OPEN Advocacy: Pioneering Legal Rights for Non-Monogamists with Brett Chamberlin
Release Date: 02/20/2024
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info_outlineThis week, Charna interviews Brett Chamberlin, the founder and executive director of OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy. Brett opens by sharing his journey of transitioning from environmental activism to the advocacy for more awareness and legal rights for non-monogamists. This includes anyone who subscribes to relationship designs outside the norm of one man and one woman, including single people.
He also discusses the cultural implications of nonmonogamy, the impact of societal norms, the progressing nonmonogamy movement, and the importance of community, consent, and cooperative living in practicing non-monogamy.
When it comes to having a successful non-monogamous relationship, Brett emphasizes the relevance of developing effective communication skills, having a clear understanding of personal desires, and the establishment of healthier relationships. He calls for the questioning and challenging of the supremacy of monogamous relationships in society and how dismantling this norm will lead to a more inclusive, loving society.
Charna ends the episode by sharing resources for people looking to explore the world of non-monogamy, as well as, an exercise designed to help you focus in on the characteristics and nuances you’re looking for in a partner when choosing a potential mate.
Show Notes
00:04 Introduction of Brett Chamberlin and OPEN
01:09 Brett Chamberlin's Journey to Polyamory Advocacy
03:31 The Birth of OPEN: Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Nonmonogamy
04:09 The Challenges and Privileges of Advocacy
05:38 OPEN's Theory of Change and Advocacy Strategies
11:07 The Reality of Nonmonogamy in America
13:23 The Importance of Visibility and Acceptance
17:22 The Legal Challenges Faced by Nonmonogamous People
28:31 The Role of Polyamory in Broader Human Liberation
35:42 The Liberatory Potential of Non-Monogamy
35:51 The Social and Environmental Impact of Extractive Systems
36:31 The Rise of Social Issues and the Role of Non-Monogamy
38:08 The History and Evolution of Monogamy
38:58 The Impact of Industrial Revolution on Relationship Structures
40:55 The Importance of Relationship Education
50:07 The Role of Media in Normalizing Non-Monogamy
54:43 The Impact of Pandemic on Non-Monogamous Relationships
59:41 The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Authenticity in Relationships
01:00:58 Understanding and Navigating the Complexities of Relationships
01:03:57 Conclusion: The Power of Open Conversations and Community