes blank and they immediately assume they’ve failed, but I want to help you understand that this is a freeze response, not a personal failure. When anxious brains feel pressure, freezing is a very common response.

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480 People Pleasers and the Shame They Hide (with Maggie Nick) show art 480 People Pleasers and the Shame They Hide (with Maggie Nick)

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Maggie Nick to explore why so many “good kids” grow into adults carrying deep shame, people-pleasing patterns, and fear of disappointing others—and how healing begins with compassion and understanding.  

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Bonus Episode: The 3 Hidden Causes of Your UNEXPECTED Panic Attacks (And How to Fix Them) show art Bonus Episode: The 3 Hidden Causes of Your UNEXPECTED Panic Attacks (And How to Fix Them)

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this episode, I talk about why panic attacks so often feel like they come out of nowhere when, in reality, there are usually hidden triggers building beneath the surface.

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479 Why the Most Responsible People Struggle in Silence (with Dr Margaret Rutherford) show art 479 Why the Most Responsible People Struggle in Silence (with Dr Margaret Rutherford)

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this episode, we explore how perfectly hidden depression can live beneath strength and success, and how learning to gently open up can begin to set you free.  

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Bonus Episode: Cognitive Defusion: 4 Techniques to Detach from Intrusive Thoughts (Mental Compulsion Tool) show art Bonus Episode: Cognitive Defusion: 4 Techniques to Detach from Intrusive Thoughts (Mental Compulsion Tool)

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

n this episode, I teach you a simple but powerful shift called cognitive defusion, a way to create space between you and your intrusive thoughts. So often, thoughts can feel urgent, dangerous, or completely true, like warnings you have to act on. But just because a thought feels real doesn’t mean it is.

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478 OCD Core Fears with Michelle Massi show art 478 OCD Core Fears with Michelle Massi

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

If you find yourself compulsively Googling symptoms and feeling more anxious than reassured, this episode offers a compassionate, evidence-based 3-step plan to help you break free from cyberchondria and health anxiety.

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Bonus Episode: OCD Subtypes Explained: Which ONE Is Holding You Hostage? show art Bonus Episode: OCD Subtypes Explained: Which ONE Is Holding You Hostage?

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

In this episode, I walk you through the many ways OCD can show up, because it’s not just about germs or checking. OCD can attach itself to anything that matters to you, like relationships, health, morality, identity, or past experiences. If you’ve ever felt confused or alone in your thoughts, I want you to know there’s a reason your OCD looks the way it does, and you’re not alone in this.

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477 When Your OCD Brain Tricks You show art 477 When Your OCD Brain Tricks You

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

This week’s episode is a heartfelt and practical conversation about how OCD can change shape over time, the ways it tricks the brain, and the grounding tools that can help you move through fear with more courage and self-compassion.

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In this episode, Kimberley Quinlan shares a gentle, science-backed approach to calming nighttime anxiety by shifting away from forcing sleep and toward helping your nervous system truly rest.