LaidOPEN Podcast
Welcome to the LaidOPEN Podcast hosted by Charna Cassell. Charna is a Trauma-Trained Psychotherapist and Sexuality Coach with over 20 years of experience. Every day, Charna helps clients heal from trauma and access more bodily joy, emotional regulation, vitality, and hope. Now she’s bringing her expertise to podcasting with interviews from post-trauma thrivers who share creative resources to support living an authentic, passionate, mindful existence. Together they explore how to have a more pleasure-filled, peaceful life while reducing self-sabotaging behaviors and gaining control over reactive behaviors. Charna’s mission is to help people like you understand the impact of trauma on their nervous system and therefore their relationships with an emphasis on ways to heal. In every episode, Charna explores how to build our physical and emotional capacity to be with all that moves through us and around us to ultimately feel more liberated on the other side. Join our community as we embark on this transformative journey by reaccessing our connection to aliveness.
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Ep. 114 You’re Manifesting Wrong and Colette Baron-Reid Knows How to Fix It
01/06/2026
Ep. 114 You’re Manifesting Wrong and Colette Baron-Reid Knows How to Fix It
Manifesting isn’t about wanting harder, visualizing longer, or thinking positively enough. In this episode of the LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna Cassell sits down with master manifestor, psychic medium, and intuitive to unpack why so many people feel stuck despite “doing all the right things” and what actually creates change. Colette shares her unconventional approach to manifestation through meditative drawing, a practice designed to retrain the brain, regulate the nervous system, and bring the body into alignment with what you’re calling in. Together, they explore the science behind creativity and brain plasticity, why alignment matters more than intention, and how art can act as a bridge between intuition and reality. The conversation also weaves through Colette’s personal spiritual journey, including her path to sobriety, her evolving relationship with a higher power, and the collaborative creation of her latest book. Along the way, Colette offers practical exercises and grounded insights you can use immediately to shift patterns, release emotional blocks, and approach manifestation as a lived practice rather than a fantasy. This episode is for anyone who feels like manifesting hasn’t worked for them and is ready to understand why and how to do it differently. Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and welcoming Colette Baron-Reid 00:25 Manifestation, brain science, and why intention alone isn’t enough 01:42 Colette’s work, background, and the origins of her new book 03:12 The intersection of art, neuroscience, and manifestation 08:36 Colette’s spiritual journey and the influence of New Thought 09:54 Why art is a powerful tool for manifesting and alignment 11:47 Synchronicity and collaborating with artist Anna Denning 16:00 Alignment, intuition, and lived personal experience 21:02 Gratitude and daily practices that support manifestation 28:31 The role of creativity and drawing in mental health 31:57 Synchronicity, spirituality, and meaning making 32:34 Finding comfort in non denominational spiritual spaces 34:01 Sobriety, 12 step programs, and redefining a higher power 39:55 Intention, energy, and embodied awareness 41:23 Manifestation through inner work and nervous system training 44:39 Everyday synchronicity and reflection 49:13 Finding meaning in challenge and uncertainty 51:05 Practical drawing and emotional release exercises 57:17 Closing thoughts and resources
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Ep. 113 Solving Crimes Using Psi Ability with Former Psychic Detective Elizabeth Rea
12/16/2025
Ep. 113 Solving Crimes Using Psi Ability with Former Psychic Detective Elizabeth Rea
In this episode of the LaidOPEN Podcast, host Charna Cassell sits down with , an evidentiary clairvoyant psychic medium and former psychic detective whose work has evolved from solving cold murder cases with federal agents to advising high-net-worth founders and investors behind the scenes. Elizabeth shares how a near-death experience at sixteen cracked open her psychic perception, setting her on a path shaped by trauma, intuition, and non-conventional intelligence. Together, Charna and Elizabeth explore different forms of psy ability, how trauma can act as a doorway to spiritual awakening, and the ethical responsibility that comes with seeing beyond dominant ways of knowing. The conversation also dives into the realities of living with heightened perception, navigating relationships, choosing discernment over disclosure, and why Elizabeth now works exclusively with influential, heart-centered leaders to help them avoid unseen risks and identify opportunities others miss. Grounded, candid, and surprisingly pragmatic, this episode reframes psychic ability as a form of intelligence meant to be used with integrity, precision, and purpose. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction to the LaidOPEN Podcast 00:24 Meet Elizabeth Rea: Clairvoyant Psychic Medium 00:33 Exploring Psychic Abilities and Near-Death Experiences 01:25 The Role of Trauma in Spiritual Awakening 03:23 Elizabeth's Journey and Psychic Development 07:39 Working with Law Enforcement 17:39 From Psychic Detective to Corporate Medium 19:29 Navigating Personal and Professional Life as a Psychic 23:49 The Story We Tell Ourselves 24:22 Near-Death Experience and Bliss 25:47 Precognition and Psychic Abilities 26:32 The Faja Building Murder Case 30:05 The Telepathy Tapes and CIA Infiltration 35:40 Developing Intuition and Psychic Abilities 37:51 Community and Psychic Development 43:27 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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Ep. 112 The Heart Opening Reality of Kundalini Practice with Amanbir
12/02/2025
Ep. 112 The Heart Opening Reality of Kundalini Practice with Amanbir
In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I open up about my own deepening journey with Kundalini Yoga and sit with one of the teachers who has guided so much of that unfolding. is a Kundalini Yoga teacher and trainer who has spent more than two years empowering and training thousands of students across the planet. His teaching blends traditional Kundalini lineage, Chinese medicine, astrology, and nervous system intelligence in a way that cuts through noise and brings you right into the truth of your own experience. We explore what Kundalini practice actually feels like inside a real human body and why it has the power to open your heart in ways that are both tender and undeniable. We talk about how mantra, breath, mudra and repetitive movement shift emotional patterns and help move trauma, especially the inherited stories that live in our cells. We get into the beauty and intensity of transformation, the importance of community and consistent practice, and the courage it takes to let yourself soften and expand at the same time. Amanbir also shares a simple breath practice you can use whenever you feel overwhelmed, disconnected or pulled into old habits. His presence is steady and deeply compassionate, and this conversation offers a grounded entry point into a practice that can change the way you meet yourself. If you have ever wondered what Kundalini can open in you, this episode brings you right to the heart of it. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to LaidOPEN Podcast 00:18 Meet Amanbir: Kundalini Yoga Teacher and Trainer 03:20 Amanbir's Journey into Kundalini Yoga 06:31 The Power and Benefits of Mantra 09:22 Personal Experiences with Mantra and Healing 14:51 Understanding Mudras and Repetitive Movements 16:58 Intense Experiences and Kundalini Yoga 23:11 Processing Ancestral Trauma through Practice 25:35 Navigating Workplace Dynamics with Mindfulness 26:54 The Power of Personal Practice 30:05 Community and Teacher Training 32:09 Astrology and Historical Patterns 35:19 Pluto's Influence and Personal Transformation 43:34 Breath Practice for Inner Calm 47:22 Final Thoughts and Resources
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Ep. 111 The Body Keeps the Score but the Church Keeps the Secrets with Margaret Bronson
11/18/2025
Ep. 111 The Body Keeps the Score but the Church Keeps the Secrets with Margaret Bronson
Join host Charna Cassell for a raw and eye opening conversation with Margaret Bronson, founder of Deconstruction Doulas. Margaret grew up inside a high control Christian cult and survived domestic violence, child abuse, excommunication, and the long psychological fallout of authoritarian religion. Now she guides others through the same dismantling of belief systems that once owned them. In this episode, Margaret unpacks how she and her husband developed somatic practices to help survivors heal the trauma stored in the body after years of purity culture, spiritual coercion, and obedience enforced through shame and fear. She breaks down what truly happens inside high control religious communities and why so many people leaving them feel like they’re stepping out of a parallel universe. This conversation also dives into the political reality many of us are waking up to. Margaret explains how the same ideology that shaped her childhood is now embedded in Project 2025, Christian Reconstructionism, and the growing Trad Wife movement. She outlines the playbook of modern theocrats and shows how personal trauma and national policy are intertwined when religion is weaponized. If you’re feeling a visceral reaction to Project 2025, this episode will help you understand why. Margaret offers grounding tools, embodied healing practices, and a clear-eyed look at what we’re facing as the country edges closer to an openly theocratic agenda. Tune in for a fierce, validating, and deeply necessary conversation for anyone untangling from religious trauma or trying to make sense of this political moment. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction and Content Warning 01:20 Meet Margaret Bronson: A Journey of Healing 03:17 Life in a Cult: Margaret's Early Years 04:03 Excommunication and Its Aftermath 06:07 Deconstruction Doulas: Birth of a Support System 06:30 Parental Vulnerability and Cult Recruitment 08:24 The Impact of Cult Ideology 13:43 Breaking Free: Personal and Collective Healing 18:02 Somatic Practices and Reclaiming the Body 19:31 Navigating Sexual Trauma and Rediscovery 25:42 Resources and Support for Survivors 26:35 Generational Trauma and Abuse 27:55 Challenges in Seeking Help 29:49 The Trad Wife Movement 33:17 Christian Reconstructionism and Theocracy 39:21 Embodied Freedom and Healing 46:25 Practical Exercises for Grounding 49:09 Conclusion and Resources
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Ep. 110 How to Raise Kids Without Losing Your Mind (or Yourself) with Dr. Chelsey Hauge-Zaveleta
11/04/2025
Ep. 110 How to Raise Kids Without Losing Your Mind (or Yourself) with Dr. Chelsey Hauge-Zaveleta
In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, Charna talks with Dr. Chelsey Hague-Zavaleta, an expert in applied educational neuroscience and social–emotional learning. Together, they explore what it really means to raise calm, connected kids — and how to do it without losing your mind (or yourself) in the process. They unpack the science of co-regulation, discuss the difference between gentle and authoritative parenting, and share practical tools for managing stress behaviors and creating family balance. Dr. Chelsey offers compassionate insights for parents, teachers, and caregivers looking to build calmer, more cooperative relationships with children, and with themselves. Charna also introduces her upcoming group program designed to help parents and individuals deepen their self-regulation and embodiment practices. “When we learn to regulate ourselves, our children learn safety through us.” — Dr. Chelsey Hague-Zavaleta Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Wish for Parenting 00:53 Introducing Dr. Chelsey and Her Expertise 02:41 Chelsey’s Journey and Parenting Course 05:13 Parenting Challenges and Co-Regulation 07:45 Gentle Parenting vs. Authoritative Approach 15:54 Tone and Nonverbal Communication in Parenting 20:54 Handling Parental Preferences and Boundaries 30:17 The Ineffectiveness of Negative Commands 30:51 Positive Framing in Parenting 32:38 Intervening Before Explosions 34:04 Handling Stress Behaviors 35:21 Challenges of Co-Parenting and Transitions 37:57 Adoptive and Foster Parenting 45:09 Embodiment and Raising Self-Aware Children 53:22 The Power of Praise and Positive Reinforcement 56:11 Conclusion and Resources ✨ Subscribe to LaidOPEN for more conversations about intimacy, self-regulation, and the science of connection.
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Ep. 109 The Unstoppable Ann Randolph: Presence, Play, and the Power to Transform
10/21/2025
Ep. 109 The Unstoppable Ann Randolph: Presence, Play, and the Power to Transform
In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, host Charna Cassell sits down with award-winning playwright, performer, and teacher , whose autobiographical solo shows blend comedy, storytelling, and profound transformation. Together they explore their long-held desire to collaborate — a journey guided by synchronicity, presence, and creative courage. Ann shares how her early days working the graveyard shift at a homeless shelter evolved into a celebrated career sharing the stage with icons like Mel Brooks and Alanis Morissette. She opens up about using comedy to approach trauma, the healing power of daily writing, and the importance of embodying your story rather than just telling it. Charna and Ann dive deep into the somatic roots of storytelling, the interplay between vulnerability and creative freedom, and the spiritual practices that sustain both art and healing. Whether you’re a writer, performer, or simply someone seeking personal transformation, this conversation invites you to embrace failure, presence, and play as pathways to authentic expression and connection. Show Notes 00:00 – Introduction and Guest Introduction 02:11 – Charna’s Journey to Meeting Ann 03:39 – The Power of Daily Writing 04:18 – Writing for Transformation 05:02 – Ann’s Solo Shows and Comedy 09:18 – Victim, Hero, and Perpetrator Dynamics 12:22 – Somatic Practices in Storytelling 18:19 – Collaborations with Alanis Morissette 23:10 – Working with Mel Brooks 27:42 – Support and Validation 28:15 – Mentorship and High Stakes 29:16 – Opening in New York and Personal Loss 31:27 – Turning Grief into Art 41:26 – The Healing Power of Storytelling 45:29 – Spiritual Practices and Personal Growth 47:42 – Current Projects and Offerings 51:53 – Conclusion and Farewell
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Ep 108 The Secret Life of Dreams with Bonnie Buckner
10/07/2025
Ep 108 The Secret Life of Dreams with Bonnie Buckner
This season, dreams are really on my mind. I’ve been thinking about how they shape our creativity, our healing, and the subtle ways our bodies speak through them. In this episode, I sit down with dreamwork expert Bonnie Buckner, author of and founder and CEO of the International Institute for Dreaming and Imagery. Bonnie teaches that dreams aren’t just stories from the night—they’re a living intelligence, guiding us through symbol, sensation, and emotion. Together, we explore how dreams can open pathways to creativity, empathy, and collective consciousness. We talk about the erotic and the joyful, the ones that confuse or haunt us, and how every dream—no matter how strange—is an invitation to listen more closely to what our deeper selves are trying to say. Bonnie also shares accessible dream practices you can begin tonight to help translate your inner imagery into healing and transformation. If you’ve ever woken from a dream that lingered in your body all day, this conversation will help you understand why—and how to listen when your dreams start speaking back. Learn more about Bonnie's work at the , and explore my offerings in somatics and embodiment at and . Show Notes: 00:00 — Reflections on the mystery and intelligence of dreams 00:40 — Meet Bonnie Buckner: author, dreamwork teacher, and founder and CEO of the International Institute for Dreaming and Imagery 02:36 — What happens when we dream collectively 04:48 — Using dreams for problem-solving and creative inspiration 07:24 — How dreams mirror our emotional and physical well-being 08:41 — The body as the dream’s messenger 15:11 — Supporting children’s natural dream connection 26:30 — Lucid dreaming and conscious participation in the dream 28:11 — What sex dreams reveal about desire, energy, and embodiment 29:35 — The role of joy and play in dreaming 31:39 — How life transitions, including menopause, shape dream life 33:36 — Exercises to shift emotion through imagery 38:21 — The symbolism of color in dreams 40:21 — Guided imagery as a bridge to healing 49:23 — Why dream journaling matters 50:40 — Closing thoughts and resources
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Ep 107 Psilocybin and the Future of Healing with Tania de Jong
09/23/2025
Ep 107 Psilocybin and the Future of Healing with Tania de Jong
Welcome back to LaidOPEN Podcast. In this week's episode, we explore altered states of consciousness, sound, healing, and the legacy of ancestral trauma. My guest is . She's a singer, sound healer, and social entrepreneur who co-founded , leading efforts to make psilocybin and MDMA legally available for treatment-resistant mental health conditions. Tania shares her own healing journey as a descendant of Holocaust survivors and the profound impact of psychedelic-assisted therapy in her life. We discuss the importance of set and setting, the benefits of group work, and how finding one’s voice can open pathways to expression and integration. She also sheds light on her advocacy in Australia, her work bridging science and spirituality, and her vision for more compassionate global healing practices. This conversation is rich with insight for anyone curious about psychedelics, wellness, and transformation. You can or watch the she mentioned in the episode. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to the Late Open Podcast 00:20 Meet Tanya De Young: Singer, Sound Healer, and Social Entrepreneur 00:46 Tanya's Personal Healing Journey 03:52 Discovering Psychedelic Assisted Therapies 05:14 The Profound Impact of Psychedelic Experiences 06:21 Healing Ancestral Trauma 11:34 The Importance of Set and Setting in Psychedelic Therapy 12:40 Mind Medicine Australia's Mission and Training Programs 18:13 The Role of Compassion and Connection in Healing 22:31 Engaging with Indigenous Communities and Future Goals 23:40 Exploring Indigenous Healing Practices 24:08 Mind Medicine Australia Clinic Launch 24:35 The Power of Group Healing 25:15 The Importance of Belonging and Connection 27:25 The Healing Power of Sound and Voice 30:19 Overcoming Fear and Finding Your Voice 33:29 Promoting Global Unity and Understanding 35:57 Gross National Happiness in Bhutan 37:26 Expanding Healing Practices Internationally 39:59 Personal Spiritual Practices for Grounding 41:03 Practical Exercises for Voice and Connection 43:27 Final Thoughts and Resources
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Ep. 106 Dreaming Your Life Into Beeing: Healing, Intuition and Animism (Part 2) with Ariella Daly
09/09/2025
Ep. 106 Dreaming Your Life Into Beeing: Healing, Intuition and Animism (Part 2) with Ariella Daly
Trigger warning: this episode contains discussions of sexual assault. In part 2 of this powerful conversation, Charna sits down again with : dream worker, animist, and beekeeper — to continue exploring how dreams can become profound guides for healing, recovery, and transformation. Ariella shares more of her personal path, weaving together the wisdom of dreams, ritual, and the natural world to show how the subconscious can support deep repair after trauma. Together, we discuss practical tools for reclaiming your body, rebuilding your relationship with eros and creativity, and reconnecting to nature as a source of restoration. Ariella also offers insights into sensory practices, embodiment techniques, and how to integrate dream work into everyday life so it’s not just a nighttime experience but a living practice. We also touch on the magic of collective dreaming — how shared dream spaces can reveal hidden truths, spark collective healing, and open up surprising pathways of growth. If you’ve ever been curious about how your dreams might be guiding you, this episode offers both inspiration and grounded practices to begin listening more deeply. Show Notes: 00:00 Welcome Back and Episode Overview 01:05 Continuing Ariella’s Healing Journey 03:20 Rituals and Dream Integration 07:45 Embodiment Practices for Recovery 12:30 Reconnecting with Nature Through Dreams 18:15 Collective Dreaming and Group Insights 26:50 Sensory Exercises, Sensory Remediation and Practical Applications 38:40 Closing Thoughts and Resources
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Ep. 105 Dreaming Your Life Into Beeing: Healing, Intuition and Animism with Ariella Daly (Part 1)
08/26/2025
Ep. 105 Dreaming Your Life Into Beeing: Healing, Intuition and Animism with Ariella Daly (Part 1)
Trigger warning: discussion of seggsual assault near the end In this episode, Charna interviews , a seasoned dream worker, animist, and beekeeper with over 15 years of experience. Ariella shares her fascinating journey into beekeeping and dream work, influenced by a blend of naturalism from her mother and mysticism from her father. She recounts a significant experience where wild bees moved into her home, deeply intertwining her dream work with her beekeeping practice. Ariella and Charna discuss the profound healing and intuitive lessons bees can impart, the importance of intentional dreaming, and the animist worldview that sees life and consciousness in all things. Ariella also touches on her personal healing journey through profound experiences with snakes and bees, and later discusses her recent experience of seggsual assault and how dream work has been a vital resource in her healing process. Show Notes: (You can also ) 00:00 Welcome, Trigger Warning and Introduction 01:03 Meet Ariella Daley: Dream Worker and Beekeeper 03:33 Ariella's Journey: From Childhood to Dreaming with Bees 05:40 The Healing Power of Bees 09:41 Intentional Dreaming and Animism 12:17 The Animist Worldview 15:33 Connecting with Nature and Intuition 19:29 The Meditative Presence of Bees 24:33 Exploring the Connection Between Bees and Dreams 25:10 Ancient Dream Healing Practices 26:08 The Symbolism of Snakes and Bees 28:25 Personal Stories of Dream and Snake Encounters 34:03 The Impact of Trauma and Healing 42:36 Concluding Thoughts and Future Episodes Resources To Reach Out To: National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): Voice: (800) 656-HOPE (4673) | Web: SF Women Against Rape: 415-861-2024 Book Resources: Judith Herman "Trauma and Recovery" Babette Rothschild "The Body Remembers and 8 Keys to Safe Trauma Recovery" Peter Levine "Waking the Tiger" Staci Haines "Healing Sex"
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Ep. 104 Medical Misogyny and the Medical Me Too Reckoning with Micah Larsen
08/12/2025
Ep. 104 Medical Misogyny and the Medical Me Too Reckoning with Micah Larsen
In this powerful episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I sit down with medical researcher, writer, and host of Modern Hysteria, , to dive deep into her deeply personal and courageous journey through PMDD, menopause, and preeclampsia. With warmth and unflinching honesty, Micah illuminates the painful gaps in our healthcare system and the persistence of medical misogyny—and, more importantly, how we can begin to dismantle those barriers. We explore: The courage it takes to speak openly about taboo topics like incontinence, childbirth, postpartum challenges, and menopause. How narrative and advocacy are essential tools for transforming women’s healthcare. Micah’s Montana farm: a place of solace, healing, and self-acceptance that has helped her reclaim her body and spirit amid the storms. This episode is equal parts urgent call to action and celebration of resilience—a reminder that better women’s healthcare starts with brave conversations and compassionate communities. Note: This episode includes discussions of very heavy themes, including suicide. If you’re feeling fragile, you might choose to listen in gentle doses, on a different day, or skip it altogether. But know this: this is an inspiring conversation—and I hope it helps ignite a true women’s medical rights movement. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to the LaidOPEN Podcast 00:06 Meet Micah Larson: Advocate for Women's Health 02:10 The Inspiration Behind Modern Hysteria 04:13 Navigating Women's Healthcare Challenges 05:30 Addressing Taboos and Listener Engagement 09:29 Personal Stories and Medical Advocacy 11:46 Understanding Surgical Menopause 16:31 The Struggles of PMDD and Hormone Therapy 20:43 Challenges in the Healthcare System 30:08 The Struggles of Menopause and Misdiagnosis 31:45 The Last Fertility Taboo: Egg Donation 33:58 Women's Healthcare and Systemic Issues 36:35 Personal Stories of Medical Trauma 51:46 The Healing Power of Gardening 57:34 Reflections on Embodied Freedom 01:00:38 Closing Thoughts and Resources
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Ep. 103 The Pleasure Process: Keys To Cultivating Embodied Desire with Susan Morgan Taylor
07/28/2025
Ep. 103 The Pleasure Process: Keys To Cultivating Embodied Desire with Susan Morgan Taylor
What do you really want—and how do you even begin to ask for it? In this episode of laidOPEN, I’m joined by somatic sex therapist , a healer and teacher who guides people through the often-overlooked terrain of embodied desire. With over 25 years in somatic healing, Susan brings a grounded, intuitive approach to what she calls the Pleasure Keys Process—a set of practices designed to help individuals and couples reconnect with their sensuality, emotional truth, and authentic connection. We dive into how early wounding, stress, and disembodiment can short-circuit intimacy—and what it really takes to come back into alignment with your body and your partner. Susan shares how her background in massage therapy and intuitive healing shaped her path, and offers practical, heartfelt wisdom on navigating low libido, sacred sexuality, and the art of noticing, naming, and negotiating in relationships. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership or simply curious about deepening your relationship to pleasure, this conversation is an invitation to slow down, tune in, and reclaim the wisdom of your body. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to LaidOPEN Podcast 00:07 Meet Susan Morgan Taylor: Somatic Sex Therapist 02:48 The Pleasure Keys Process 03:20 Intuitive Healing and Somatic Work 04:50 The Importance of Touch and Consent 05:39 Navigating Desire Mismatches in Relationships 09:24 The Wheel of Consent 11:19 The Pleasure Keys Framework 16:55 Understanding Low Libido in Women 23:44 Exploring Sacred Sexuality 32:11 Exploring Sensitivity and Numbness 33:03 The Role of Physical Sensation in Relaxation 33:41 Martial Arts and Body Work in Emotional Healing 34:54 Understanding Numbness and Its Origins 36:25 Pathway to Emotional and Physical Healing 38:45 Sacred Sexuality and Emotional Depth 43:34 The Paradox of Polarity and Union 49:56 Sexual Freedom and Self-Knowledge 52:49 Practical Steps for Emotional and Physical Awareness 55:43 Conclusion and Resources
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Ep. 102 Strategies For Being A Better Partner In Love, Life and Everything In Between with Nick Brancato
07/08/2025
Ep. 102 Strategies For Being A Better Partner In Love, Life and Everything In Between with Nick Brancato
Welcome to the first episode of July 2025, where I have a fascinating conversation with , a relationship systems architect and author of Nick shares his unique journey from being a professional poker player to stepping into the world of personal development and relationship coaching. We talk about the significance of aligning priorities within relationships, enhancing communication, and strategies to maintain focus under stress. Nick also introduces his 'Prioritize Us' test, a powerful framework designed to help couples (and friends and anyone else you want to build a more connected relationship with) understand each other's core life priorities and values. We also explore coping mechanisms during crises, the concept of parallel play, and turn-based communication for resolving conflicts. Join us as we dive into these insights and more, plus we end with a simple mindfulness exercise that can help prioritize our personal resources when we want to accomplish something. Truly useful for all people. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to Nick Brancato 02:15 Nick Brancato's Unusual Path to Coaching 03:24 The Impact of Poker on Relationships 05:00 The Concept of Prioritize Us 06:39 Practical Applications and Micro Rituals 12:44 Understanding the Prioritize Us Test 15:15 Real-Life Examples and Success Stories 25:45 Personal Story: Overcoming Crisis 29:58 Creating Shared Moments in Relationships 30:34 Dealing with Cognitive Decline in Loved Ones 32:07 The Importance of Self-Care Rituals 33:15 Breath Work and Content Consumption 36:06 Prioritizing Growth and Understanding in Relationships 46:26 Turn-Based Communication for Difficult Conversations 51:38 Grounding Exercises for Mindfulness 54:47 Conclusion and Resources
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Ep. 101 Cultivating Love in a Burning World featuring Activist Dean Spade
06/17/2025
Ep. 101 Cultivating Love in a Burning World featuring Activist Dean Spade
In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I have an insightful conversation with activist and author about his extensive work in movements for queer and trans liberation, anti-militarism, and the abolition of police and prisons. Dean and I discuss his new book titled ',' covering topics such as mindful practices for managing stress, the evolution of his book over nine years, and personal growth in relationships. We also delve into the romance myth, decentralizing romantic relationships, and the importance of community support. Dean shares valuable insights and practices for generating internal safety and the importance of collective care in social movements. This episode is an enriching dialogue aimed at anyone interested in social justice, personal growth, and transformative community practices. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement 00:55 Introducing Dean Spade 02:01 Dean Spade's Book Journey 02:28 Healing Modalities and Personal Growth 03:05 Non-Monogamous Relationships 03:34 Challenges in Writing the Book 05:15 Self-Help Literature Critique 06:45 Emotional Awareness in Movements 15:27 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships 23:49 Self-Generated Safety and Belonging 31:40 Therapy Misconceptions and Realities 32:38 The Overuse of Pathologizing Language 33:23 Forgiveness and Self-Inquiry in Relationships 36:05 The Impact of Alcoholism on Relationships 37:28 The Process of Forgiveness and Healing 41:34 Sexual Trauma and Cultural Narratives 44:18 Transformative Justice and Community Response 49:52 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships You can watch this episode on my YouTube channel, just search . Plus, I have free guided visualizations and a host of other tools and resources available to you there and on my website at .
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Ep. 100 Embracing Silence: The Golden Path to A More Peaceful Existence
03/25/2025
Ep. 100 Embracing Silence: The Golden Path to A More Peaceful Existence
In this episode, Charna Cassell discusses the profound topic of silence, featuring an interview with Justin Talbot Zorn and Leigh Marz, authors of '' They delve into experiences and practices from their book that encourage finding clarity and peace amidst external and internal noise. The conversation covers the political and cultural relevance of silence, its role in addressing trauma, and techniques to incorporate it into daily life. The episode concludes with an invitation to listeners to reflect on their personal relationship with silence. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction to the Concept and Need For Silence 00:22 Personal Experiences with Noise and Silence 03:39 Introducing the Justin Talbot Zorn and Leigh Marz 05:37 Exploring Noise and Silence 07:11 The Impact of Noise on Wellbeing 10:35 Navigating Noise in Relationships 13:18 The Role of Silence in Healing 17:06 Mindfulness and Meditation 23:35 Embodiment and Silence 29:13 Finding Personal Pathways to Silence 31:08 The Essence of Silence 32:13 Scientific Insights on Silence 33:00 Holy Uselessness and Capitalism 36:05 Silence and Healing from Trauma 37:49 An Invitation to Silence 41:10 Self-Acceptance and the True Self 42:37 Sphere of Control and Influence 45:45 Cultural Perspectives on Noise 49:26 Silence as a Tool for Justice 50:40 Practical Exercises for Silence 55:11 Final Reflections and Farewell
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Menopause Unplugged: Health & Hormones at Midlife with Dr. Keesha Ewers
03/11/2025
Menopause Unplugged: Health & Hormones at Midlife with Dr. Keesha Ewers
In this episode of Laid Open Podcast, I welcome back Dr. Keesha Ewers, a specialist in integrative medicine and functional sexology. We discuss the critical yet often overlooked topic of menopause, highlighting how women's health issues, particularly post-childrearing, are neglected in society and underfunded in research. Dr. Keesha and I provide insights into hormone replacement therapy (HRT), discussing various options like pellets, patches, and creams and emphasizing the importance of bioidentical hormones. We explain why not everyone needs HRT and the significant role of lifestyle choices, diet, and exercise in managing menopause symptoms. Our conversation also delves into how the body communicates its needs through everyday signs like urine color, vaginal health, and bowel movements. Additionally, we explore the impact of trauma, stress, and genetic factors on hormone levels. Dr. Keesha and I encourage listeners to tune into their bodies and get curious about their symptoms, offering practical advice on how to start addressing menopausal issues holistically. Every episode is now on YouTube, which you can watch via the link in my bio or by searching LaidOPEN. Additionally, the best way to support my work is by liking, sharing, and leaving a review for my podcast. 🧡 Show Notes 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:15 Understanding Menopause and Its Impact 02:26 Personal Experiences and Medical Insights 05:17 The Role of Hormones in Health 06:48 Addressing Hormonal Imbalances 10:42 The Connection Between Trauma and Hormones 21:49 Managing Stress and Hormonal Health 31:38 Understanding Embodied Sensations 32:54 The Role of Energy Systems 33:52 Exploring Water and Fire Elements 36:14 Hormone Replacement Therapy Options 37:25 Genetics and Migraines 38:55 Personalized Hormone Treatments 50:11 Lifestyle Choices and Hormone Health 54:43 Final Thoughts and Resources
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From Prisons to War Zones: Navigating Vicarious Trauma with Mark Walsh and Christian Branscombe
02/25/2025
From Prisons to War Zones: Navigating Vicarious Trauma with Mark Walsh and Christian Branscombe
Today I welcome two previous guests from earlier this season to share their unique experiences and expertise on the topic of vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue. , an embodiment coach, trauma trainer & host of , and , a restorative justice facilitator and coach. Together we dive into the intricacies of vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue, especially in the contexts of working in prisons and war-torn Ukraine. The two of them share experience to help us delve into the ways self-awareness, self-compassion, and structured self-care practices are crucial for managing compassion fatigue. The conversation also touches on the psychological impacts of trauma, the importance of maintaining boundaries, and the role of spirituality and humor in coping with intense and challenging work settings. This conversation on managing the impacts of trauma in high-stress careers and situations may come as some comfort for you as the world around us changes. 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and Episode Overview 01:39 Discussing Vicarious Trauma and Compassion Fatigue 03:02 Personal Experiences and Coping Mechanisms 07:13 Training and Self-Regulation Practices 17:32 Spirituality and Self-Awareness in Trauma Work 23:27 Challenges and Strategies in Prison Environments 32:13 Exploring Somatic Models 32:44 Understanding Emotional Resonance 34:28 Challenges in the Prison System 35:10 Trauma and Re-traumatization 39:26 The Power of Ideas and Hope 47:09 Connection and Well-being 54:01 Self-Care and Boundaries 55:01 Conclusion and Contact Information
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The Song Of Life: Prayer, Presence and Connected Living with Natalie Silva
02/11/2025
The Song Of Life: Prayer, Presence and Connected Living with Natalie Silva
This week I welcome Natalie Silva of and . She and I discuss the power of self-love, community, vulnerability, and the integration of prayer in daily life. Natalie also shares how her relationship with former LaidOPEN Podcast guest, Erica Wright, has been integral to her healing journey. The episode highlights Natalie’s involvement in S Factor, a movement practice that helps women embody their sensuality and heal past traumas. Throughout the conversation, we discuss the importance of community, self-acceptance, and slowing down to truly connect with oneself. The episode concludes with Natalie singing a song from the animated film Dumbo, 'Baby Mine,' a song imbued with the essence of motherly love, as an illustration and reinforcement of her self-love practices. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to Pathways to Peace 01:18 Meet Our Guest: Natalie Silva 03:48 A Conversation on Vulnerability 07:26 The Role of Prayer in Life 22:07 Healing Through Sisterhood 29:25 Finding Support and Embracing Visibility 30:06 Discovering S Factor and Sensual Movement 32:02 Healing Through Dance and Community 33:50 Teaching and Creating New Movements 40:30 Self-Love Practices and Slowing Down 45:10 Asking for Help and Vulnerability 49:34 Embodied Freedom and Authenticity 51:14 A Heartfelt Song and Closing Thoughts
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Being (Sick ) Enough: Pain, Resilience and Healing the Self with Jessica Graham
01/28/2025
Being (Sick ) Enough: Pain, Resilience and Healing the Self with Jessica Graham
One of the best things about my podcast is all of the wonderful people doing incredible things that it’s brought into my life. People like this week’s guest, who’s returning to speak with me about their latest creation. Jessica is an author, actor and trauma resolution guide. Together we discuss Jessica's latest book, ',' and talk about their journey of writing, dealing with physical and emotional pain, and navigating trauma and healing. Jessica explains their methods for coping with pain and the importance of self-acceptance and flexibility. The episode dives deep into topics such as adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), neurodivergence, chronic illness, and the transformative power of both pharmaceuticals and meditation. The conversation concludes with a guided exercise to manage physical pain and create a better relationship with one's body. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction 02:05 Meet Jessica Graham: Author and Meditation Teacher 04:29 Writing Process and Challenges 12:53 The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) 23:38 Navigating Family Dynamics and Healing 30:54 Family Conversations Sparked by Jessica's Book 33:05 The Impact of Positive Childhood Experiences 39:53 Embracing Pain and Healing 45:12 The Journey of Self-Acceptance 48:09 Exploring the Role of Pharmaceuticals 56:53 Mindfulness and Pain Management Exercise 01:01:06 Conclusion and Contact Information
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Evolving With Your Alter Ego featuring Ruby Marez
01/14/2025
Evolving With Your Alter Ego featuring Ruby Marez
This week I want to acknowledge the wildfires that have ravaged Los Angeles, which also happens to be home to this week’s guest, actress, drag king and comedian, . Ruby shares her incredible journey of using humor and play to heal trauma. She opens up about her clowning and drag king persona . We talk about how embodying this alter ego has transformed her life and inspired a stage show built to entertain and educate. She also opens up about the ways she uses this alter ego to address trauma, self-judgment, and emotional healing in her personal life as well. Ruby also discusses nervous system regulation techniques and offers supportive advice for those feeling stressed or dysregulated, especially about the wildfires. The episode also touches on Ruby's community initiatives and workshops aimed at educating people on wellness and housing rights. Ruby also introduces practical exercises for nervous system regulation—perfect for anyone feeling the weight of the world right now. Tune in for an episode that's as enlightening as it is entertaining. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:05 Trigger Warnings and Coping Strategies 02:37 Interview with Ruby Marez Begins 02:59 Experiencing the Fires in Los Angeles 05:09 Navigating Trauma and Nervous System Regulation 07:01 Personal Stories of Displacement and Resilience 16:27 Creating Art from Adversity 18:42 Developing the Ramón Character 19:23 Spiritual Cheerleading 101 25:50 Therapeutic Insights and Audience Engagement 28:47 Embracing Emotions: The Key to Joy and Peace 29:00 Connecting with Diverse Audiences 29:30 The Universal Need for Emotional Education 30:34 College Students and Emotional Awareness 31:53 The Power of Performance and Presence 32:23 Overcoming Stage Anxiety 32:55 The Role of Somatic Practices in Healing 34:24 Acting and Auditioning: A Journey of Self-Acceptance 35:13 Understanding Rejection in the Acting World 36:06 The Importance of Self-Compassion 38:43 Creating a Supportive Inner Voice 41:14 The Therapeutic Power of Alter Egos 47:58 Practical Exercises for Self-Kindness 53:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Unlock Your Pet’s Secrets with Animal Clairvoyant Jessica Lindsey
12/31/2024
Unlock Your Pet’s Secrets with Animal Clairvoyant Jessica Lindsey
Happy New Years Eve! In this episode of the LaidOPEN Podcast, I’m joined by , a trauma-informed energy healer, animal communicator, and clairvoyant pet psychic. Jessica shares her journey of discovering her ability to communicate with animals and plants and offers tools to attune to these beings. We explore topics including different species' forms of communication, end-of-life support for animals, and the nuances of intuitive abilities. The conversation also touches on respecting the intelligence and interconnectedness of all living beings, along with a meditative practice for tuning into animal and plant communication. Jessica emphasizes the power within everyone to connect deeply with the natural world and urges us all to start refining this relationship today. If you’ve ever loved a pet and wished to be able to communicate with them clearly, this episode is for you. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to Animal Communication 00:25 Meet Jessica Lindsey: Trauma-Informed Healer 02:14 Discovering the Gift of Telepathy 06:56 Understanding the Different Clairs 12:04 The Intelligence of Animals and Birds 16:23 Communicating with Insects 21:49 Gardening and Animal Communication 28:56 Adopting and Understanding Rescue Animals 33:50 Understanding Animal Behavior and Coping Mechanisms 36:30 Supporting Animals Through Grief and Loss 39:13 Clearing Energies After a Loved One Passes 43:59 Animal Reincarnation and Soul Journeys 48:15 Guided Meditation for Connecting with Animals and Plants 01:04:02 Sharing Personal Experiences and Reflections 01:06:08 How to Connect with Jessica Lindsey 01:09:46 Course Information and Closing Remarks
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New Wave Psychotherapy: Charna Cassell In Conversation with Joseph Kramer
12/17/2024
New Wave Psychotherapy: Charna Cassell In Conversation with Joseph Kramer
In this episode of the LaidOPEN Podcast, I have an in-depth conversation with my friend about my journey into psychotherapy and sex education. Joseph is a sexologist and ex-Jesuit is the founder of Body Electric School for Massage as well as Sexological Bodywork and a . He guided a conversation where I shared my experiences working at Good Vibrations, where I educated people about sexual health and became familiar with sexological bodywork and somatic therapy. We also discuss my education at the Strozzi Institute and the impact of my training with Stacey Haynes on dealing with sexual trauma and nervous system regulation. I highlight the importance of embodied freedom and liberation, personally and within my work. We touch on mindfulness, energy medicine, and the necessity of continuous practice to bring about lasting change. Plus, if you have been wondering what somatics is I define it in this episode and get into exactly what embodiment means. Additionally, Joseph emphasizes the crucial role of being present in the body and the importance of being of service to others. I further explain the development and intent behind my course, Pathways to Peace: Mindful Practices for Transformative and Vibrant Living, aimed at providing accessible resources globally. The episode highlights the necessity of integrating the body into therapeutic practices and provides valuable resources for anyone interested in similar career paths. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction to the Episode 00:38 Meet Joseph Kramer 02:28 How Charna and Joseph Met 05:25 Charna's Journey into Sex Education 06:32 Good Vibrations and Early Training 11:16 The Strozzi Institute and Somatic Practices 15:52 Challenges in Psychotherapy Training 21:27 Pathways to Peace: Online Course 24:35 The Importance of Practice 29:27 Influences and Universal Truths 33:29 Integrating Somatics and Trauma 36:03 The Importance of Boundaries in Therapy 38:12 Surprising Client Experiences 41:59 Defining Liberation in Therapy 51:31 Resources for Somatic Practices 54:22 The Role of Somatics in Healing 01:02:48 Conclusion and Course Information
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Love Lessons: The Philosophy of Heartfelt Living with Zach Beach
12/02/2024
Love Lessons: The Philosophy of Heartfelt Living with Zach Beach
In this week’s episode, I explore a healthier version of intimacy when interviewing , a coach, poet, and yoga teacher who deeply explores the concept of love through various practices. His journey from a career in engineering to finding his purpose in love was influenced by the unconditional adoration he received from his parents, especially his mother. Zach emphasizes the importance of the body as an access point for experiencing and opening up, particularly through yoga and breathing exercises. We chat about the power of love in overcoming trauma, the significance of forgiveness, and how affection, devotion, and gratitude interplay in healing and cultivating a joyful life. We end the episode with practical advice on creating loving and predictable practices for personal growth and healing. Zach shares a simple breathing exercise to help you get back into your body and access your heart. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction 00:03 Meet Zach Beach: A Life of Love 02:47 Exploring Love and Life's Purpose 04:06 The Journey from Head to Heart 04:22 Modeling Love and Compassion 05:35 The Body as an Access Point to Love 05:45 Understanding Love and Trauma 19:28 The Practice of Forgiveness 27:43 The Role of Animals and Deities in Healing 31:59 Creating Meaningful Experiences 33:08 The Power of Senses 35:35 Attachment and Warmth 37:26 The Role of Love and Gratitude 38:46 Healing and Trauma 43:50 Micro Practices for Love 47:51 Trauma-Informed Practices 54:12 Guided Breathing Exercise 58:43 Final Thoughts and Resources
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The Codependency Cure: Unlocking Relationship Freedom featuring Erika Wright
11/12/2024
The Codependency Cure: Unlocking Relationship Freedom featuring Erika Wright
In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I chat with the incredibly insightful , a codependency counselor who spends an hour with me breaking down complex relationship dynamics and sharing wisdom on healing and self-love. Erica delves into her journey, discussing the roots of codependency within societal frameworks and the transformative role of spirituality and sobriety. From understanding the true meaning of intimacy and interdependency in relationships to practical exercises for grounding yourself, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways. Ready to reclaim your energy, set boundaries, and foster unconditional love in your relationships? Tune in as we decode codependency and discover the path to genuine connection and self-empowerment. 00:00 Introduction to Today's Guest: Erica Wright 02:07 Defining Codependency 03:53 Historical Context and Personal Journey 13:00 The Practice of Interdependency 17:58 The Radical Act of Self-Love 21:59 Sober Reflections and Reality Checks 26:20 The Power of Friendships 27:59 First Partnership Experience 28:43 Non-Codependency Moments 29:53 Healing Through Intimacy 30:29 Unspoken Understanding 31:31 The Power of Presence 34:26 True Intimacy and Vulnerability 35:52 Sex and Somatic Healing 39:49 Spiritual Practice and Healing 46:29 Grounding and Centering Practice 50:47 Offerings and Final Thoughts
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Beyond Perfection: The Sound Of Artistic Healing with Kennedy Ryon
10/22/2024
Beyond Perfection: The Sound Of Artistic Healing with Kennedy Ryon
In this episode, I welcome Atlanta-based musician . We discuss Kennedy's journey in the music industry, her experiences with self-doubt, the significance of accepting imperfections, and her creative process. Kennedy shares insights from working on the soundtrack for the Amazon show 'Expats,' the challenges of managing artistic blocks, and the healing powers of music and creativity. The episode also highlights the importance of emotional expression, versatility in songwriting, and the impact of supportive mentors like Kennedy's fifth-grade teacher. The episode ends with Kennedy's thoughts on gratitude and connection, a musical sample, and the importance of believing in yourself. Overall, this episode provides a candid look into the life of a dedicated artist navigating the complexities of her life and craft. 00:00 Introduction 02:27 Welcome, Kennedy Ryon! 02:39 Kennedy's Recent Projects and Reflections 03:52 The Challenge of Self-Critique 04:55 Letting Go of Perfectionism 08:24 The Healing Power of Music 13:02 Kennedy's Creative Process 26:24 Themes in Kennedy's Music 28:39 Breaking Out of the Box: Embracing Musical Diversity 29:48 The Challenges and Joys of Being an Independent Artist 31:07 Overcoming Creative Blocks and Self-Doubt 31:25 Navigating Audience Reactions and Staying True to Your Art 34:18 The Importance of Rest and Authenticity in Creativity 37:39 Finding Inspiration and Overcoming Doubt 41:11 Childhood Influences and the Power of Music 43:15 The Impact of Teachers and the Love for Reading 49:33 Concluding Thoughts and Evergreen Performance 53:31 Final Words and Gratitude
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Healing, Feeling and the Journey of Emotional Potty Training with Rachel Kaplan
10/08/2024
Healing, Feeling and the Journey of Emotional Potty Training with Rachel Kaplan
In this episode of the LaidOPEN Podcast, I welcome my friend and guest Rachel Kaplan. Rachel hosts the “” podcast and is the author of “,” which explores the process and importance of reconnecting with and expressing emotions. The discussion delves into the emotional challenges many face, like avoiding uncomfortable feelings, and offers insights and tools on how to move emotions through the body. Rachel introduces her 'emotional potty training' method, emphasizing proactive and reactive emotional release techniques to facilitate healing from core emotional wounds. The conversation also explores the significance of nature and reparenting in developing emotional resilience and the nuances of navigating complex PTSD. The episode underscores the revolutionary potential of feeling emotions fully and skillfully as a form of personal activism. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:46 Healing Through Feeling: Rachel's Journey 03:46 The Importance of Emotional Expression 05:31 Avoidance and Its Consequences 09:54 Tools for Emotional Bandwidth 11:18 Nature and Connection 19:29 Reparenting and Self-Love 26:38 Understanding Reintegration Work 27:12 Exploring Childhood Shame 27:44 Building a Whole Self 28:57 Complex PTSD and Shame 29:59 Physical Manifestations of Emotions 33:08 Proactive vs. Reactive Emotional Release 34:21 Core Wounds and Emotional Healing 36:39 Practical Techniques for Emotional Release 41:03 Deep Practice and Commitment 45:43 Navigating Trauma and Trust 52:22 Final Thoughts and Resources
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Jealousy and the Illusion Of Safety In Relationships with Dr. Joli Hamilton, Ph.D.
09/24/2024
Jealousy and the Illusion Of Safety In Relationships with Dr. Joli Hamilton, Ph.D.
This episode of Laid Open Podcast features guest , a research psychologist, relationship coach and founder of 'The Year of Opening.' Together, we discuss the challenges and opportunities of non-monogamous relationships, the importance of creating custom relationship dynamics, and the primal value of jealousy… because jealousy isn’t always a bad thing. Dr. Joli also shares insights on the fluid nature of attachment styles, the complexity of jealousy, and her own experiences with non-monogamous relationships. Listeners can expect to learn about the importance of agreements, navigating jealousy, and the concept of internalized polyphobia. Our conversation provides a deep dive into conscious relationship building and the nuances of managing evolving relationship needs. We also touch on the fluidity of attachment styles, the process of navigating differing desires between partners, and how cultural and personal backgrounds influence relationship dynamics. Dr. Hamilton also introduces her 'Jealousy Roadmap' as a tool for understanding and managing jealousy–a must for anyone who’s ever felt jealous and been made to feel bad about it. 00:00 Introduction to the Guest: Dr. Joli Hamilton 00:38 Exploring Jealousy and Eroticizing It 02:38 The Concept of Non-Monogamy 03:28 Creating Safety in Relationships 05:01 The Importance of Agreements 09:20 Attachment Styles and Relationship Dynamics 12:17 Navigating Non-Monogamy and Polyamory 18:43 Internalized Polyphobia and Cultural Norms 23:32 Seeking Validation and Understanding in Relationships 24:14 The Challenge of Conscious Awareness 24:57 Navigating Consent Violations and Unconscious Slips 25:37 The Complexity of Holding Deep Work in Relationships 26:01 Commitment to Loving and Creating Resonant Relationships 26:41 Sexual Trauma and Differing Needs in Relationships 27:34 Midlife Crises and Changing Relationship Dynamics 28:50 Exploring Sexual Autonomy and Freedom 29:59 The Importance of Slowing Down in Relationship Transitions 32:25 Desire Discrepancies and Non-Monogamy 34:01 Understanding and Embracing Jealousy 41:44 The Jealousy Roadmap and Relationship Customization 46:42 Conclusion and Resources for Further Learning
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Erotic Enlightenment: Spirituality & Sexuality Reimagined with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown
09/10/2024
Erotic Enlightenment: Spirituality & Sexuality Reimagined with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown
On this week’s episode, I’m excited to have the hosts of joining me, Dr. Willow Brown, a Chinese medicine doctor and Taoist sexologist, and Leah Piper, a Tantra sex expert. Together, we delve into the intricacies of shame-free, pleasure-forward sexuality by discussing the integration of Tantra and Taoist practices. Dr. Willow and Leah explain the differences between Tantra and Taoism, focusing on how both use sexual energy for healing and spiritual awakening. We also explore the concept of chakras, how trauma can get stored in the body, and practical methods for using breath, movement, and sound to clear these blockages. Leah shares her profound personal journey of healing from sexual trauma using Sacred Spot massage, emphasizing self-love and forgiveness techniques. The conversation also highlights the importance of micro-practices and how small, tangible steps can make a significant impact on one's sexual and overall well-being. Throughout the episode, Dr. Willow and Leah offer resources, courses, and practical advice for anyone looking to explore their sexuality more deeply, making this a must-listen for those interested in spiritual and sexual health. This episode, and the rest of Season 5, can be found on my . Please follow and like to help grow our community. 00:00 Introduction to the Guests and Episode Overview 01:49 Welcoming the Guests: Dr. Willow and Leah 02:55 Exploring Tantra and Taoism 09:19 The Power of Chakras in Healing 25:11 Sensuality and Presence Practices 35:06 Managing Nervous Energy and Stress 36:36 The Importance of Receptivity in Healing 37:02 Introduction to Sacred Spot Practice 37:39 Leah's Personal Journey with Tantra 40:12 Self-Love and Forgiveness Techniques 48:26 Exploring the Sacred Spot and G-Spot 01:00:40 Courses and Resources for Sexual Healing 01:06:11 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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Healing Through Transformative Power Of Justice & Advocacy with Alreen Haeggquist
08/27/2024
Healing Through Transformative Power Of Justice & Advocacy with Alreen Haeggquist
This week I welcome, Alreen Haeggquist, a women's rights advocate, lawyer, and author of, “Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma.” Alreen discusses her journey to founding her own law firm, which specializes in cases of sexual abuse, harassment, and discrimination, with a focus on trauma-informed care. The conversation explores Alreen's personal story of surviving sexual abuse within her family and how it has shaped her professional and advocacy work. She shares insights on the role of a survivor advocate in her firm, the importance of trauma-informed lawyering, and her transformative gratitude and meditation practices. Alreen also touches on the impacts of the Me Too movement and the challenges of addressing sexual misconduct in male-dominated fields like medicine and the military. The episode concludes with Alreen providing advice for those considering legal action and emphasizing the importance of taking immediate steps toward healing. Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction 01:51 Meet Alreen Haeggquist: Advocate and Lawyer 02:30 Founding a Female-Centric Law Firm 04:08 The Role of a Survivor Advocate 05:11 Trauma-Informed Lawyering 07:16 Alreen's Memoir: Fired Up, Fueling Triumph from Trauma 09:14 The Healing Journey and Empowerment 18:48 Impact of the Me Too Movement 24:35 Challenges in the Legal System 26:55 Supporting Survivors Through Legal Battles 28:47 Understanding Statute of Limitations for Abuse Cases 29:20 Challenges in Workplace Harassment Cases 30:34 The Impact of High-Profile Cases: Weinstein and Cosby 31:54 Power Dynamics in Medical and Military Fields 34:45 Unveiling Medical Field Abuses: 'At Your Cervix' Documentary 37:39 Writing and Family Reactions During Quarantine 42:22 The Power of Gratitude and Meditation Practices 47:44 Embracing Personal Power and Taking Action 51:10 Conclusion and Staying Connected
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The Freedom Formula: Carving Your Path to Empowerment with Allison Guilbault
08/13/2024
The Freedom Formula: Carving Your Path to Empowerment with Allison Guilbault
This week we welcome Licensed Therapist, Transformation Coach, and international speaker, Allison Guilbault from on the LaidOPEN Podcast. Allison and I explore the journey she took on her unique career path from working with the FBI and Rikers Island inmates to her current role as a therapist specializing in anxiety, trauma, and sex/intimacy in New Jersey. We discuss Allison's experiences in forensic psychology, her transition to private practice, and her passion for helping clients overcome shame and build confidence. The episode delves into the challenges of navigating significant career changes, personal relationships, and the importance of self-care and mindset work. Allison discusses her recent media presence, including an interview in Time Magazine about loneliness, and highlights the challenges and successes of working in demanding environments. Themes of self-empowerment, navigating difficult transitions, and supportive relationships are explored. Allison also introduces a simple daily practice for fostering self-compassion and positive thinking. Join Charna and Allison as they explore the transformative power of inner work and resilience. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction to Today's Guest: Allison Guilbault 01:36 Allison's Recent Achievements and Podcasting Journey 02:23 Discussing Loneliness and Post-COVID Isolation 03:54 Allison's Career Shift: From Forensic Psychology to Private Practice 04:48 Navigating Burnout and Major Life Changes 06:55 The Power of Self-Trust and Resilience 15:17 Exploring Shame and Its Impact on Mental Health 18:26 Relationships, Intuition, and Personal Growth 25:45 Shifting Career Focus 25:53 Attracting High-Functioning Clients 26:16 Personal Reflections and Client Work 27:35 Fascination with Forensics 30:19 Experiences at Rikers Island 35:29 Self-Care and Boundaries 45:57 Therapy and Coaching Services 48:37 Daily Practice for Self-Compassion 51:02 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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